Is this true love??

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi frds...i know many of u ppl are not gonna agree with this topic but do u really feel that these two are so much in love with each other that they can get married???I mean, how long do they know each other?And how much have they even spoken to each other?Everytime they come face to face, both keep their mouth shut especially navya.,..they have never had a productive talk at all...and since this whole thing is happening during their college times, it just seems like an infatuation...a strong infatuation u can say...that is why they felt like becoming physically close to each other before even professing their love to each other properly...i mean i am not saying that they necessarily have to say the three words I Love U...but still there are other ways to actually show that u love another person because you love him/her for what they are...I dont mind if they are having a great infatuation towards each other cos that is a part of teenage years...But to call it love and wish to marry each other so suddenly is too much...

Moreover, Anant might only be 20 years at the max i think because they are in college...is it right to get a guy married off at such a young age? This guy doesnt even know how to decide about something so important in his life (like marriage) then how is he going to handle a married life efficiently??
I hope you guys got wat i meant...i'm a married girl who has gone through this stage of having crushes and infatuations in my college life...which is why i feel that the love between anant and navya is not mature...ppl definitely have true love also in college days...so the CV's cud have done this a lot slower...by slow i dont mean that they should have dragged it more than it is now...the girl navya cud speak more and CV's cud have shown how the relationship developed between them through talking and understanding each other more...i'm sure that would have been more interesting than this hurried so called love, hurried marraige of anant etc...
first of all, when the promos of navya were aired, i expected to see a different show with fresh youthful concept...but the minute i saw the first episode and saw anant's family i knew that this is going to be the same old saga of saas-bahu problems...i wish they had made anant's family also a middle class family like navya's and bring some other realistic problem because of which they are not able to marry each other...i love navya's family cos it's more relatable...also from the promos i felt that they are going to show how the parents of teenagers can try to be their children's friends and help them solve their problems...but i dont see anything like that till now...
anyways i would like to know what are your opinions on this...do u feel it's true and mature love?

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Rupaldesai55 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ya ... I agreee...

It is more like attachment, attraction or infatuation... but all this things is only starting of love... they need to give time to their relationship for proving it to be true love... This is a daily soap...so obviously drama and twist will come which usually donot come frequently in real life...

I m njoyin😊g it ...but ya its still not true love...may be just a stepping stone towards it...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes rupal...i agree it is the stepping stone towards love...so they should still develop that, understand each other, get to know each other, basically TALK to each other more and then decide whether they really want to marry each other right? Maybe i'm expecting too much from a serial...how much ever i wish to see a realistic serial which most middle class ppl can relate to, i never get that from any serial...that's why just a little frustrated...fed up of these rich ppl's story or rich boy meeting poor or middle class girl story...in every serial of star plus, atleast one lead will be from a very rich family which gives more chance to put decked up sarees and heavy makeup
anyways both the lead ppl in this show look really good,they match each other also well...if the girl enacting navya's role that is soumya seth improves more on her acting, it will be interesting to watch the show
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lakshi, well said.. even i'm a working mother so even i can watch this show through diff angle...


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Posted: 14 years ago
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no dear i disagree with u,,
love is all about how u read some one without knowing him and heart don;t demand time , its totaly depend on how u care of someone else
in ""Chand chupa badal mein""...two of them love with each other but they didnt got married ,,,hamesha pana he pyaar nahi kehlata dosare ko kush dekh kar agar aap kusch hai to use pyaar kehte hai
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: riturani111

no dear i disagree with u,,

love is all about how u read some one without knowing him and heart don;t demand time , its totaly depend on how u care of someone else
in ""Chand chupa badal mein""...two of them love with each other but they didnt got married ,,,hamesha pana he pyaar nahi kehlata dosare ko kush dekh kar agar aap kusch hai to use pyaar kehte hai


Ritu, nice to see u after long time...


yaar CCBM story is entirely diff from Navya. we can't never compare Navya with CCBM. In CCBM they were childhood friends they knew each other well but here it is entirely diff.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hi shelly,,
i am happy to see u all back ,,missu all yr
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anya4eve

no dear i disagree with u,,

love is all about how u read some one without knowing him and heart don;t demand time , its totaly depend on how u care of someone else
in ""Chand chupa badal mein""...two of them love with each other but they didnt got married ,,,hamesha pana he pyaar nahi kehlata dosare ko kush dekh kar agar aap kusch hai to use pyaar kehte hai

Ofcourse dear love doesnt need time...and it depends on how much u care for someone else...and in love, seeing another person happy u will be happy...that is all correct...but that is not my point here...tell me one sentence that anant and navya have talked about regarding their interests, their likes, their family, their future, their career etc...anything at all?? have they spoken even one line about anything?if not, then that means they dont know anything about each other...i agree that in many arranged marriages also, ppl sometimes dont know each other at all.. but in that case they fall in love only after marriage and both the ppl are chosen from the same background and style of living...here, both the leads are from different environment and they want to marry definitely against their parents wish...for such a relation to sustain, there is a need for extreme understanding and communication,...my dear there is a saying, 'LOVE IS LIKE A DREAM BUT MARRIAGE IS THE ALARM CLOCK'. the same will happen in their case if this was a real-life situation...but ya after all it's a serial so we have to accept whatever they show
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i too wish they had showed how the love developed thru mutual understanding...but where is the time for that now when anant's family is hell bent on getting him married before the marriagable age for boys???
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anya4eve

no dear i disagree with u,,

love is all about how u read some one without knowing him and heart don;t demand time , its totaly depend on how u care of someone else
in ""Chand chupa badal mein""...two of them love with each other but they didnt got married ,,,hamesha pana he pyaar nahi kehlata dosare ko kush dekh kar agar aap kusch hai to use pyaar kehte hai



i agree wid u

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