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Was Anita conniving and manipulative too?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I chose the No button because if she would have been conniving & manipulative she would have done kalakaris like urmi & Rashi. She did all she could to get her love back.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i chose yes because in my opinion she is
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Posted: 14 years ago
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How did you manage to choose both options millli?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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YOu should not make a guy choose between a mother and yourself...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with Taral ben. Now a days even girls go out of their way to impress the guy they love. Here Ahem is not at all romantic, may be coz he didnt love her as he tot he did. But Anita's love was true. I had a long term relationship with a girl. And just coz she is modern doesnt mean she cant love. In fact Ahemita were well suited.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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For Ahem his world revolves around his mum and working hard and shining in his business. His personal upkeep, ie his taste in food, day-to-day needs and inspriational / aspirational speeches to motivate him, were all provided by his mum. HIs mum has brought him up like a well-oiled machine. His achievements are all due to this.
Anita was a small part in Ahem's world. She is attracted to what she sees out the outer side, his image, his achievements, his position. Where she able to fulfil his personal upkeep?
Another queston to ask is: how much was Ahem willing to compromise in his relationship?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

For Ahem his world revolves around his mum and working hard and shining in his business. His personal upkeep, ie his taste in food, day-to-day needs and inspriational / aspirational speeches to motivate him, were all provided by his mum. HIs mum has brought him up like a well-oiled machine. His achievements are all due to this.
Anita was a small part in Ahem's world. She is attracted to what she sees out the outer side, his image, his achievements, his position. Where she able to fulfil his personal upkeep?
Another queston to ask is: how much was Ahem willing to compromise in his relationship?


You are right he likes things the way he wants them, no compromise where Gopi is concerned, but perhaps if he was to open his heart to allow another person in there, afterall mum won't live forever, he will need someone to takes mum's place, to motivate him and keep everything on the home front ticking along. Perhaps Anita was smart enough to be this support system he required but his mum was not ready to relinquish all her responsibilities whilst she is still alive, it's up to Gopi to step up and shadow Kokila and know how to please Aham.

Eventually a few years down the line, he will have not choice but to accept Gopi.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms


You are right he likes things the way he wants them, no compromise where Gopi is concerned, but perhaps if he was to open his heart to allow another person in there, afterall mum won't live forever, he will need someone to takes mum's place, to motivate him and keep everything on the home front ticking along. Perhaps Anita was smart enough to be this support system he required but his mum was not ready to relinquish all her responsibilities whilst she is still alive, it's up to Gopi to step up and shadow Kokila and know how to please Aham.

Eventually a few years down the line, he will have not choice but to accept Gopi.

This is what nani has seen - she told Koki this. Hence Koki is working hard on bridging this gap.
As for Ahem he does not see Gopi as being a worthy wife for him.
This brings us to another question: What makes a worthy wife for Ahem? This calls for a new post.

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