Anita (Aham's Ex Girlfriend)

@Nafissa , i agree with what you are saying. I mean if Anita loved , Ahem so much , she would not have given up on him so easily. And making him choose between her and his mum, is a big no no. Also I think ,Ahem thinks he loves Anita, but I see it more as lust.

Originally posted by: winter30

@Nafissa , i agree with what you are saying. I mean if Anita loved , Ahem so much , she would not have given up on him so easily. And making him choose between her and his mum, is a big no no. Also I think ,Ahem thinks he loves Anita, but I see it more as lust.

Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

Agreed it was lust, she was pretty but she wouldn't have fitted into his lifestyle of with the family well.

If Ahem would have married Anita, he would have been worst off now. He would have been made to choose between the two, and Anita's true colors would have come out. They should still bring her back and prove to Ahem that Gopi is the right choice for him and his family.

Nafi,

i chose yes because in my opinion she is

I chose the No button because if she would have been conniving & manipulative she would have done kalakaris like urmi & Rashi. She did all she could to get her love back.

I would have to disagree...We didn't see enough of Anita's character to make this judgement. As far as money is involved, I think Anita was rich enough that she didn't need Ahem. The only thing I can conclude is that she was modern, independent and self-respected. And all of that would not have gelled well with the original Koki(she has changed now in my opinion) Anita's condition to chose her or his mom is the biggest proof on how she cared just about Ahem and her when it came to the last thing. I think she was more trying to save her relationship. She was hysterical and tired everything to save a long term relationship. The person that really didn't love was Ahem, who didn't stand up for her one bit. But that is a whole other issue. Umang's desire to get revenge on Ahem through Kinjal also proves that Anita suffered even after Ahem's marriage. Her pain was so deep that her bother was so anger that he hurt his own love(supposedly). So there are a lot of angles her. Anita's character was so short term to make any real judgement on the character. And as for doing so much for your boyfriend, all those moments were Ahem's memory, so it might have been a special thing Anita did for him. We don't know Anita's special memories of Ahem. Maybe Ahem did all the same things for her. Who says a girl can't go all out to impress a guy? I think if a guy can, a girl can too...lol

Originally posted by: taral83

I would have to disagree...We didn't see enough of Anita's character to make this judgement. As far as money is involved, I think Anita was rich enough that she didn't need Ahem. The only thing I can conclude is that she was modern, independent and self-respected. And all of that would not have gelled well with the original Koki(she has changed now in my opinion) Anita's condition to chose her or his mom is the biggest proof on how she cared just about Ahem and her when it came to the last thing. I think she was more trying to save her relationship. She was hysterical and tired everything to save a long term relationship. The person that really didn't love was Ahem, who didn't stand up for her one bit. But that is a whole other issue. Umang's desire to get revenge on Ahem through Kinjal also proves that Anita suffered even after Ahem's marriage. Her pain was so deep that her bother was so anger that he hurt his own love(supposedly). So there are a lot of angles her. Anita's character was so short term to make any real judgement on the character. And as for doing so much for your boyfriend, all those moments were Ahem's memory, so it might have been a special thing Anita did for him. We don't know Anita's special memories of Ahem. Maybe Ahem did all the same things for her. Who says a girl can't go all out to impress a guy? I think if a guy can, a girl can too...lol