Difficult to judge what Ratan felt...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Let me start of with the fact that we don't know if this show is scripted or not. Taking that in account, just for argument sake, say that its not scripted. In that scenario, Ratan's reaction to Shohib was probably right looking at her personality. We have to remember that not everyone is the same. What we might think was a harmless hug, might be vulgarity to others. For example, my mom, after my graduation I had wished all my male friends goodbye with hug, she watched me and asked why did you hug the boys, we don't do that. Some people are more reserved then others. Therefore, we don't know how Shohib made Ratan feel. As she said and what it was shown to us also, most of all the boys were saying "sorry" for touching her or asking before they touched her. Many even kept a decent distance between them. In fact, If you watch Ratan, on all her dates she sits far from the guy. Also, when Shohib tried to put the chudi on her, she said no, they don't do that in their custom (watch that part again with the lady selling the chudi). So its not the first time that she has tried to keep her distance from Shohib. She also said that "your touch was vulgar", that is what got me I guess. We can see someone touch someone, but we can't feel that touch. We don't know how it made her feel. I am not saying she is not at fault or she is a angel, but I would like to point out things I have observed that might say a lot about her character. I think the argument the NEXT DAY was stupid. I agree with Shohib, she should have said something right then. What is the point to yell after the fact. I think Ratan was not going to eliminate Shohib, therefore Rohit was eliminated. I think all she wanted to do was give him a strict warning and hope for a apology, but when Shohib showed attitude, is when things got ugly, again remember things are edited. What ever she decides to do tom. I think the argument was ugly that there is no way you can marry someone after you have said the stuff you did about them. It would be disrespectful to herself, Shohib and all the boys as well, that even after such a fiasco she kept him. A questions on Shohib's vulgar character was already raised few episodes back and what happen today might have even proved it. So I think its best for everyone that he goes, for himself also, as he said why would he want to stay after such a insult.
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harpkaur thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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very nyce wordz from u...i can understand...she felt it wz vulgar den it mst b vulgar...itz her feelings...we jst watched d show & said dat nahi it wz alri8..or she overreacted...nt 2 4get itz a national tv...shoaibz family iz watching...ratan'z family iz watching...
they should all be in their decent behaviour...ROHIT was decent & he was sent home...this channel iz soo confusing...they actully want those people who raise TRP...shoaib did say whu wud wana stay after all this..then there should no more discussions...he should just pack his bagz & go.
if after all this ratan still considers him as a DULAH..den shez out of her mind...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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ratan is not mature enough to take decisions,she should have said it during the photoshoot
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: rubal223

ratan is not mature enough to take decisions,she should have said it during the photoshoot

may b she did...probably the channel edited it out...her face expression showed her uncomfrt during the photoshoot
but dere pic was d bestt
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: harpkaur

may b she did...probably the channel edited it out...her face expression showed her uncomfrt during the photoshoot
but dere pic was d bestt



exactly my point, we should all really ovoid judging anyone on any of these reality tv shows because majority of it is edited and actually shown to confuse viewer, raise TRP. That was point I was making. Ratan was not happy from the few clips they showed of the photoshoot session with Shohib. She actually pushed away his hand and her expressions seemed pretty real to me. I could be wrong, but this just my POV
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It is an accpeted fact that Shoiad is not the most decent guy.
But Ratan is not a teacher in some school eihter. As far as i know if i ever get offended by any act of a guy i deal and confront it right away. Because that is the natural reaction. If u felt so bad and all wtt is the point of bringing out an issue so sensitive as though it happened to some third person.
I guess because the show is so boring she took que from one of Rakhi's swaymver whr soem guy kissed her and she made a big deal.
But hey ur taking a romantic photoshoot ur dancing and singing with a guy...This can happen even when the guy does not have a bad intention just because u created an atmosphere as such. If u are decent and all then u would keep urself away from such an atmosphere.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yaar ratan ko bura lagh raha tha... And other boys was so so cute, jab bhi use touch kar rahe the sorry keh rahe the...😆

mujhe professor sahab ke saath ratan ki pic buht achi laghi... 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saddiakhan

Yaar ratan ko bura lagh raha tha... And other boys was so so cute, jab bhi use touch kar rahe the sorry keh rahe the...😆

mujhe professor sahab ke saath ratan ki pic buht achi laghi... 😃



I also liked that their picture...I think the whole issue was about manners more then vulgarity...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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whose picture are you talking about? Syed Shoaib's and Ratan or the guy with the hat?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: natasha_1407

whose picture are you talking about? Syed Shoaib's and Ratan or the guy with the hat?



hm...i forget his first name but last name is Mittal...don't ask y I remember the last name. I think its Rohit. he is a professor, so everyone keeps calling him professor saab. They had a very cute picture...very natural and romantic all so. And they weren't even touching each other.. they were sitting back to back and just were caught in a laughing moment. I think it was very cute.

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