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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: JattiTude

ouch, please mind your words... calling a woman "barren" or a man "impotent"... doesnt matter how evil they are... in real life, thats not a good thing... please!!!!! I dont like their characters in the show either, but these words are little too harsh...

The word impotent is a medical term, so it's not meant to be derogatory 😕. If a man is incapable of doing what needs to be done in order to have a physical relationship with his partner he is impotent. I don't think the OP was being derogatory, merely asking if this is why MridAla are without children as of yet.
As for barren, while not in itself a medical term is still used commonly for women. But I can appreciate that it may not be a nice way of describing a woman's inability to bear children. And again I don't think the OP meant it to be harsh.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Rakhie_08 - Thanks for the support. Sorry if it offended any other posters, I was merely asking a question. I don't have anything against those characters or the people who play that part.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanks for the excellent update
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kt25

@Rakhie_08 - Thanks for the support. Sorry if it offended any other posters, I was merely asking a question. I don't have anything against those characters or the people who play that part.

Oh I know... you didnt mean to be offensive... I know I know...
@ Rakie:: Dear, I am a doctor myself and even if impotent is a medical term, we dont really say that to the patient... we dont just go to a man and say "sir you are impotent..." a nice way to say that would be "Gaushala & her hubby had problems reproducing or getting pregnant, or were not fertile..." just a thought... nothing to offend you or kt25 :-)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: JattiTude

Oh I know... you didnt mean to be offensive... I know I know...
@ Rakie:: Dear, I am a doctor myself and even if impotent is a medical term, we dont really say that to the patient... we dont just go to a man and say "sir you are impotent..." a nice way to say that would be "Gaushala & her hubby had problems reproducing or getting pregnant, or were not fertile..." just a thought... nothing to offend you or kt25 :-)
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Oh no I'm not offended at all. Sorry, I wasn't being presumptous, just trying to clear the air.
And believe me I most defo wasn't suggesting that doctors themselves would be that blunt or insensitive in the real world. What I meant was that your average lay person isn't averse to using such terms because it's so common amongst everyday folk.
But now that we know your a doctor (😃), perhaps you could shed some light on that completely mistyfying post SR epi regarding Bharti's fever!! 😕😕
A good number of us are married. A good number of us have children. A good number of us have experience. Yet none of us can work out what in the name of all things sane what the CV's were trying to imply!
I mean I'm no doctor, but I've read enough on 'little people' and their various types to gain atleast a basic knowledge of their condition from a medical perspective.
Is there something to what CV's hinted at? Or is it as we assume, just a whole lot of drama over nothing, for drama's sake??!!?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks guys for liking the update (hope it wasn't too long...tend to go on bit 😳) - sorry been awol just been a long week - plus it's UK school hols here! and as I'm just catching up with all the past posts ...Gau pregnant just doesn't sit well with me...it just seems weird especially as it's been such a long time or can miracles like that happen? not only that she herself mentioned that she couldn't be at Veena's wedding...hmmm

Glad Murli didn't jump on the bandwagon of keeping Mridala in..yes it's great news but it doesn't change a thing of what they've done..and for that I'm with Murli - let them get out to understand the consequences of their actions...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rakhie_08

The word impotent is a medical term, so it's not meant to be derogatory 😕. If a man is incapable of doing what needs to be done in order to have a physical relationship with his partner he is impotent. I don't think the OP was being derogatory, merely asking if this is why MridAla are without children as of yet.
As for barren, while not in itself a medical term is still used commonly for women. But I can appreciate that it may not be a nice way of describing a woman's inability to bear children. And again I don't think the OP meant it to be harsh.




Are we living in the 21st century or what? Words like obvious slang should not be allowed, I agree but reading this post tells me that I can't even use words like V or P and should refrain from admitting that I F and P and P?

People say "there are kids roaming in the forum" do you guys know that the kids today are MORE educated than your average 40 year old today? The kids are not stupid - they know people swear and that they don't have to! The kids know that some of their friends do drugs, drink and smoke but they don't have to! And similarly, kids today, especially those who lock themselves in the room and play video games are soaked in negativity through action scenes and internet know MORE of what is OUT THERE than most parents care to admit!

So please, let's not be unrealistic in the name of protecting kids (who already know by the way) what V and P stand for and that we as human beings F and P and P!

And, what 10 year old roams Adult Indian Serial forum? Most of us are here because we are IN LOVE (yes IN LOVE 😲) with Vikrant! Feelings like that don't stem from being protected, they are natural, like the FPP words! And the other half is most likely a house wife or adult enough to accept people are - what they are.

To keep the forum CLEAN one is refrained from using slang words and is encouraged to use CENSORED words - as if kids are too stupid to know what a censored word means!

Okay - that's my Sunday rant. Reading this post reminds me of how backwards we can be - very much like Bharti Sweets accountants who STILL do 'hisab' in old fashion journals and not computers that MOST companies in the world, not just India use! 😒




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