Jagiya, a social thinker - Page 4

Originally posted by: andv

@Anmol: Your reasoning about the CV's turning J character negative for TRPs is perfectly logical. But after turning him as a negative character who massacred his family's love for him, they cannot justify his right to choose. BV is a serial which claims to give a social message so they have to be very responsible with how they treat the concept. If they say that J is right in all that he is done just to use his right to choose then they are also sending out the message that hey guys who were married as kids there is are a lot more girls to explore in the world and don't worry you can use any means to meet your ends coz after all your wedding is illegal and also you have the right to choose. The world will be filled with cheats and a bunch of manipulative people. I do not say that J doesnt have the right to choose but he has a responsibility towards his family and specially towards A when she is directly going to be influenced by this decision of his. You are right what ever he said in yesterday's episode was true but at least a few of us on this forum (from the posts that I read) look at him manipulating the loopholes in this child marriage scenario to his credit. This is only a serial but this happens in real life. If the girl has no support system what is she going to do? The man enjoys his life with her and one fine day decides that she is not interesting any more and finds another girl and settles down. Is there no responsibility left for this husband towards his first wife? Just calling her unfit for him with one phone call and asking her to fend for herself is that humanity? Coming back to J he did share a long 10-15 years with A. She was and is a very good wife. Never did anything to hurt him, so does she deserve this treatment? He is happily making a new life for himself what about A. When she is not at fault isn't it his duty to see that she is also taken care of rather than dispose her off one fine day? But people like J cannot think of anything and anyone beyond them. And the Cv's are portraying exactly the same thing.

Now he calls his child marriage with A as a mistake and wrong but his child marriage to G as destiny's choice and always meant to be? What double standards is he showing? He should make some logic in what he speaks. Moreover he kept his married life as a secret from G. So if he has the right to choose, doesn't she also have an equal right? I am sure if she knew that he is married in the first place she would have never fallen in love with him. So his selfishness and cheating overshadows his right to choose.

Now about G. She as a character has disappointed me the most. When J told her about his imaginary friend in the car she gave a big long speech on how wrong the guy was and was mad at him to even being friends with such a person. Now what happened? She quickly makes a convenient exception when it comes to her? So she only gives big talks but doesn't believe in them. So like him I am sorry to say she too has double standards. Pl don't tell me that they are in love with each other and love is blind and forcing them to make an emotional decision. This is exactly what J wanted and hence manipulated the situation to trap G. Now she has no problem to live her worst nightmare every single day of her life? What logic does that make?

An lastly, I believe that no relationship can be peaceful when it is built on the tears and discontent of your parents and family. If J doesn't care about informing his parents about their marriage then why go to seek thier blessings either. To cause more pain to them? So convenient right?

Again I am not against his right to choose but the way he treated everyone as second fiddle keeping him and his needs first. He will fall straight on his face one day coz he has to reap what he has sown.

Lastly if the CV's show J and G marriage as a success, at least for me it will look like they are glorifying child marriage because of the wonderful filmy dialogues they used in the episodes

(BTW I am not trying to convince you but just putting my thoughts down)

well said & i completely agree wid u!!👏👏⭐️⭐️ @red dear i'd also voiced abt this msg!! u've written all the things which i might'd 4gotten 2 include in my post!!👏👏 @blue yeah hes quite a double standard & manipulative prsn & its clear even during his childhood though this habit of his encouraged by his DS!! @purple i agree as i m also quite disappointed by gauri's ckt but there was a bit unstability in her ckt earlier 2 but still i thought she might b reacting as she'd really suffered bcoz of her parent's stupidity & DS's selfishness!! @pink v.true!! i always believe that the relationship built on the tears & discontent of the parents & esply those parents who r so understanding & caring 4 their children!! @brown1 i believe in Karma & its fruits!! @brown2 so true!!👏👏

Originally posted by: ankit111

@Andv. First of all excellent post 👏 u put ur thought perfectly. As concern to joining this forum late, it was only possible thanx to ANMOL. Otherwise I was not regular viewer of this soap and never even visited this forum. We r friend from Uttaran forum where we hd a BAND PARTY 😉 😉 and we both were member of tht band bajao party. Fortunately for me and unfortunately for Anmol, he invited me in his GaGa marriage party 😆 😆 bas adat se majboor hamara band bajao abhiyan shuru ho gaya. Ab bechara ANMOL, he is cursing tht moment 😆 😆

Better late than never right! Am so happy Anmol invited you and few of your other friends to the forum. Welcome guys! its always better to put forth your thoughts with an element of humor. We on this forum generally have very serious discussions but respect each other's POV although sometimes poles apart. So the humor that you guys have bought in the forum is always welcome for me. Hope to see you all as regular members. BTW you can call me Anita.

Keep the posts coming!😊

Originally posted by: intruderfast

anita , u have to excuse me now , and thanks for understanding my twisted brain

i will get back to u later

abhishort mein likhta hoon😆

i agree with most of ur points except the gauri part, to me she has been totally innocent

as to j taking his parent permission, he had already told them , right , and his family has disowned him , and he has made it clear to a that he will not return to anandi,so i dont think it really matters , does not make much of a difference , thats what i feel

I know its party time right now for you 😊. Have fun.

But I was not implying that he needs to take permission. I was merely saying that he need to go to seek his parents blessings when he knows they are not supportive of his decision. Anyway you enjoy ur gaga shaadi party.

@andv Now about G. She as a character has disappointed me the most. When J told her about his imaginary friend in the car she gave a big long speech on how wrong the guy was and was mad at him to even being friends with such a person. Now what happened? She quickly makes a convenient exception when it comes to her? So she only gives big talks but doesn't believe in them. So like him I am sorry to say she too has double standards. Pl don't tell me that they are in love with each other and love is blind and forcing them to make an emotional decision. This is exactly what J wanted and hence manipulated the situation to trap G. Now she has no problem to live her worst nightmare every single day of her life? What logic does that make?

An lastly, I believe that no relationship can be peaceful when it is built on the tears and discontent of your parents and family. If J doesn't care about informing his parents about their marriage then why go to seek thier blessings either. To cause more pain to them? So convenient.