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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nb.neha

A very well written post 👏 well said without making use of any derogatory or indecent words...😊 Thank You!


avni is newly married. at first she fell for bhaskar's honesty n decency. inspite of big mouthed inlaws she said yes to the marriage just bcz she trusted bhaskar blindly.
she took all verbal abuse in her stride just because bhaskar use to mallow her down with his sweet talks.

now thats she is getting to know about bhaskar's real face n intentions she knows that nothing can be expected of him n that now only she has to keep fighting them all in the same way so that they get to learn their lessons plus there isnt any great family discord. all thanks to baba who told her to muster so much courage. I do appreciate that she is trying to fight, and make things improve. In fact, leaving home would have been the easier way out.. Avni is not going to give up though.

however, the walk out thing...this is india n u know it isnt easy to walk out of marriage so easily. girls in the society start from making minor adjustments n dont even know when they start making major adjustments...😕 just to maintain their family peace n so that their own parents dont have to suffer at the hands of indecent taunts made by the so called society. I really understand what you mean - society is the way it is afterall, and we cannot change it. To live in society we would have to live the way society specifies. Sad, but true.

no matter how much we advance the truth remains the truth. some things can never change. even if the guy is nice n sweet n respectful his family members would not like it completely. they wont leave any chance in instigating him.
moreover u know how a guy's mentality is. they can never accept a overpowering wife.😕
bhaskar is happy that his wife is earning more than him but in reality this becomes a matter of ego for the guy. Haha, I agree again! Similarly I'm sure in a way a lot of females (me too) also want a man who earns more than them, who can always provide for them.
so many times its been witnesed that girl has to leave her job or has to make compromises after marriage something like taking up another job or so.

guys wont mind having parties with their female collegeues but at the same time they would mind it of their wives work in a MNC or some company which involves interaction with males... It makes me so mad.. but i have to admit that it is reality!

truth is truth...n this show depicts it all. I am glad that there is at least one show where the heroine deals with such real problems rather than sitting at home wearing 2 kg of gold jewellery... 😆

if it goes beyond limit then divorce is an option. i hope it doesnt happen in the show n bhaskar corrects himself before this situation arises. I'm sure he will. 😉

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Posted: 14 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: nb.neha

A very well written post 👏 well said without making use of any derogatory or indecent words...😊


avni is newly married. at first she fell for bhaskar's honesty n decency. inspite of big mouthed inlaws she said yes to the marriage just bcz she trusted bhaskar blindly.
she took all verbal abuse in her stride just because bhaskar use to mallow her down with his sweet talks.

now thats she is getting to know about bhaskar's real face n intentions she knows that nothing can be expected of him n that now only she has to keep fighting them all in the same way so that they get to learn their lessons plus there isnt any great family discord. all thanks to baba who told her to muster so much courage.

however, the walk out thing...this is india n u know it isnt easy to walk out of marriage so easily. girls in the society start from making minor adjustments n dont even know when they start making major adjustments...😕 just to maintain their family peace n so that their own parents dont have to suffer at the hands of indecent taunts made by the so called society.

no matter how much we advance the truth remains the truth. some things can never change. even if the guy is nice n sweet n respectful his family members would not like it completely. they wont leave any chance in instigating him.
moreover u know how a guy's mentality is. they can never accept a overpowering wife.😕
bhaskar is happy that his wife is earning more than him but in reality this becomes a matter of ego for the guy.
so many times its been witnesed that girl has to leave her job or has to make compromises after marriage something like taking up another job or so.

guys wont mind having parties with their female collegeues but at the same time they would mind it of their wives work in a MNC or some company which involves interaction with males...

truth is truth...n this show depicts it all.

if it goes beyond limit then divorce is an option. i hope it doesnt happen in the show n bhaskar corrects himself before this situation arises.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Maahii-

I know! A lot of times I have myself felt that Bhaskar does actually like her, and would have changed for her, and shown a lot more concern towards her.. but there is no scope thanks to the overarching presence of his aai in his life..



see this bhaskar belongs to a species called Mama's Boy😆😡 ..sometimes he does listen to his father quietly ..but then his ego interferes ...he has grown up with the outlook tht money is bigger than anything in this world thanx to his mom

now mayb some thing may jolt him out of this assumption ..it would b better ..oderwise I want him to get a dose of his own medicine n realise money alone cant buy happiness

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Posted: 14 years ago
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well said both of u girls ...rather than divorce ...I hope they show how Avni's conviction changes the mindset of Bhaskar ...even a bit ...I hate broken homes

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