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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: armaanlover_7



🤣 🤣 🤣 This dialogue just cracked me up.Lol..opening another account 🤣
Superb! 👍🏼


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kutegal


I fully understand Whatever you said above... And I am with the CVs if they show him as Bisexual but not GAY !!!! If he is Bi then there will be hope for VIDYA and it will be fun to watch how she tackles this issue. Why lose audiences.
As far As TRPs are concerns YES THEY ARE IMP... 😳 Coz there are so many serials with different concepts trying to flourish but are not being able to. Dues to this fact the Channel will Shut the program if the TRPs are not going good... TRPs are the way for the Channel to know how well the serial is going!!

I think showing Gaurav as Bisexual will be a cop-out. The issue will still be there in his having to choose his partner vs Vidya and the TRPs will dictate he chose his wife, the heterosexual choice. 😕
IMO, they should show gaurav opening up to Vidya about his sexuality and become friends with her. Help her , stand by her and let her become independent. Then they should show Vidya learning to build a life of her own and preferably find a guy who is interested in her. That would be a more realistic and relevant story line.. and provide inspiration for other men/women in similar situations.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: naina_raina

I think showing Gaurav as Bisexual will be a cop-out. The issue will still be there in his having to choose his partner vs Vidya and the TRPs will dictate he chose his wife, the heterosexual choice. 😕
IMO, they should show gaurav opening up to Vidya about his sexuality and become friends with her. Help her , stand by her and let her become independent. Then they should show Vidya learning to build a life of her own and preferably find a guy who is interested in her. That would be a more realistic and relevant story line.. and provide inspiration for other men/women in similar situations.


May be watever you said is realistic too ... But I don't understand y being Bisexual would be cop-out !!! 🤔 I have a guy fren who is bisexual... He is Happily married to his beautiful wife now but He did have boyfrens in Past. Like you said he opened up to his wife, and she accepted him however he was coz she loved HIM... After giving him a little space he understood her importance in his life... NOW they HAPPY !!! I said They could show gaurav Bisexual coz its not something that is fiction... it happens in Real life!!! There are prolly more Bisexuals than Gay!!
And about inspiring men/women in similar situation... I think Gaurav being Bisexual could give men/women new Hope Too !!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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OK. This show is supposed to bring to light issues in our society and not the chemistry or lack there of the lead characters. It will be the same old story if the story is that Gaurav loves a prostitute...What would be so bold about that? Nothing!

The issue of homosexuality being swept under the carpet in our society is a real issue and needs to be addressed. The track has to be only that Gaurav is gay to be the bold show that it was promoted to be...

We are supposed to be concerned about how people that are gay are treated and forced to get married, etc...exactly what they have showed so far in the show and the gay track would be a first and it really needs to be addressed! And being bisexual would be a waste of a perfectly good story line...


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Posted: 14 years ago
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thats a news ... i m seeing some chemistry building between chinu and vidya probably first they will show g as gay and then go with young boy elder bhabhi tarck...my pov no offenve though
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@kutegal - I dont wnat the bisexual track because it could still be a pro-heterosexual track then.. I agree in your friend's case, he decided to be with his wife, but what about the cases where the decision goes the other way?
If for TRP they change the track from gay to bisexual, for TRP they may then make the same-sex partner as grey and then show Gaurav repenting and coming to Vidya.. To me that will be insulting to the people who chose alternate life styles.
Having Gaurav gay will be the boldest step to make and show the growth in story realistically.. and I would prefer Maryada to go the bold route.. That is all..
I have a number of gay/bi friends and engage with PFLAG too, so I do know that these problems exist esp in the desi community where homosexuality is still taboo.. I wish this show would really tackle those..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: naina_raina

@kutegal - I dont wnat the bisexual track because it could still be a pro-heterosexual track then.. I agree in your friend's case, he decided to be with his wife, but what about the cases where the decision goes the other way?

If for TRP they change the track from gay to bisexual, for TRP they may then make the same-sex partner as grey and then show Gaurav repenting and coming to Vidya.. To me that will be insulting to the people who chose alternate life styles.
Having Gaurav gay will be the boldest step to make and show the growth in story realistically.. and I would prefer Maryada to go the bold route.. That is all..
I have a number of gay/bi friends and engage with PFLAG too, so I do know that these problems exist esp in the desi community where homosexuality is still taboo.. I wish this show would really tackle those..


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