Love is Just like that....Defending Jai!

First questions first, do three incohrent words uttered in a state of complete intoxication signify love, or does caring, compassion and a complete understanding signify love? Does saying, "I love you" hold any meaning when it is only your heart that is speaking and not your soul? Does crying over a shattered relationship mean love or does breaking down in the arms of your partner mean love? Does remembering and thanking someone's warmth and compassion show love or does drinking to forget someone's heartless betrayal show love? Does someone who makes you forget your pain is your love, or does someone who's mere presence hurts you like hell is your love? If you know the answer to this, you would know whom Jai truly loves and who he thinks he truly loves...😊

Now getting back to yesterday's episode, I fully sympathized with Jai yesterday....how can he ever get over Pia....not because he still loves her, but because of the way she crushed his heart....the "I love you Pia..." was more of an echo of his deep pain than any true love for Pia! My heart really went out to Jai and Bani yesterday....and my god, Ram Kapoor was amazing....I just couldn't stop my tears in the scene where he breaks down crying on Bani's shoulders....and hugs her tightly.... 😭 I remembered the lines of the song which I had posted a few days before, "Sanam bazooon ke hasi daayre mein, roke bhikarne ko jee chahta hai....."

See that has what ultimately happened....he did end up broken and shattered in Bani's arms and cried to his heart's content! What a scene, it was so well directed!

I am the first one to critize Jai whenever he goes nuts, but yesterday, I empathized with him fully....its not his failure that he still loves Pia, its his weakness, he just cannot help it! Just the way, it is Bani's strenght that she loves Jai to the point of madness despite the black past they both share!

Love is something which cannot be explained, cannot be contemplated, cannot be judged and certainly cannot be forgotten....Just because Jai still loves Pia, has nothing to do with the fact that Jai cannot love Bani! It is perfectly normal to be in love with two people....because Love as such is an extremely relative emotion....it is fluid like water, it takes the shape of the vessle....

Hence, if Pia's love gave immense pain and heartache to Jai, then Bani's love gives him the security and comfort that a child gets in his Mother's arms....both are love, but both are different!

Bani's love is truly the most selfless and one of the highest order....she loves Jai and that is it for her....she doesn't care a bit about his past or what has transpired between them....she only cares for Jai!

And belive it or not, when Bani enveloped Jai in her arms.....even in his state of complete intoxication, Jai immediately senses it.....

That is why he remembers Bani's silent support to him and not the fact that he had expressed his love for Pia in front of her! Jai thanking Bani was not an excuse at all....Jai is not the kind to ever give excuses to anyone, least of all to Bani......Jai thanked Bani as a friend, for supporting him so selflessly when he needed her the most, for being with him without him asking for her, for giving him the warmth of her presence without Jai telling so much in words....Jai's thanks to Bani was not for saving the situation in front of Mausi, it was not for "not" mingling with Pia and Pushkar infront of him, it was not for supporting him when he fell down in his drunken state, it was not for letting him hug her when he was senseless, it was not for helping him lie down and put him to sleep when he got to his room...it was all that and much more.....IT WAS A THANKS FROM ONE FRIEND TO ANOTHER.....A simple Thanks expressing everything!

Jai doesn't have to hide or be shameful of the fact that he still loves Pia....so what if he does? Doesn't Bani know the same? That is why we all love Bani so much, but just because Jai still loves Pia doesn't make him any smaller or worse. Atleast this is my personal viewpoint! If Bani doesnt' see Jai's love for Pia as a deterrent to her love for Jai, then why should Jai see it as a roadblock? Bani's love for Jai is so unconditional and so deep, that it didn't matter one bit to her that Jai uttered his love for Pia...why should it? Bani loves Jai without any pre-conditions attached and nothing on earth would move the conviction of her heart!👏

Jai and Bani's relationship has the perfect foundating for a stupendous success....they know each other inside out, they trust one another blindly, they understand the other person like the back of their hands....they have no inhibitions in crying or breaking down in front of one another, they have no need to make excuses for their behaviour to one another, there is no place for an apology in their relationship and most important they both accept and love one another as the way they are......what else does one need in a relationship?

Trust me, the day Jai falls in love with Bani or rather realizes his love for Bani, his love for her will be as all-consuming and dedicated as Bani's love, perhaps more! 😊

MT

MT you rock. I always love to read your analysis of Jai and Bani -you understand the characters so well. You defend Jai when he needs it and you even blame him when he behaves like an idiot.

What Jai is going through is completely normal for someone who is betrayed. The betrayer bcomes an obsession because he is still trying to come to terms with what Pia did. It would be a tad easier if one never has to see the other person again and his case that is not the situation either.

MT..you are quite eloquent when it comes to Jai..Why's it like that 😉 ...I think its u'r posts praising Jai which makes us adore him more and more..And as for Bani n Jai..they are made for each other, they complement each other perfectly, its just a matter of time, till they both realize it..

That was an awesome analysis👏👏 . Betrayal in love is hard to forgive and forget particularly to a proud, distinguished & mature man like Jai - who does not take these emotions lightly - and that too being made a fool in front of the whole world by chit of a girl and a boy who he helped raise. I agree with you that Jai needed a complete emotional breakdown before he can see the bright (and beautiful) light at the end of this dark tunnel. Bani, what else can we say about her. She is truly one amazing woman (Kshamaya daritri so suits her to a T).

I believe today will mark the change in Jai's relationship with Bani. Till now, he only thought of himself and his pain, but this incident has probably opened his eyes to Bani's pain too. I hope something ever lasting and beautiful comes out this. I now think it is time for us to see Bani who will fight to save her marriage and convince the man she loves to the point of insanity that she is his one and only soul mate.

Thanks once again for your Live Updates and Analysis.

Love,
IU

Your writing power is superb.I love to read your updates and analysis.This serial is going very well.Hope,we won't get any stupid situations in this.

You are a stud MT, defending Jai ya!!!! 😛 But I totally agree with you, very well analysed. 👏 👏 👏

😆 Guys, as long as you know that I am supporting "Jai Walia" and not "Ram Kapoor"...I am perfectly fine! And yes, I am an ardent supporter of Jai and completely in sync with what he is going through!

Betrayal in love is one of the hardest things to get over with....and the fact that Jai still holds a candle for Pia despite the ruthless way in which she butchered his heart, just goes to prove how much the word "love" signifies to Jai....if Jai can still love Pia inspite and despite her thousand fautls and failings, then just imagine how much he would cherish and love Bani.... 😳

Jai is only a few steps behind realizing that Pia might have been his first love, but Bani would be his last and only love.....

MT

MT u r just GREAT!!!!!!!! ur posts r really gud

Mt your posts and updates are simply awesome Thanks buddy 😃 I just have no words to desribe it. they have all have touched my heart. Just like you I to love my teddy or your cuddles Jai. 👏 👏 👏

Asusual U rock MT, 👏 👏 👏 Thoda gussa to kaam huha mera 😃
Call me a brat or plan adamant, but this time i want to remain angry with him. 😔 As i said yday it is not that i dont understand Jai... but I DONT WANT TO this time around.
Somehow i hate Pia so much that even Jai having to utter her name makes me go mad. I am sure if it was Roshini or Sonali i would have been the 1st one to find reasons. But Pia... she brings the worst out in me. I would have reacted the same way even if he said I hate U pia. That is one reason i missed a lot of Kasam se
Mere gusse ka kya hai... see today i feel he wil put up a gooooooooood behaviour and i wont even remember why i was angry with him in the 1st place. 😃
Luv
Anu.