Samir Soni - On One Night Stands

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Are one-night stands forgivable?

GUL PANAG, ACTRESS

FROM A woman's point of view, it's not easy to take a stand. It depends on various factors. For one, the level of commitment. If it's a new relationship and you've been going around for a few months, there are chances you'll walk out. But if your relationship has stood the test of time, you may decide to give your partner another chance. I would love to believe that humans are monogamous but that's not true. Men just can't stop looking. At 50, in the post m e n o p a u s a l stage, your mental makeup is different. A day's betrayal is very small compared to a lifetime of happiness. But if you are 19, and have been betrayed I think you should kick the guy out of your life. In an arranged marriage, it's easier to forgive, as the foundation is a compromise.While in such situations,men find it harder to forgive women, women more often than not compromise, as they are financially dependant. Ultimately it's the strength of character, which is the key ingredient. If you have it, you'll pass the acid test.


SAMEER SONI, ACTOR

Yes it's forgivable, unless it's a pattern. We all are human and make mistakes. I'm not saying it's easy to forgive. The question of trusting your partner once again lingers in your mind, but if you are serious about that person, it's worth giving it another shot. However, if the person is doing it on a regular basis, you have a problem at hand. There are numerous opportunities and temptations available to everyone but it's the strength of character that matters. If you can slip, you will slip no matter what profession you are in, although I concede that in Bollywood and the world of glamour, such issues continuously hit the headlines since we are in the public eye. I've been through this. I know it makes you very insecure, brings up issues of self-esteem, self-worth and a whole host of other questions about the relationship. As for me, if I ever did something like this I'd die a million deaths, since I've got a very hyperactive conscious.

As told to MINAR LAMBA (Source: Times of India)

Originally posted by: artijain

As for me, if I ever did something like this I'd die a million deaths, since I've got a very hyperactive conscious.

Oh......I just LOVE this guy !

Also, lovely pic...time to change my avtaar ....

thx arti !

thnx a heap Arti.....😉

hmmmm.....so all u ladies out there who have been telling me that Purab was 3 or 4 timming me.....get ur facts right.......😡

Purab is ONLY MINE😉

thx arti.. and nice avatar yashi!!!



yaar ides, phir yehi baat, tum phi rtu nahin fasting kar rahi ho? Dehko behki bheki batay kar rahee ho, try to understand yaar...


Purab is only mine!!! 😉
(waise bole toh, samir to tumhara hai 😉 )

thanks, arti.

that's one good pic of him. 😃

FINALLY I find a photographer that does not need to be shot! Thanks for the article Arti.

😆😆yeeh photographer bachgaya mystry.BTW thx Arti.he is looking too good

that is so sweet of sameer. It is nice to read about people who respect women so much and think of giving them the best happiness they deserve..

thanks arti...😊