Whts going in Naitik's mind - Page 3

Originally posted by: AaRtINaKsH

I am not sure ki Naitik is very happy hearing the news. I think he is trying to be so, after watching everyone elses happiness.

He seriously looks like he is not ready to take the responsibility of a child. He himself is not sure whether he wants a child this time or not and if has to then will he be able to take the responsibility of a kid or not.

In my opinion, he just said ki he is happy after watching Akshara's tension and her darr.

Originally posted by: pvlaks

Zimmedhari shabd sun kar darr gaya bechara ... actually he is very happy ... actually he was not expecting such a news from akshara on that day ...and suddenly askhara says she s preg . so bechara tho reacted in such nice way...naitik ll take care of akshara and def ll enjoy the new responsibility ... and ofcourse achche se nibhayega bhi

Originally posted by: aparakshitij

He was undoubtedly happy 2 know dat Akshi's pregnant.But uske man me dar hai ki woh bachche ko sambhal payega ya nahi ya woh bachche ki responsibility properly handle kar payega ya nahi?With time,yeh doubt nikal jayega.Jo hubby apni wifey ki khushi k liye first tym kitchen me entry kar gudh ki kheer jaisa kuch bana sakta hai,woh kya apneaap ko aanewale baby k liye ya un dono ki lives me jo changes aa rahe hain unke liye prepare nahi karega?I'm sure woh books padhega ya Shaurya se discuss karega aur apneaap ko Akshi k delivery k tym tak fully prepare kar lega!

Mujhe yeh bhi lagta hai ki Naitik k man me dar hai ki baby ki wajah se uske aur Akshi k beech dooriyan na aa jay.Naitik Akshara ka attention chahta hai.Many hubbys r lyk dat.Jab woh office se thak kar aaye,they want wifes to spend quality time wid dem.Naitik is almost da same,albeit he's understanding.Woh Akshara ko pressurize nahi karta ki jab wo ghar aaye Akshi sare kam chhodkar uski seva kare!Bt he craves for her attention,nonetheless!Pehle jab woh kitchen me busy rehti thi,toh woh usse itna pasand nahi tha.Phir batware k baad jab Payal k saath woh rat ko chat karti thi,woh bore ho jata tha!Toh ab usko yeh lag raha hoga ki baby k aane k baad Akshi usko dhyan nahi de payegi & sari F*Ly bhi bas bachche ko laad karti rahegi.Toh woh thoda sa insecure bhi hai ki Akshara ka tym aur pyar dono hi batt jayenge.But m sure,Akshi Naitik ko aur unki F*Ly ko kabhi bhi baby ki wajah se neglect nahi karegi,Akshi waisi bahu/wife hai hi nahi!

Originally posted by: _charu_

sachi ! right now i saw the baby wala promo 🤣 n i was laughing all the way..itna bada event ho gaya hai jaise..poora song hai "naitik ka munna hoga ye akshara jaisi munni" n they have pasted naitik n akshara's pic on the baby poster 😆

nervousness is natural since he's seen his friend anuj struggling with the kids..but everybody's life is not the same..everyone handles their kids differently...

see, i'm not against having kids but naitik was abs right if he wanted to delay the baby plan...aage bhi karne hi hai but do it when you've had enuf with ur personal life...bec. after the baby arrives, everything changes...mujhe lagta hai after babies, the bond b/w husband and wife loosen up and bachon ke saath bond develops very strong...u tend to ignore, u have to ignore , u have no choice but to ignore ur personal life...personal life means ke the attention, love is divided now...after the pregnancy, the delivery procedure, the first 9-12 months , the life of a new mom is the toughest...sleepless nights, , bache par dhyan do, no other aim remains in life other than feeding the baby, putting him to sleep, playing with him etc. etc...but therez a joy in doing all this...he/she will be their flesh n blood, both will readily sacrifice ...at this moment , after delivery i.e., if the husband asks for attention frm his wife, then sorry, those days r history 😆 obviously then, over a period of time, a gap develops b/w the couple..priorities change.. u never know, naitik will pay more attention to his kids than akshara 😆...so it's very imp. that after the baby, the couple find out sometime for themselves n enjoy..few toh go in depression bec. of restricted movement (nursing mothers..PND , we had a good discussion on it😛) , in that case, they themselves have to work it out...like naksh live in a joint family, after the baby grows 9-12 months, they can leave him with his dadi ..best option hai...dadi itna pyar karti hai, wohi sambhal legi 😆 varsha is very smart in this respect