We need to ban valentines day!!!!? - Page 5

I think desi girls are very innocent. Almost everyone says well we don't celebrate v day, oh i care less, i am a lone fish, its a buiss, it is nonsense you know, oh i rather marry in jungle in t shirt and jeans, i hate big weddings, i m happy single, i have no boy friends, i cant afford all this in my life.

In their heart they wish they had someone (who the like) in their life lol..dont know this is my 6th sense. if true then this is very innocent of desi girls.

@ topic ..no need to ban anything. dont believe in it, ignore it.

Originally posted by: K-A-L

I think desi girls are very innocent. Almost everyone says well we don't celebrate v day, oh i care less, i am a lone fish, its a buiss, it is nonsense you know, oh i rather marry in jungle in t shirt and jeans, i hate big weddings, i m happy single, i have no boy friends, i cant afford all this in my life.

In their heart they wish they had someone (who the like) in their life lol..dont know this is my 6th sense. if true then this is very innocent of desi girls.

@ topic ..no need to ban anything. dont believe in it, ignore it.

@ girls being innocent:

I think you're still thinking about those days. In fact, I saw a few girls getting drunk and vomitting outside a hotel one day. They sure as hell arent being given freedom anymore.

I agree with your second paragraph. When valentines day comes, I never say "I don't need it anyway, I have better things to do". I just say hmm ok cool LOL I think the sour grapes mentality acts as a self defense mechanism against depression? That;s not being innocent, that's just being foolish by pretending to not want it. Call it whatever you want, though.

Agree with your last line.

We dont need to ban V-day celebrations, at the same time we dont need it.

Originally posted by: old-black-joe

@ girls being innocent:

I think you're still thinking about those days. In fact, I saw a few girls getting drunk and vomitting outside a hotel one day. They sure as hell arent being given freedom anymore.

I agree with your second paragraph. When valentines day comes, I never say "I don't need it anyway, I have better things to do". I just say hmm ok cool LOL I think the sour grapes mentality acts as a self defense mechanism against depression? That;s not being innocent, that's just being foolish by pretending to not want it. Call it whatever you want, though.

Agree with your last line.

Originally posted by: K-A-L

Hi obj. ok some good points. see that was my thinking and impression. maybe you can see my post in context of traditional desi girls lol.

depression is a strong word. i think it is innocence in some way. many of us dont have or dont get things we want and like and even if we pretend then its not sour grapes. nothing wrong in it.

u tc and dont u go anywhere lol.

errrr, do I know you? 😕

anyway, I agree, but love is diferent from other material things like fancy clothes, lifestyle etc. Loneliness is perhaps the worst thing that a human being(a social animal) can experience, so thats why I used the word depression.

Anyway, I'm just toning down comin to IF, might leave later on.

Originally posted by: crazy_sunny

birthday was only on the day I was born but if it gets celebrated every year then it has to do with love

why do we observe anniversaries?all sorts of anniversaries- birth, wedding, death, anniversaries of triumph and tragedies? They are milestones along the way.They help remind us how far or... not so far.. we have come since we started, they also make us think of how much further we still have to go.

People say, everyday love should be celebrated. It's true. People don't love someone more on Valentines day or something.

My boyfriend and I did not celebrate Valentines day...its like everyone is expected to give their partner something on THIS day and that's just not as exciting as when my bf would randomly get me chocolate or flowers when im least expecting it. We both believe that we should do things like that when we feel like it, not on a specified day!