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Hii guys
this is my second post,n gosh this turned out be an essay lol😃 n sry if i bore u guys😳
i'll start off with the first scene of the epi, the conversation b/w Alka and her dad. NNT said that chander can never be at the top n i actually agree with it. Chander can never be the 1st one, he can not lead but so what?? does that make him unimportant, or good for nothing?? NO WAY.Not everyone can get to the top. There's just not enough room up there. And that's really not a bad thing. Unfortunately ppl think that being in a support position means you are submissive, powerless n less important which is not so. In reality, wherever there is leadership there is followership.The two co-exist in every walk of life. Same is the case with Alka and Chander. Alka can never be a leader without Chander. N Chander's job is not an easy one.....his qualities are loyalty, patience, understanding and humility.
But at the same time I also agree with Alka to an extent with what she said in the precap, being a follower does not mean you become a ''yes'' man. There is a difference b/w supporting sum1 and trusting him blindly, the latter is foolishness. And even Chander's dad has warned him against it. during the initial stages of d indu-ramesh case when Chander decided not to help Alka cos of pressure frm NNT, his dad told him that he shud do what he thinks is right. Followers need to have critical thinking skills and to assert their opinions and ideas. one who jus does wtvr the leader says without utilizing his own talent and mind is not a good follower. Touching someone's feet and showing gratitude requires humility and a heart as large as that of Chander but accepting and recognizing that gesture and taking it in the right also takes a high EQ level which NNT does not have. Inspite of being a politician its sad that NNT has not realised the importance of a dedicated and loyal follower like Chander.
We always say that behind every successful man there is a woman but can't the opposite also be true?? well it is for ChAlka....Chander is one of the ppl who help a leader to become successful. In fact our own Indian mythology is the biggest example of this where Krishna bhagwaan himself did not play warrior but Sarrthi.....he said that if u see one way, sarrthi has no role to play in a war, he jus has to follow the instructions of the one sitting on the chariot but if he wants he can completely turn the war the way he wants cos he is the only one so close to the warrior at that time and can really shape the war.he provides the warrior with the insight and knowledge needed at the time of decision making That's what Chander's role exactly is. he has to advice her when she's in dilemma, calm her in panic, boost her up when she is low and most importantly love her always.Being a follower means you need to be actively engaged in the success of the leader. Otherwise, the leader could soon fall from grace.
Cheers!
Shilpa
Anupamaa
