Firstly, how is Jai going to bring his threat/warning to Bani come true phase by phase? Any guesss' as to what his first "gift" to Bani might be?
I feel Jai will still go ahead and get Pushkar arrested in the next 2-3 hours. He will come back to Bani as tell her so what if she got them married, they still wont escape from him. He will get more dangerous and so very wrong. After yday u will see a cold, possessed Jai, devoid of all emotions. 'Beware Bani' is all I have to say.
Secondly, now that Bani has fulfilled her duty towards Pia and has got her married, she is rest assured from her side (till ofcourse Pia comes running back to Bani for more help! ) do you think that Bani will now only be a wife to Jai (a good one) and her duty as a sister will be secondary to Jai's happiness?
I would wish, but Pia's problems are far from over, she is going to be a constant in Bani's life. As far as I can see I will be surprised(pleasantly though) if she chooses Jai over Pia. Even if Pia keeps away for sometime there is Rano and Sahil track which will keep Bani busy, I don't know how Jai will react to that track.
Thirdly, do you think that Bani will continue being rebellious and outwitting Jai the way she did last week or will she revert back to her post-marriage attitude of silent acceptance?
I cant say⦠she has become unpredicatable. But I feel she will stay silent and observe Jai's moves for sometimes, might give him another jatka⦠can never say. That way I think the track will stretch on for longer.
Fourthly, Bani does look terribly guilty when Jigyasa accuses her of going against her husband's interest and by doing so she has broken off all her ties with him and this house. Knowing Bani, do you think she will make extra efforts to win back Jai, even if he is monstrous towards her?
I believe the unspoken and the not always obvious tenderness that Jai had for Bani is OVER. Bani put her relationship with Jai at stake by taking Pia's side⦠and she lost out on Jai. If this relationship has a future then it has to start fresh, from scratch. What remains to be seen is how deep is their unrealized love for eachother that will hold them together till they sort out pain and differences they have caused eachother.
Fifth, a very hypothetical question. Leave aside what Bani will do from next week onwards, just tell your views on what she should do from now onwards? Stay away from Jai's view and way, try and keep defending herself without offending him, be all offensive against him so that she can outsmart him before he comes up with anything or just go all out loving and caring for him with sincerity and selflessness, and keep hoping that the ice between them will break one day!
For starters⦠stay away from Jai(atleast for another 48 hours). Let him deal with it alone. No point in adding to his frustration by confusing him with caring gestures. Another advice to Bani, speak up against him if u have to do, instead of acting against him. I know it is difficult to get Jai to listen, but I have observed Jai always allows her to have her word⦠he believes it or not, it lingers on his mind for longer than he would wish. If u plan to outwit him again be prepared for the vicious cycle u will land urself in. Jai wont back outā¦unless he knows he has something more worthwhile back home. As of now he thinks there is no one for him and he is as good as dead.
And Bani dear if u realize u love this man and want this relationship to work, u should be ready to give it what it takes, u cant back out in between. U need to have the heart, courage, patience to love someone like Jai Walia. Are u ready to accept Jai with his positives and negatives. Can u love him selflessly and overlook his actions he takes on the rebound of his troubled heart? Will u be able to refrain urself from being judgemental about his actions? Are you willing to love him unconditionally?(by that I don't mean she bears his insults silently) If yes, then I am sure though late Jai will come around. And trust me when he does come around⦠Bani will be the most loved, cherished and happiest woman on the face of this planet.
That is it from meā¦
Bye for now.
Luv
Anu.
Edited by anushka_5 - 19 years ago