avni

I like that avni wants to help her family after marriage but I think its little unfair to her future in laws ….. she should not give all of her money to her family, maybe she should split the money in half and help both of the families …… if her future in-laws were rich or her husband was gar jamai then it would have been ok for her to help her family …. Frankly I don't think she is ready for marriage, she wants to do so much for her family and after marriage it would make it hard for her to do that ….. but if the groom side agrees with her condition then they should not object when she gives the money to her family …..

i do like avni .... i think she is great daughter no doubts about that .... but i just find the money thing little tricky and i see that many of u guys respect her for that and i do too but i don't support her 100% on helping her family ..... i think she should not get marry yet .....

I agree its a tricky situation...
first of all her decision actually was, to not get married till one of her siblings became financially independent to support the family... but just out of respect for her mother's emotions she agreed, but put forth her conditions....

I too feel to some extent you are right ...about giving all the money to her maayka... what if she was living alone with her husband and his salary alone was not enough to run the house she wud have had to contribute some amount...
and lots of situations can arise even in her married life ...where in certain situations she might have to contribute at the inlaws where she stays....as they also become a part of her family

thats why her decision to wait was perfect... but due to mother's pressure she has taken whatever she felt was the right decision ... and thankfully she is very strong, as to clearly state her situation/demands right at the begining itself ...now, its upto the guy who marries her, to decide whether he agrees or not....

yes i know her mother is pushing for marriage and she can't do much about it ..... but her mother should try to understand the way her daughter is but she is mother of course she wants her daughter married ..... mashkar/sachin is perfect for her ....

avni should support her family forever..its her family...she was born and brought up here....and she can spend her salary wherever she wants...why should people interfere??

Originally posted by: trupat

I like that avni wants to help her family after marriage but I think its little unfair to her future in laws '.. she should not give all of her money to her family, maybe she should split the money in half and help both of the families '' if her future in-laws were rich or her husband was gar jamai then it would have been ok for her to help her family '. Frankly I don't think she is ready for marriage, she wants to do so much for her family and after marriage it would make it hard for her to do that '.. but if the groom side agrees with her condition then they should not object when she gives the money to her family '..

i do like avni .... i think she is great daughter no doubts about that .... but i just find the money thing little tricky and i see that many of u guys respect her for that and i do too but i don't support her 100% on helping her family ..... i think she should not get marry yet .....

Hi

Originally posted by: gublu

Hi

I like Avni very much, she is alraedy in soft hearted in every ppl........As a daughter I truely respect n love her emotions towards her family.

She is not bothered about her maariage or future but her pure love for her mom n bro n sisters.....every girls should be like Avni...Children forget everything as they grow but that's wrong...mother is a mother....All The Best to Avni n hope her would be in laws too understand her feeling one day