Sandhya: To re-marry, or not to re-marry?

1. Is marriage something Sandhya just has to do? Or does she have alternatives, like living alone in her baba's house, learning how to read & write standard (not Braille), then get a job and support herself on her own? Or even work in the palna-ghar that is going on in that home - helping Sakshi-di w/ the kids and getting a minimal income for herself that helps her eat? The house after all is in her name as well - no rent or mortgage!
   
2. Aside from Neeraj, is it even likely that Sandhya can even find somebody who won't object to the fact that she was previously married? And in the process of explaining things, wouldn't she make it seem more gross, and in the process, paint herself pretty unfavorably?
3. Is Sandhya justified @ all in bemoaning her having to return to her maayka?
   
4. Are the sisters right in bringing up this question now? Are they justified on the grounds that they too have their own families to pay attention to, and can't indefinitely stay w/ Sandhya @ her father's home?
   
5. Or should they have waited until Sandhya was back from Neeraj's place? After all, unless she marries him, she's not going to stay w/ Neeraj indefinitely!
6. Should Neeraj first either find a job, or accept his inheritance from Dadaji's family b4 he decides to marry Sandhya?
   

I'm baaaaaaaack! 😉

And oh boy, what a development in RS. Wow! Loved it!

So back to your questions, Vrish.

What I found pretty weird regarding the Neeraj & Sandhya-relationship is that there are no signs of affection. Don't take me wrong, I know they love each other, but when I made the Neerdhya videos and watched the moments where Sandhya had the leftovers of his belongings, I would assume she would show more feelings towards him. Like a hug? 😳
On one hand, she's afraid of "who wants her" but she has feelings for him. Maybe she's afraid of expressing the latter because Neeraj's pretty much isn't doing much? 😆 Oi mundeya, get a grip, and take the first step! I think it's okay that her sisters wish her to get married, because Sandhya deserves to have a normal life instead of struggling alone. After all, they are her sisters and want her the best.

It is difficult to live alone without a spouse, but not impossible. I would prefer that she had an external support aside from her sisters, Neeraj. And by marrying him she would get encouraged that although you've previously been married, one can still marry again and live a happy life.

Again, it depends on the culture. Do people object the fact that a woman can marry second time? If yes, then it will be difficult - but Sandhya has something any becoming MIL would love to have a part of : Money and property. 😆

I would like Neeraj to work his way up alone with the only support from Sandhya. No need to to accept the his part of the inheritance from Dadaji's family.

Originally posted by: _Vrish_

^^^ I agree w/ this, which is why I'm surprised that the majority of those who polled above don't believe in a cooling-off period!