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I am not sure why the writers insist on forcing Kinjal to marry a man against her will as some form of punishment for falling for Umang. I do not understand why her own brother, miserable in his own marriage, insists on forcing his own sister to marry a man against her wishes. It does not matter HOW wonderful ANYONE thinks he is on this forum or much you hate Kinjal, but the whole concept is wrong. OF course the writers will try to justify the decision is good to hold on to old age traditions that only the parents know what is best.
It is disappointing to watch a young girl beg and plead to her parents and family who did not get it that a young girl didn't want to marry a man who was not of her choice. She's already dealing with a betrayal and rather than realize she has learned her lesson, they've decided to punish her further and dig themselves deeper into a grave by building relations with a woman they loathe. Koila deserves everything she gets at this point. She hated the rishta in the first place and when she had the choice to back out of it, she went ahead with the decision. So what if two weddings are called off, no longer is forever doomed without a ristha unless is unattractive. I've seen plenty of rich girls with bad reputations (sleeping around etc) find good rishtas. We need to get out of this 19th century thought pattern and quit ruining the lives of so many women.
