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Posted: 14 years ago
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yeah people do change with time n with shifting to new place bt only when someone already have dream of being richie rich😆
shaarda ko dekh k hi lagta hai... she want to be rich n rule all over😛

neeru is too sweet n listening her sister's rude talks bt its her love... n innocence soon she'll be stong wen her chandu will come😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Dolly!! Thanks for letting me know of this DOTW,,

Just give me sometime, I'll be back with my answers.. Am in hurry right now..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dolly18

heya guys hello shello.. kaise ho sab???

ekdum fine😎😆

okay i wont speak any more rubbish here 🤣🤣
but some straight to the topic.. as we have seen the dotw and gotw sign up sheet is ready to be used from next week.. and luckily by next week we will have bth are heroes kapil n jun in the show!!!!😳
so obviously the dotw will revolve around there chracters !!!
so i was thinking to use this opertiunity(of heroe's absense😭) to discuss a topic that we wont think of later!!!
so here is the DOTW
pls share your veiws on the following pionts...
*do u think coming from a small village to a big city can change an individual as much as it had done to saarda???
yes....being in a new city ..& with new power & money that she earlier didn't had must have chnaged her...though i guess she must had a greedy steak inside her from childhood
* do u find her behaviour justified??

no ways- she's stupid & funny but at the same time plain evil- she's going to be the worst to chandu later on i feel
* do you find the easy acceptance of her sister's rudeness by niru and her father acceptable??

it's not a
cceptable..but
then niru has no choice- she needs her sister;s financial support for her dad's treatment

*do u think future might change it all???

yes future might change it all- either she'l become a better person or a more evil person but she'l change for sure..........lol

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Posted: 14 years ago
#24
Ok am back with my take on ur questions Dolly..
@All: great answers! 😊

Originally posted by: dolly18

*do u think coming from a small village to a big city can change an individual as much as it had done to saarda???
hM.. I think it can.. Especially if you dream of being rich when you're extremely poor.. To become rich you tend to adopt any way of making money and the same has happened with Sardha.. Its pretty clar for me that she's a big time greedy person!! But the question can be answered more correctly if we knew how she was in her gaon at that time? Maybe she was like tht since the beginning like always degrading her own fmily and being exta rude! Maybe thats why she was thrown to get married this soon!! 🤣
* do u find her behaviour justified??
nopzz! not at all!! but the facT is that she is needed to make Niru's life hell and make her go through the hardships of life!! 😔 But no worries, our Chandu is gonna enter to save her!! 😳
* do you find the easy acceptance of her sister's rudeness by niru and her father acceptable??
hmm.. i guess i do!! 😳 (people dont throw shoes at me).. but oh well.. i guess that is true.. i mean niru's acceptance of sardha's rudeness.. coz look she has come to get a favour and she is more worried for her dad to get the treatment done so she knows that she will have to compromise over some stuff.. Remember the dialogue 'Kuch paane k lye kuch khona b parta hai' ? This is that dialogue situation..
*do u think future might change it all???
Maybe or maybe not.. Depends on how the story proceeds.. Too early to comment on this.. Abhi toh sirf show start hua hai!! 😆 😆

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: usmrasul

dolly...frankly speaking...its not as strange as you are feeling right now.........................people of same family can and most often do act very different................in fact thats how the world is balanced i feel..............

and about changing so much after marriage, yes........have seen that too....besides many girls and boys do want to marry not only to fulfill thier desire but also because they cant stand their blood relations anymore and want to be free of them and be thier own master and have own family....it sounds bad and sad i know...but thats what happens...not all the time...maybe not most of the time....but some of the time...yes ...absolutely

and yes...maybe she was like this from childhood...but than again the hard life in city, want for money and the glitters of better living can make people blind too

hmmmmmmmm u gt me thinking yaar!!!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi!! 😳
Just thought I would add my opinion too.
According to me, people can change a lot once their circumstances changes. It is very common in reality. A lot of people dislike their past life because of the trouble and problems they had. People who face financial difficulties early in life always want to earn money so that they dont have to live like before. I think thats what has happened with Sarada.

Not necessary that these changes are good, but man always changes to improve himself 😊


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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanku soo much guys forr all your opinionsssss muahss muahs muahs snn muahss
n where is the rest of the pmmka gang bhai jaldi aaoo !!!! week k bas kuch din hi aur bache hain by god
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dolly Dolly I am here and thank you for calling me one of your gang.....😆
Yes I have to agree with most ppl here that ppl can change with their past experiences and if they are striving for a certain kind of life which they eventually get - yes that can happen and a drastic behavioural change can be the result...
I have not seen any of the epis except the first one and I have to agree with one of the posts here that - even tho the sisters behaviour is not justified here - her character is needed to make us feel sorry for the lead protagonist in this show.... the more we hate the sister the more we will feel soft and sympathetic towards Niru and the more we will love Chandu/Sarje for saving her from this misery....
Sorry for repeating all that is mentioned in other posts but I did not have anything different to say here😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Dolly

thanks for this thread .....

well most of my answers will revolve around one logic ...........

1. Well YES, doesnt matter from where a person come , if that person had big dreams and know how to make it come true doesnt matter where that person is from .......

2. Some times Yes and Sometimes NO , to survive one need to be harsh , but not that harsh ki they dont differentiate relations .............

3. YES, it hints that Sharada was on same lines when she was in village too , everyone in village were having their own doubts about sharada accepting them and treating them , so may be she was like this from a long time

4 . Future is unpredictable in shows , Sharada will show slight symptoms of changes but not drastic , she is not a bad person , she is blown away with power and greedy of earning more, once she sees reality of life , and value of relations things may change

did i make sense , well i guess i did

loved answering them
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Posted: 14 years ago
#30
Nice discussion.
I guess sharda was not a nice person since the begining. ( everyone told niru in her village that sharda wont let her stay there)
Yes change of place might influence a person's behaviour.( might not be ture for sharda, but it happens. I shifetd from a small city to metro..)
sharda is not justified at all!!
I dont think she will change in future.

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