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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hi guys!

I just wanted to express myself and share my sorrows with you guys. I still can't get over the passing of two great souls.

It feels so different with out them. The absence of these two individuals is so hard to deal with. I feel like the very essence of IF has been diminished.

How do we fill this void?

I just want to add that Maheen and Aashraya have taught me a great life lesson, something I didn't learn myself in 27 years. God Bless you both!

Peaches.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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you are right peaches!IF is a different place without them. they taught us how to make people happy without disclosing own sorrows!

i salute to those brave girls.

may their souls rest in peace!

Amen.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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hi peaches

my name is shraddha, and I live in london. well, the happenings at IF have deeply affected all of us. we must however conjure all our spirits together and be a support for each other on this sad occassion.

i know one of my husband's friends who lost his mother. he had fought with his mother the night before she passed away. he has still not been able to get over the fact that the last conversation with his mother was an arguement.

we can feel relieved that we have not done or said anything to make ashraya or maheen sad, before they were leaving this world. Even if we did end up fighting/arguing with them, as long as they know that we have not done anything to hurt them, or as long as they have not left this world with a heavy heart against any one of us, we must feel happy and cherish the memories that they have left behind.

i am sure if anything IF has given them excellent time to spend their last few days in peace. here friends are made not based on caste, creed, looks, age, personality; but on views and thoughts i.e. only through intellect and emotion.

in a way, i totally support their decision of chosing not to mention their health problems to anyone as this would have otherwise biased our opinions about them and we would have become extremely cautious in all our conversations.

We do not know when God has chosen to take back one of his creations.

so,

this has taught us to be good both to everyone else and oneself as well,

to be thankful for what we have

to utilise well what precious time we have in our hands.

and if there is anyone who needs to hear the words "Sorry" or "Thankyou" from you, please never delay doing so.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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if there is anyone who needs to hear the words "Sorry" or "Thankyou" from you, please never delay doing so.

you said it lash!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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This poem I got from net. Today morning I made a post with it but it got accidentally deleted. I can't rewrite what I wrote then, but this is my message to all of you whom I know and whom I don't know. Thank you.

YOU'RE NEVER ALONE
KC You're never alone, I'm always near,
When your troubled, down or blue.
All you have to do is call me,
I'm always here for you. It doesn't matter where I'm at,
It doesn't matter when.
When you need someone to talk to,
I'm here to be your friend. If you need someone to hold your hand,
or a hug to say I care.
If you need a shoulder to cry on,
for you I will be there. So never think you are a burden,
when the weight gets to be to much.
You might find if look hard enough,
a good friend could be the right touch.

You're never alone, I'm always here,
through the good times and the bad.
I'm always here to be your friend,
I don't like to see you sad.

Edited by bluelotus - 20 years ago
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Posted: 20 years ago
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we will always.. miss both of u.. and u will alwayz.. remain in our hearts forever....and i know IF cant be the same nemore...

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