Bharli jodi: should it stay or END?

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Do you want Bharti to divorce Murli & find someone new?

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Vrish

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Baba Aiso Var Dhoondo 7th Feb Promo

Okay, we've seen everything Bharti has gone thru since her marriage - Murli's embarrassment @ Simla, her father's situation, Mridala's manipulations, the fiasco w/ Veena's wedding, now the arrests and as in the clip above, Murli claiming that he didn't know that Bharti was a midget.

So here's the big question - how do you want the story to proceed?

Do you want Bharti to divorce Murli, and then look for a new hubby? How about Amit? Risk is that height may be the only thing they have in common, but other than that, any problems in finding out?
Or should Bharti stick to her marriage vows and accept whatever decisions Murli takes, and let the story evolve until Murli decides that Bharti is the one for him?

So which track would you like it to follow? In other serials, we saw in Jyoti & PKCM the lead heroine's first marriage end, and then going into another marriage. So would you like to see the same happen here? Or do you just want it to be the trials and tribulations of the same jodi throughout the serial?

Weigh in above w/ this poll! 😊

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kiran

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Im fed up with this pair but i dont see it ending in divorce..

This is what i want to happen....them to divorce go and lead seprate lives and then for Murli to realise what he done and then slowely they get back together 😃 thats just my my opinion...but like i said its not going to happen unless Bansilal dies thats it...game over for these two, there will be no coming back after that.

I cant see Amit and Bharati together as a couple but i can see a beautiful friendship between the pair, i think they should have kept him in someone who understands what Bharati is going through and someone she can confide it.

The promo completely shocked me, what on earth possesed Murli to say that??

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Posted: 14 years ago

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first,
Awesome thread ji..👍🏼
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i am totally agree with kiran's post

"Im fed up with this pair but i dont see it ending in divorce..

This is what i want to happen....them to divorce go and lead seprate lives and then for Murli to realise what he done and then slowely they get back together 😃 thats just my my opinion...but like i said its not going to happen unless Bansilal dies thats it...game over for these two, there will be no coming back after that.

I cant see Amit and Bharati together as a couple but i can see a beautiful friendship between the pair, i think they should have kept him in someone who understands what Bharati is going through and someone she can confide it.

The promo completely shocked me, what on earth possesed Murli to say that??"

Actually i also can't see Bharti with amit ,😊
Anyways all these things increasing TRP of the show,👏

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Vrish

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Posted: 14 years ago

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If they're going to only temporarily divorce, then no: I don't want any of the Murli realizing or any of that drama - just lose him from the show (sorry, Vik fans) and carry on w/ someone else. I'm against marriage, then divorce, then re-marry the same guy, then.... By divorce, I meant Bharti & Murli ending the marriage for good, and each going on to find a new partner - or not. I don't want them to temporarily divorce, and then come back together - it makes a real mockery of marriage.

For me, either they should improve the rishta while married, and fix things that way, or they should go their own ways - for good! None of that chaotic situation where nobody knows the exact nature of their relationship - including them.

Kiran - the description you gave of Amit - they should have kept him in someone who understands what Bharati is going through and someone she can confide it - that's what a hubby's role is. So if that's what Amit is expected to do, why not make him her husband?

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fuzzyface

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I think no women or men dwarf or not deserve such a treatment from their husband or wife. Therefor I don't see this rishta going anyway. If anything Murli should earn Bharti's respect, love and the sweet and wonderful person that is Bharti.

I think they shld part ways, it's the end of the road.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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vrish intersting point here

marriage is not a mockery. murli shows himself sort of sacrificing his life for his family sake

from where did he get in his head that he didnt know the girl was a midget

ok rupesh did go to them with rishta but he had seen bharti even before the rishta

so this point doesnt make sense at all
and for bharti and murli i think best wud be to part ways and let life teach murli and his family lessons

at the police station already they r going thru rough times

bt life is going to teach them the truth

and as for bharti she shud stop being too good for her own self pride and respect

move ahead in life and maintain her own dignity

this shud have been the focus from the beginning

fault is of rupesh also as he flaunted his wealth under the guise mayb of wanting his only daughter to be happy

does money buy everything in life?i wonder on that

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kiran

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I agree with what you are saying Vrish, if Bharati was to get with Amit i wouldnt i have a problem at all but i just dont like the fact that it gives out the mis conception that dwarfs can only be with there own kind

Apart from lacking in height they too are normal people and should be able to main a normal healthy relationship/marriage with someone of a normal height.

Divorce should be a last resort and they should both try to make the marriage work not just one person otherwise its doomed and so far Bharati is the only one thats tried

But yes after everything Murli has done i dont think Bharti should be with him theres too much water under the bridge but i dont see the cv's heading in the direction of divorce

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Rae24

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Posted: 14 years ago

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That's a difficult question Vrish... Part of me just wants them to be together despite all the hardship, misunderstanding because you know they can be happy if Murli got over his embarrasment-he would make a good hubby but is just misguided. But on the other hand- Bharti deserves someone better, someone who is willing to accept her as she is, someone who cares, respects and loves her and I don't think Amit is that person- kiran you're right it gives the impression that dwarfs can only be with their own kind that's not very nice to see at all... He should stay in the show as a good friend or even teach Murli to understand his wife better, what she must be going through... Sorry to be sitting on the fence here :( but I really can't make a decision...

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Vrish

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: chatterbox
vrish intersting point here

marriage is not a mockery. murli shows himself sort of sacrificing his life for his family sake

from where did he get in his head that he didnt know the girl was a midget

ok rupesh did go to them with rishta but he had seen bharti even before the rishta

so this point doesnt make sense at all
and for bharti and murli i think best wud be to part ways and let life teach murli and his family lessons

at the police station already they r going thru rough times

bt life is going to teach them the truth

and as for bharti she shud stop being too good for her own self pride and respect

move ahead in life and maintain her own dignity

this shud have been the focus from the beginning

fault is of rupesh also as he flaunted his wealth under the guise mayb of wanting his only daughter to be happy

does money buy everything in life?i wonder on that

Chatter

I was referring to the possibility raised by Kiran that they may divorce now, and reconcile later. That I don't want happening. Either stay in the bad marriage and make it better, or divorce but never look back. If they divorced, then reconciled & remarried, they'd be making a mockery of their marriage.

I agree that Murli was right in the sense that Rupesh essentially bought his daughter's marriage & sold her. Rupesh assumed - stupidly of course - that in return for all that wealth, Bharti would be accepted, but in reality, it was like Murli had been pimped, and it shows. I do fault Murli for agreeing to this marriage in the first place, even if the goal was to get Veena married. He thought that he alone was making a sacrifice, but he never realized that he'd be doing a great injustice to Bharti as well

The show may have high TRPs - unusually high this week - but I think that this spike happened after Rupesh grew a spine (just like Rakt Sambandh fortunes improved after Sandhya regained her eyesight and decided to revolt against the Jagirdars) So the belief that TV execs have that showing doormat women and grovelling maaykas is good for ratings is demonstrably false.

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Rae24

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Agree on the point that they shouldnt divorce and then reconcile - that annoys me! if you're going to break do it for good..but i have a feeling that the CV will continue to push Bharti & Murli together...whether they like it or not.. :)

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