Putdowns for girls family and background

I think mutual respect is a cornerstone of all normal relationship. I cannot believe that Mona's saas and bui and the grandmother constantly insult Mona by putting down her upbringing, putting down Punjabi culture and her family.

It will be very hard for me to live in a household in which my parents, my background is constantly and openly insult and thrown in my face as bad and horrible. This kind of constant abuse is the reason and total control by the family is the reason most girls don't have good relationship with their in-laws.

Mona like many other daughter in laws would remember all these insults, she will remember all the heartache and extreme disrespect, when sasau ji will get all she old, she get all this back with interest.

I agree with you and I think the Ambaji and her saas and Bauji are very rude to Mona all the time. They should show some understanding towards Mona and should understand that how would Mona know how to cook gujrati food?

Originally posted by: desi-indian

I am not siding with Mona and I think she did wrong by accepting the food from her family but I think the elders should also try to understand her and help her...

sorry i dont agree d gujjus r so angry wid her cause dey r vaishnav and mona knew how strict dey r she hav seen in sweety marriage.dey dont eat were nonveg is cook.she is not chosen by his parents happily,it was circumstances wich dey had to get dem married.dis cooking exams happens in every fly,its not a big deal.if she doesnt knew cooking she cld hav told dem abt it.dey wld hav taunted her and bharti or hetal and sejal cld hav helped her in cooking according to d rasam,y simply do dis

Originally posted by: sherma

sorry i dont agree d gujjus r so angry wid her cause dey r vaishnav and mona knew how strict dey r she hav seen in sweety marriage.dey dont eat were nonveg is cook.she is not chosen by his parents happily,it was circumstances wich dey had to get dem married.dis cooking exams happens in every fly,its not a big deal.if she doesnt knew cooking she cld hav told dem abt it.dey wld hav taunted her and bharti or hetal and sejal cld hav helped her in cooking according to d rasam,y simply do dis

I am not regular of this show.But one thing when DIL enters the family she is not acustom to new families traditions or cookingetc and she should be taught instead of harrassing her.Wont it be nice if like mother teaches her daughter MIL also teach her DIL.She should be given opportunity to adjust to the family instead of harrassing.I dont know why makers of serials have to take negative ways than positive ones.Is it necessary to have so much negativity in indian serials.

True true. Its is always about negativity. tHE MOST RELIGIOUS PERSON IN THE HOUSE ALWAYS LANDS IN PROBLEMS AND ARE NEVER HAPPY.