mona was wrong

i tink mona and her mther was wrong wat dey did. i thought mona wont agree to her mom to do it, but she did agree.mona knew how conservative r d gujjus, dadaji dint even eat anytin during sweety marriage.if she doesnt know gujju cooking it is fine she cld hav asked for recipes from ambaji she wld hav given her and if she doesnty know cooking at all she cld hav tld her MIL before only,dey wldnt hav killed her just tant her little and den over,d way dey do to her alwys.

yea... i agree this time mona was wrong.

I agree Mona was wrong but I think that Ambaji, baa and phui are picking on Mona. It is obvious Ambaji and Co are not happy with the marriage. I feel sorry for Mona the way they keep saying stuff about her family poor girl.

Well i think Ambaji wants to help ( remember the laddu making scene when everyone moves out she slowly shows Mona how to make perfect round laddu)
but is unable to do so due to her SIL and MIL .

Originally posted by: sherma

i tink mona and her mther was wrong wat dey did. i thought mona wont agree to her mom to do it, but she did agree.mona knew how conservative r d gujjus, dadaji dint even eat anytin during sweety marriage.if she doesnt know gujju cooking it is fine she cld hav asked for recipes from ambaji she wld hav given her and if she doesnty know cooking at all she cld hav tld her MIL before only,dey wldnt hav killed her just tant her little and den over,d way dey do to her alwys.

u r right

Originally posted by: Lennie

Yep Mona was wrong but i guess the good thing is that she did realise and was going to tell them

Honestly the whole family is wrong in how they treat Mona, a MIL should be their to teach her if Mona doesnt know and guide her but i dont see that at all, she is a new bahu in the house, she needs time to adjust to the routine and gujju food but i see no guidance being offered to her

agree with you, her MIL needs to guide her tell her the rules and traditions of the household. I'm sure Mona would have told her she can't cook had her MIL showed some confidence in her. She might not be their choice for bahu, but she is and they need to give her a respect that as a DIL of the family demands.

I don't think Mona did anything wrong. It is pretty stupid to think an young girl would be able to cook for the whole family. The whole traditions are totally wrong. The boys lives with his whole family, he doesn't have to adjust to environment. The girl has to leave her family and home and come to a new family, who instead of trying to adjust just want her to instantly become like them and lose herself and her personality..adjustments is two way street.

Btw, Why is Saajjal living at her parents place, is it a Gujju custom for daughter to interfere in her Maikaa..She should live with her inlaws, what about her so called sanskar.. her involvement in her brother family and her constant criticize of a new bride and bride's family is very unbecoming and show low sanskar.

It is pretty sad and funny to see young adults treated like children. This serial is taking living and bahu at a diff level..After watching this no girl would like to marry in Gujju family.

Mona was wrong this time, and did realize she is wrong. She should have told Ambaji that she does not know how to cook, instead of getting the food cooked by her mom. I understand the hapless girl thought of the consequences, because she is loosing her confidence and only wants to build confidence with ambaji.

Mona was at fault partially because she should've known the consequences of serving food from her maaika, especially since they are strict vegetarians as most of us gujjus are. As someone who comes from a mother (who is Haryanvi) and not at all aware of my father's gujarati culture after she got married, my grandmother taught her everything she needed to know to fit in to the family, even the language!!😕