Disgrace to the modern woman!!

Todays episode was the worst form of torture we CCBM fans could ever endure!!! Forget the fan following here...WE are all women and come from different walks of life...different cultural backgrounds and most of all WE CAN THINK!!

ya true and good u raised this topic, the way i feel helpless watching this show, the message that is given in general by this show is really wrong.....it may not be a reality, but we relate it to reality, potraying a woman in such a hapless condition really makes me sad, nivi being an educated woman is taking all this mental and physical torture is unacceptable and unrealistic too no one can torture a women as such and torturing her the way they are doing is really unbelievable...i really wonder what are CTs trying to show...there is no storyline and if they declare they just do not deliver what they are promising instead just by creating a fake suspense trying to increase the TRPs...and in between console us by offering few romantic scenes..just a boring track is being dragged...Kinshuk is the only one for whom this show is being tolerated by the viewers otherwise who will take this nivi torture daily without any rhyme or reason...wish someone curbs them to show all this and bring them in their senses....

Nivedita is strong, its just a matter of time that she shows her strength. Till now, she always relies on others strength, more than hers. Even today, she was waiting for Viren to come and save her.

Crying is not a sign of weakness, it is an expression of an emotion. Its not right to say that you are not strong because you cry.

Originally posted by: vids08

Crying is not a sign of weakness, it is an expression of an emotion. Its not right to say that you are not strong because you cry.

yes, Nivi has been made to cry all the time( which does not happen in real life), that is dramatic as are all the soaps but I don't think she is weak.

CC does not cry, but is she strong... no, duniya bhar ka insecurities is with her.

YD does not cry, is she strong, no She is so scared of her khandaan ki izzat that logic evades her.

Divya is bold - does not cry , is she strong, no she is suicidal.

Now Nivi, inspite of her tears, she has stood her ground for what she believed.

she stood up to sid when her dad was accused, asked him to get lost when he came back (after getting engaged to Divya) because it was morally wrong fr him to come.

She married Viren, a total stranger and went back to the Sood house.That is strength.

All thru the madness drama, she was not quite, she was resisting. Looking for support from the ones she loved, but to be let down yet again.anyone wud expect that, that is not helplessness.

Today, she cud have walked out, but she had promised Viren, she will wait for him and she did. She escaped from their clutches as soon she sensed him.

yes, she endures and cries in the process. Nothing wrong!

Sorry, no offence to anyone, just my POV.

BTW I cry a lot and I or be beloved ones don't blieve I am helpless.😊

Luv

Vidya

Originally posted by: mittusingh

Wow... i second your thoughts Vidya... I cry too...and to be honest we all have faced something sin our lives where we find ourselves in need of support and the helplessness is not the sign of cowardice..it is just a phase...and CCBm is showing this aspect very well

Although I hate seeing Nivi cry so much I understand her as I also lost my mom at a young age and I know what insecurities lies.. ....With Viren she feels stronger but it does take time.

I understand that they should not extend it so mch that people start losign interest...as at the end of the day it is about being entertained!!

I will not stop watching CCBm just for this reason but hope that in the coming episodes they will all come through this phase!!

Originally posted by: akhilha

Todays episode was the worst form of torture we CCBM fans could ever endure!!! Forget the fan following here...WE are all women and come from different walks of life...different cultural backgrounds and most of all WE CAN THINK!!

Rishta nayi Soch nayi...is really made fun of here be depicting NIvi so helpless...locked in the room ...sitting in the floor helplessl;y..sobbing away..looking at the photo of her beloved and begging him to come!! what kind of crap is that!!! Do the serial makers truly believe that todays women are like that!! please ...wake up!! todays epi was a tight slap on the modern woman!! Even if they show Nivi stronger later on...it will be very difficult for us to forget her tearful scared face!!!

And when CC was instigating her Nivi says :I am not like my mother!!! that really upset me!! no child should be made ashamed of his or her mother that way and no one should take it!! Nivis mother was not evil...she was avictim of circumstances...Nivi shouldnt have been shown to utter those words!!!

She could have really been made to do some brave actions to defend herself!! may be she could have called up the police with her mobile or really thrown the vase at CC making her faint !!!

Really i am very disturbed today ...I feel the heroine is going downhill instead of becoming strong!!!And we are being shown these autrocities everyday!! Why?????when there is no truth in such things!! maybe in some remote villages where women are uneducated and are dominated by some cultural superstitions..Such things could happen!! But aserial like CCBM which is supposed to represent todays youth and also todays modern society.....It is truly adisgrace!!

I know this is aserial but there is something so sinister about this show that it is really making me very upset!! Sorry if i have offended anyone here but i hated every moment of the epi!!!

I agree with you! Today's episode was truly a disgrace to women.

totally agree......no woman in todays day and age is this dependent, vulnerable, gullible......They should be promoting women not showing them as weak and insecure individuals. This in no way will teach the masses anything but to be weak and at the whim of others.