Dutta's Past Betrayals - A boon or curse? - Page 4

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I swear.....Like button just started a new trend in town!!!!!.....

I was addicted to Rishta.com.....Loved it more than Mahi way....I knew Isha was in forum, I didnt know Kavi was too...Darn! Missed catching up with him....I realized his presence only after Rishta.com culminated!!!

Hope he comes back with a rocking show!!!

Yaar Fivr...when I saw Seema's come back scene, she was wearing this jewelry which I have seen in some offbeat places and its so "pitta hua maal" now that noone even buys tht stuff anymore....(the rainbow effect on the stones and that design.....)and then I thought about Kala...yaar, she is seriously the most well dressed in LTL....Even her Jewelry is beautiful and doesnt have the cheap streak....Her sarees look so awesome on her....when she reveals her true face to Naku, I didnt find her saree gng with her blouse and yet she carried it so well......Cant get enough of her....

dnt worry, not poaching in ur territory ....u know my loyalty - right?

Wonderful responses to interesting questions that you have put forward to all of us. BTW, good to have you back but you seem to have brought all the hidden loves of your life with you in those huge siggies?Could I share or just take SRK?😳He is all I ask, besides, our Dutta.😆

To come back to your post, I feel all depends on Dutta's state when he sees Seema post his accident. I will assume that he is completely normal (AMEN) except for the injuries that he would have sustained. I would discount indifference straight away as this is not just possible if we go by Dutta's psyche and go for total infuriation and an emotional outburst. I would like to see him thrashing everything around him like he did upon Supriya's elopement and even Nakusha's FR as this will finally release the deep-rooted demons in his mind. One might disagree as it would put in contention all the positive influence that Nakusha would have had on him but he needs to complete this cycle to free Nakusha and anybody else of any sense of vicarious liability.

Not just because of the old memories burning his heart and haunting him but, also, because of the consequences of that betrayal. He needs to vent out to release that pent-up negative energy that he has bottled up for years to the point that he cannot snap out of the self-denial that has been the bane of his life. You see, betrayal is a, horribly, packaged gift which leaves us with a sense of shame and blame, a deadly combination that profoundly affects self-esteem and leads us to feel we have to keep experiences of betrayal secret. In effect, it stops spontaneity, burdens us, and keeps us in a state of ongoing disease, or off-center. Thanks to Nakusha, Dutta, did manage to tackle most of these traits to a certain degree but never got, completely, rid of them. He will, finally, understand that Seema's betrayal and even Supriya's to a lesser degree should become the final catalyst towards his own efforts (not a third party's or Naku's) for self-healing and empowerment through four truths which are notably:

When we experience, fully, the grief from betrayal, we come to a place of acceptance and accompanying forgiveness.
Acceptance and forgiveness do not excuse or erase the betrayal - instead, they allow us to let go and freely be present in our lives.

This acceptance and forgiveness may not, necessarily, excuse or erase the betrayal - but instead - allow Dutta to let go and, freely, be present in the lives of all those he loves ten years after the catastrophe that hit him. His encounter with Seema that we, personally abhor, will take Dutta to the stage, where he would recover a greater sense of self and higher wisdom, feel more mature and free, able to let go and embrace Nakusha from a place of trust by embracing a sense of new beginning in their lives. I wrote in one of my earlier posts that Dutta should be able to experience the totality of it [all], the sensations in his body, the sound of Nakusha's voice, more importantly so in front of Seema, his perceptions, his thoughts and prejudices....All that has been at zero distance from him and all that is in him. All that will come out once he would have shaken off that simmering toxic anger that has plagued his life for ten years.

Over to you.😊

Sorry for the late response....I read it yesterday but I had loads to say and was so busy that I just made ghost appeareances in the forum but didnt come to this post till now....

Firstly, Ofcourse u can have SRK.....I can never say NO for spreading his charm around....Just pick them up😳😛😉😆...and Kavita....tut tut....u jinxed my Damon....Something went wrong tinypic and they all disappeared....I had to reload them....Now, I need to search for Dutta siggies and Damon Avis on my profile pic....😭😭😭

So, what I get from your post is that you feel his deep rage or extreme emotional outburst would be natural and beneficial because that would help him close the chapter once for all?...hmmm...Makes me think.....

Lets take a step back and hit the deeper layer here....So, on the surface we see our aggressive Dutta but in REALITY what do you think is happening in his heart? Is this outburst because of the residual hurt due to the butchering of his male ego?

And u have stated that even if he Accepts the situation and forgives the sinner, the betrayal act cannot be erased....and thats why the outburst....That again would imply that the reason for outburst is the evil that Seema carries as a human or rather carried as a human than his former feelings resurging...Am I gettting your point right?

One point that I really liked was that Seema's face off is important in his life for him to face the demons full flegedly and close the chapter once for all....And that has to result in his vented up feelings and thoughts coming to surface and the volcano finally erupting...Yes, This makes complete sense to me, after all her name keeps cropping time and again from his mouth....This only means the chapter isnt closed...the remains still scattered around....but then this would be part of his Initial reaction....and once the volcano has calmed down, I expect him to find peace instantly and understand the power of Naku's love that helped him find peace instantly and not yearn for Seema when she stands right in front of him....

and on this

Originally posted by: KavitaDR

much to himself.

His encounter with Seema that we, personally abhor, will take Dutta to the stage, where he would recover a greater sense of self and higher wisdom, feel more mature and free, able to let go and embrace Nakusha from a place of trust by embracing a sense of new beginning in their lives. I wrote in one of my earlier posts that Dutta should be able to experience the totality of it [all], the sensations in his body, the sound of Nakusha's voice, more importantly so in front of Seema, his perceptions, his thoughts and prejudices....

Over to you.😊

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Amen!!!.....I too feel that the end result of Seema's track would be wat u have described most beautifully.....and aptly....Finally the fruit of real love would be visible and experienced in its totality!!!! Even when Naku and Dutta were gng thru their "dating" days, there was a hitch....there was a speedbreaker.....This will break it all...because Dutta would have taken a complete rotation and come back to where it all started!!!!

Sorry for the late response....I read it yesterday but I had loads to say and was so busy that I just made ghost appeareances in the forum but didnt come to this post till now....

Firstly, Ofcourse u can have SRK.....I can never say NO for spreading his charm around....Just pick them up😳😛😉😆...and Kavita....tut tut....u jinxed my Damon....Something went wrong tinypic and they all disappeared....I had to reload them....Now, I need to search for Dutta siggies and Damon Avis on my profile pic....😭😭😭

So, what I get from your post is that you feel his deep rage or extreme emotional outburst would be natural and beneficial because that would help him close the chapter once for all?...hmmm...Makes me think.....

Lets take a step back and hit the deeper layer here....So, on the surface we see our aggressive Dutta but in REALITY what do you think is happening in his heart? Is this outburst because of the residual hurt due to the butchering of his male ego?

And u have stated that even if he Accepts the situation and forgives the sinner, the betrayal act cannot be erased....and thats why the outburst....That again would imply that the reason for outburst is the evil that Seema carries as a human or rather carried as a human than his former feelings resurging...Am I gettting your point right?

One point that I really liked was that Seema's face off is important in his life for him to face the demons full flegedly and close the chapter once for all....And that has to result in his vented up feelings and thoughts coming to surface and the volcano finally erupting...Yes, This makes complete sense to me, after all her name keeps cropping time and again from his mouth....This only means the chapter isnt closed...the remains still scattered around....but then this would be part of his Initial reaction....and once the volcano has calmed down, I expect him to find peace instantly and understand the power of Naku's love that helped him find peace instantly and not yearn for Seema when she stands right in front of him....

and on this

Originally posted by: KavitaDR

much to himself.

His encounter with Seema that we, personally abhor, will take Dutta to the stage, where he would recover a greater sense of self and higher wisdom, feel more mature and free, able to let go and embrace Nakusha from a place of trust by embracing a sense of new beginning in their lives. I wrote in one of my earlier posts that Dutta should be able to experience the totality of it [all], the sensations in his body, the sound of Nakusha's voice, more importantly so in front of Seema, his perceptions, his thoughts and prejudices....

Over to you.😊

👏👏👏

Amen!!!.....I too feel that the end result of Seema's track would be wat u have described most beautifully.....and aptly....Finally the fruit of real love would be visible and experienced in its totality!!!! Even when Naku and Dutta were gng thru their "dating" days, there was a hitch....there was a speedbreaker.....This will break it all...because Dutta would have taken a complete rotation and come back to where it all started!!!!

Hey DD,

That is, absolutely fine, i do understand and Thank you for spreading the SRK charm, one can hardly resist the positive energy his personality radiates. And as to Damon, I am sorry, Nazar lag gayi madam, aagey se khayal rakheinge...😳

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