Very near to my own marriage story

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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey guys can't stop my self to right this.This story is very similar to my own story .......

Now I am happy with two kid but 7 year ago we are almost caught and trashed....

But What i learnt from my incident is partha is not badi from love......love is having devine power if that is pure

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi there...😉.

good to hear that you succed in ur love👏.... Hats off....👍🏼
I agree with you that love is divine and eternal....😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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So sorry to hear that , wish u would have never had to run and had to go through trauma of being caught even for a while

so glad ur happily blessed with 2 kids and very happy ................

Yes , Love gives u strength and completes oneself, but we still live in world where , elders care a lot about traditions and all but not about kids happiness .

My sisters marriage is love marriage but its not like running and hiding , she was kind of banned from family and none of our relatives knew she was married not untill 3 yrs back, for my dad its prestige and religions more than my sis happiness.....

well now after 8yrs , she is blessed with a gal and happy ....

she comes home but dad and she never come face to face

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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes this is the biggest irony of our culture happiness of child is not so important...


But at the same time when you compare ramayana and mahbharta era....there use to have swyanwar where girl was having freedom to select guy of her choice ..so actually we moved backward direction from there...


For me still we can't go to my wife's parents home...they can still be harmful



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Posted: 15 years ago
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woh thats really sad

we live in world filled with hipocrates, every one r ready for free advice saying family should look for kids happiness nd all, but when it actually happens in their family they draw swords ................

wishing u happy life guys , avoid it when u can
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey dont u think k hamare parents hamare liye duniya mai sbse barh k hoty hain unki waja sy hm dunia mai atay hain wohi hamen hr cheez sikhatay hain hmse itna piar krty hyn...tou un k sath aisa krna theek hy ?? i know zindagi guzarne ka haq sbko hai apni tarhan sy but wht i think is tht mere parents mere liye sbse barh k hain maine life mai kbi b koi b decision apni merzi sy nai liya mere parents ny jo kaha maine wohi kiya chahe mai school k admission sy ly kr life k hr decision tk...cuz jo apne parents ka na hoska itne years mai wo kisi aur ka ksy hoskta hai jo apne parents ko chor dy kisi k liye tou someday wo kisi ko b chor skta hai

thts wht i think but anyway have a happy life 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Oompa_loompa, were you afraid for your life?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well such stories gv people like me strength ! gng thru such tuf tyms ryt now..and its bn an year now..but still 😭..

p.s. glad al worked out for u !
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaf13

hey dont u think k hamare parents hamare liye duniya mai sbse barh k hoty hain unki waja sy hm dunia mai atay hain wohi hamen hr cheez sikhatay hain hmse itna piar krty hyn...tou un k sath aisa krna theek hy ?? i know zindagi guzarne ka haq sbko hai apni tarhan sy but wht i think is tht mere parents mere liye sbse barh k hain maine life mai kbi b koi b decision apni merzi sy nai liya mere parents ny jo kaha maine wohi kiya chahe mai school k admission sy ly kr life k hr decision tk...cuz jo apne parents ka na hoska itne years mai wo kisi aur ka ksy hoskta hai jo apne parents ko chor dy kisi k liye tou someday wo kisi ko b chor skta hai

thts wht i think but anyway have a happy life 😛


sorry for replaying late....i was in new year mode..

back to your point ..i do agree with you but not completely look I also believe that parent is like GOD for us….but at the same time think another perspective..

Agar wo humse pyar karte hain to humari kushi main unki khushi hogi…. Pertant will always there for guide you help you even die for you….right…no doubt in this

I think even duniya ke sabse gande inshan ke parents' bhi ush se utna hi pyar karte hongeee….

But……akhir kya ho jaata hai bacchon ki khushi ke liye jaan dene walon ko ki bacche se unchi "log kya kahnege " wali feeling ho jati hai….baacha ne saadi /Pyar hi to kiya hai….koi paap to nahi kiya…..I think even unhain apna bacche ka kiya pyar murderer ke paap se jyada ganda lagne lagta hai……kya hai ye jo payar ko gunah bana deta hai…

Wahi maam baap jab filmaon main villen maa paa ko hero heroin ko alag karte dekhte hain to un parents ko ganda and villen kahte hai pur jab aapne par aati hai to khud wahi ban jaate hain

Bhramar koi kumudini par machal baitha to hungama,
humaare dil mein koi khwab pal baitha to hungama.
Abhi tak dhoob kar sunte the sab kissa mohabbat ka,
Main kisse ko haqiqat mein badal baitha to hungama.

Kyu nahi wo ye kahte hain ke nahi mere baccho ki kushi mujhe samaj se jyada pyari hai….mere baachon ki mushkan mujhe apni jaati and dharm sy jayada payari hai….

Wo kyun nahi samjhate hain ki Pyar paap nahi hai….pyar ka khoon karke wo bacchon ki jindgi bhar ka mushkarana chin lenge…….kyau payar ko wo apni ego and aan se jor late hain kyu nahi you payar ko shan se kabool karte hain….

Ajj mere mom dad mere saath hain and as per them agar wo apni bahu khud chunte to itni acchi nahi laa patain….

Hope this answers ur point

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ambodidi

Oompa_loompa, were you afraid for your life?



at one point yes jab same like this serial ,they were searching for us...but then Pyar kiya to darna kya...and will live together or will not live at all wali feeling thi
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