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well i go by the adage - never say never 😳 but talking about verbal apologies in this context hmmm its kind of a tricky situation
personally, i do agree (somewhat) - "sorry" when used for your loved ones seems like a forced ritual something that is an impromptu response on which societal perceptions of one's demeanor are based
my mum always tells me, not to apologize but to watch and think before i say or do something, and that will be enough for her. i still have not learnt to defy these insignificant social rules taught in school and unmistakably say "sorry" even when i bump into a piece of furniture 😆
but again it all depends upon the nature of crime or extent of hurt or damage caused that makes formal verbal apologies inevitable
the point is, when you hurt your loved ones - more than them, you hurt yourself in the process - seeing your loved ones hurt is more of a punishment to you than to them
so yeah the statement holds true - never HAVING to say sorry - as in think twice before you act or speak to save yourself the ordeal of going through the pain you inflicted upon your loved ones. never give yourself the chance to apologize - loosely translated as never make mistakes - at least not grave ones, which would make apologies inevitable 😳
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