Love means never having to say you are sorry

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Love means never having to say you are sorry....???!!!

😕Well... i am confused with this thought,from the book "Love Story" written by Eric Seagal.

Is it really possible?i mean,when you make a mistake,isn't it mandatory or good manners to apologise....the apology should be from the heart... that is another matter....

if you are really sorry,but think that,a sorry wouldn't matter or change things...then what?

i personally don't have this habit,for i think that the other person already knows how i feel?

Dear friends,please write down your thoughts on this one.
Thank you.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: power1921


Love means never having to say you are sorry....???!!!

😕Well... i am confused with this thought,from the book "Love Story" written by Eric Seagal.

Dont go by everything thats written in the books 😊
Is it really possible?i mean,when you make a mistake,isn't it mandatory or good manners to apologise....the apology should be from the heart... that is another matter....
Nothing is mandatory but its always best to say you are sorry when you mean it !
if you are really sorry,but think that,a sorry wouldn't matter or change things...then what?
... you can never be too sure whether it would matter or not, so just say it ....and
stop making excuses 😆

i personally don't have this habit,for i think that the other person already knows how i feel?
What makes you think that the other person can read your mind ? Can you always read other people's mind? At best one can only guess but never be too sure !
Dear friends,please write down your thoughts on this one.
Thank you.
When in doubt and so much confusion what is the harm in saying one little word "sorry" !!!
Is it that difficult ? If the answer is yes, .... then its all the more important that you say sorry when you are !

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: angie.4u


point well taken..but what does the author actually men when he says this?does it mean,if you have a good understanding of each other,then it isn't required?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: power1921

Its possible that the othe person does understand you quite well and it may not be necessary to express your regrets in words ... however , I think one must express it in some way atleast , if not in words then in action ! But its so much easier to say sorry instead of going on trying to prove that you do regret your action . Besdes, even if the other person understands you well enough it is still possible that s/he may at times miss the cues and misunderstand things, so why take a chance ! Its such a small word, easy to pronounce , and quite effective in clearing misunderstandings :)

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: angie.4u


so,that's the tagline: why take a chance?😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't believe In love but mama raised me well and told me to say sorry when you know you are the wrrooong one.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Love never having to say sorry

Wat a bunch of nonsense if u love someone n know ur in wrong of course u say sorry its good manners n u need to say it so the person u love realises that u know uve done wrong and are trying mend things build bridges u know i dnt want a loved one to be angry or upset coz i never said sorry its a strong word

Having said that saying sorry to much n it loses all meaning u dnt have to say it all the time only wen it really matters
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Posted: 14 years ago
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And since when did we start taking words from books as the absolute truth? It is the author's opinion, and nothing more than that. If you have an opinion of your own, then by all means, stick with it. You don't have to go by someone else's opinion.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PhoeniXof_Hades

And since did we start taking words from books as the absolute truth? It is the author's opinion, and nothing more than that.

well said Labib 😃 Books are books and not gospel !
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...............................and what are gospel , then ........ 🤔 ❓
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: P1nk

I don't believe In love but mama raised me well and told me to say sorry when you know you are the wrrooong one.


what your mama has told ,is absolutely right...but dear,u need to believe in love...by love,i don't mean,the romance...i speak of the universal love...coz,ultimately,everything in the world is love and everyone wants love..

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