please try and understand eshann

Hey frnzs.😊..i m a new member on india-forums.....just wanted to share my views with you guys...
From many days i have been noticing ur hatred towars our eshann of sasural gemda phool...let me tell u guys....lyk all of you...i m also a vry vry vry big fan of this serial... i love suhana's character and her acting too...but nwadays watever they r showin.... all love (which has becom a reason of ur disgust nd hatred towards ishaan....)....guys pls just dnt think accordn to suhana...we all love suhana alot..nd probably dts the main resn y we cant see her in pain...bt have u evr thought abt our sweet ishaan...from the day 1 of their marraige..ishaan has loved suhana lyk anything...evn if he knw that suhana ws nt happy wd this marraige...he nvr complained....being a guy who is vry shy, down to earth and vry less expressive...dint u guys evr felt that wt pain he goes thru wnevr suhana's concern, love, care comes into question for him....the over friendliness which we r seeing btwn ishaan and sonali.....dts off course vry depressing and irritating😡...bt according to me..i think that ishaan is doing this cz somewhere in his heart he has a deep pain which he could nvr express...(if u remember there were scenes too where they had shown ishaan speakn to himself...askn ques to himself that y cant suhana understand his love for her at all)....and so nw dt his frnd sona has come...he wants to relive some moments of his life...he wants to enjoy his lyf...wch he could nvr njoy wd suhana....its nt his fault guys...he himself is nt realizing dt whtevr his doin is nt the correct one....its just human nature....bound in the clutches of lonliness...has changed ishaan's behaviour...bt still he does love suhana and cares 4 her....so dnt take him wrongly guys....just think vry calmly....think from ur hearts😊...place urself in eshaan's position...i m sure u guys will understand wat i m trying to make u understand....nd pls do post ur commnts and views accordingly....will be eagerly waiting 4 ur commnts...😊

very nicely written...

and this is indeed a new viewpoint to the entire track...

one thing is right...ishaan has been feeling lonely...he cannot express his happiness or excitement or anything with suhana as suhana does not care...(that is how suhana has projected herself to ishaan) and now when a person who knows about his likings has come...and with whom ishaan has a very good relation has come...he unknowingly has started spending a lot of time with her...and coincidentally suhana has realised the importance of ishaan exactly the same time...

and hence we find suhana depressed and ishaan not caring about her...

and let me tell u guys...ishaan being this close to sona is irritatating...if that OTT was lessend it would have been a very different view from everyone for sure...and feeling very sad for suhana tooo...

Your concern towrads Ishaan is very genuine, he is a lonely man , he wants to enjoy his life , he wants to enjoy his life according to his liking, Suhana wanted to enjoy her life according to het terms, so why stay together?
The CV has portrayed Ishaan from the begining as a SELFLESS man, who loved Suhana from the moment he saw her, with out knowing her at all, after the wedding he was hurt badly hurt, but he decided to give Suhana time and space, and this time and space with his understandinbg has brought Suhana where she is now, and belive me if it wasnt fot BM and Dadaji , Suhana would have realised Ishaan,s inportance her self, its not Sonali who us causing pain to Suhana its change in Ishaan,s character which is the cause of her agony. His character has changed from a selfless , caring and unbeliveably Mahan man to a very common man who will get his fun from somewhere else if not given by his wife. And in all this if Ishaan would have had a little courage , that would have solved the pronlem, he is contradicting himself, when alone with Suhana he is all lovy dovy, but the moment Sonali is there he is a different man, that we dont understand.

ofcourse ..ishaan is an ordinary man...i dont understand yyy everybody want ishaan to be godlike person....seriously guyss...i dont find ishaan doing anything wrong......i think many of us see it only from suhana's point of veiw.....

hey guys its good to see people agrreing to my point of view....thank u guys tanx alot...luv ya all.......nd our SGP just rocks...its an exceptionally the best show wch had feen featured on the televisiion till date....i hope you guys will equally lov eshan and suhana both....:))))))😛😊👏

Originally posted by: venture

Your concern towrads Ishaan is very genuine, he is a lonely man , he wants to enjoy his life , he wants to enjoy his life according to his liking, Suhana wanted to enjoy her life according to het terms, so why stay together?
The CV has portrayed Ishaan from the begining as a SELFLESS man, who loved Suhana from the moment he saw her, with out knowing her at all, after the wedding he was hurt badly hurt, but he decided to give Suhana time and space, and this time and space with his understandinbg has brought Suhana where she is now, and belive me if it wasnt fot BM and Dadaji , Suhana would have realised Ishaan,s inportance her self, its not Sonali who us causing pain to Suhana its change in Ishaan,s character which is the cause of her agony. His character has changed from a selfless , caring and unbeliveably Mahan man to a very common man who will get his fun from somewhere else if not given by his wife. And in all this if Ishaan would have had a little courage , that would have solved the pronlem, he is contradicting himself, when alone with Suhana he is all lovy dovy, but the moment Sonali is there he is a different man, that we dont understand.