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Originally posted by: sikkaisha
First of all congratulations dear
And thank you so much for making me smile EVERYTIME I read your posts.Anu : Thanks sikka 😊. Iam so glad u love it😳
Read all the answers,here are few Qs I wanna ask you:
1) Are you religious or spiritual?. Anu : Not sure whats the difference but for me I believe in one God, and humanity. My moto, Do good and God will look after u. I love going to a temple but than I do it for peaceful env, not because I think God's just there at that temple. I believe HE is everywhere, everyact and everyheart. Its just our perspective if we would want to see HIM in that person.
2) Give a song that describes you the best Anu : Hmmmmm song.....I dont think I can be fit in any one song 😆. I have high mood swings, emotional , witty, funny, mad, serious, hatred , compassion all of those emotions can happen to me any moment . I might be talking and next min I might just swing my mood. I cant think of any song with so many contradictions 😆.
3)Do you believe that love as shown in LTL can exist in today's world? Anu : It does but not to that extent, but it does. I think ppl are becoming a bit more practical and hence u might not find love as "selfless" as this one . But ya 90% of it might be possible.
4) Love for you is..... Anu : Love is the power to give someone the power to hurt u, expecting them not to. Thats my strong belief, and the ppl who we love are the only ppl who can hurt us. So we should be careful in judging ppl becoz once kisipe dil aajaye then its only hell if the person isnt right.
5)Since you have a daughter and you feel AS responsible for Dutta's plight,what do you think are most important value(s) parents should instill in child.Or in other words your views on parenting.Anu : I have a daughter and I am kisiki daughter. I have seen and learnt a lot from my upbringing and I believe its parents duty to instill goodness, truth and some beliefs in kids. A person is what he is 50% by birth and the rest 50% is what he will be because of the upbringing and surroundings. Parents should teach kids what can go wrong, what can happen if a decision goes wrong , what possible mistakes can happen(smoking,drungs,drinking,partying) and how to avoid them, how to be a better judge of the situations, how not to get swayed by others, how to choose a good friend and somethings like that. It might seem practically not possible, but my Dad my greatest preacher gave me a lot of lessons thru out my life. He was a Cop and he knew all sorts of things that went wrong with kids and he used to give me examples of real incidents, the cases he used to come across. It seriously gave me a diff perspective of life. I have grown a better person from the stuff I learnt from my parents. My goodness if there is something like that in me has come from my parents. I will and would instill the same beliefs in my daughter.Parenting is the toughest job. Thats one of the reasons I didnt plan for another kid 😆. I will not be able to handle more than one kids zamedari.
6)One thing you wanna change in yourself Anu : There is only one thing that is wrong with me. If u ask anyone who know me personally will say it out right away and that is my "temper". I need things, ppl and everything in an order or abide by rules. If that doesnt happen I loose my temper 😆. When I loose it I spit out hurtful words, worse than Dutta😆. I dont care what the other person will feel if i say it out when iam mad. When Iam cool I dont utter anything hurtful, instead I make sure the other person feels good abt anything and everything. When iam mad I make the other person's life miserable with my words. I dont like that in me, but thats what they get for messing up with my brain 😆. I would surely love to change that if I can. I dont want to loose my temper because if I have no short temper, iam no less than a perfect human. Thats my flaw , my temper.
7) Which virtue do you find most overrated? Anu : Physical beauty is the most overrated stuff.
8) Which quality in an individual do you admire the most? Anu : Being humble to rich poor, irrespective of caste, creed or sex , I find the most admirable character in a person.
9) Your views on marriage? Anu : As I said I have certain rules in life and this is one of those. One love, one marriage and one life, My moto. So do everything u want in this life, be for that one person.
10) How are you so funny?How come you make each and every post of yours so witty?Whats the secret:)??Anu : Honestly I dont think iam that funny 😆. Iam the eldest in my home, my sister talks more than me. Whenevr I go back home, she makes me go all mum while she talks and talks and talks. All i can do is laugh holding my stomach😆. So my family is full of such witty ppl. My mom, dad, my sis, my bro all have a funny bone in them. I have been bought up in such ppls company and my hubb has a funny bone. So its like so many fun loving ppl around, cracking jokes round the clock .What will I become than this?😆
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