Kalavati Sriram Patil 😍
I think to understand the person that is Kala and why she has become and is the way she is coz of Dutta.
Ever since Dutta came into their lives and the day their lives ( AS, Leela & Roops) came to a halt. Their whole life became and revolved around Dutta, so why does it have to change now. It's a classic case of neglect, it is evident that AS pays attention to Dutta, Dutta and Dutta. Everything is always abt Dutta and being the first born, Kala had to probably given way to Dutta, the one person who was responsible for her childhood and rest of her life ruined.
So in her mind, the obsession on Dutta must have began since they were kids. The shift from their lives (Sriram, Leela, AS and baby Roops) all had to make way for Dutta. The fact she calls herself Kalavati Sriram Patil is coz it's her name not Dutta's (as he is Damodar's son). So whatever he has she wants it coz to her what he has (all things good) should be hers because she lost the all things good because of him. You cld blame AS for this growing up and also when Kala got thrown out, her mother was never hers when Dutta came into the picture and her dad was gone because of him too.
So in a twisted way her obsession for him is rather justified.😆
The facade she puts of being a married woman and a mom is just for society's sake. She can't risk people knowing her true colours because that means she will have to actually show Dutta her real feelings for him and all the fun will stop. She can't have him hate her coz that means she won't have her favourite doll dance to her tune anymore.
The day that Sriram Patil died, is the day Kala's normal world came to a halt, the day it stopped being about her family and they day it all became about Dutta. So for that she has to continue to make it about Dutta but never a happy Dutta.
Tit for tat, she suffered all these years and he has to as well this is how Kalavati Sriram Patil wants it.
Edited by fuzzyface - 14 years ago