MONDAY'S MULTIVOCAL MOTIVES - Page 6

Originally posted by: magesh18

If there is indeed a bun in the oven, would it not be easy for SCAM to tell it directly to his parents (atleast his mother). This would atleast mean that there is no loss of face in public for SCAM. He would probably face the brunt of IG's anger anyway. But he can atleast save his face to the outside world right.

I explained the possible mind set in my post replying to Hami's question about why SCAM may not have the guts to come clean with his double life with his family. They are usually symptomatic of a deeper psychological issue rooted in childhood. I hope POPs address the background story at least a little to show why people make such choices.

We have often talked about Krishna's behavior and choices as a reflection of the messages he got as a childhood living in that jungalee environment. His love for Prats opened the doors for him and his willingness to do whatever it takes was the reason we have started seeing him change his ways though with a few fits and starts and reverting to old patterns of behavior which is normal.

I don't think GF is pregnant but she might be sick. I don't think Sax's are going to believe P even now. I am still expecting a huge fight between sisters.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Let me address it now and we can open up discussions on it.

I think SCAM wants to be caught. Here is how it goes. Scam already has a ma'am. He told Gaurav he is getting married for the family's sake to a girl they would approve of. That immediately leads me to the conclusion that girl he is involved with may not meet family standards and requirements for a bahu. She is still a mystery but let's see if they will expand on that.

The family has never forced him to get married. He voluntarily chose Arushi to get parental approval. He wants family to see he is the son who does the right thing, tows the family sanskaar while he resents that he is not strong enough to stand up to authority. He is not ready and he lacks the courage to come right out and tell his family about this girl. I think POPs introduced the scene where Papa asked him to go and change clothes on his engagement day and he walked away like a five year old to do just that. He wants to be the goody two shoes and can't stand up to his parents but internally there is also a rebellious side to him. We saw how he held off Krishna at first face to face meet outside the courthouse. He hates authority. Yet he tries to pull rank against the Takurs. I suspect a part of SCAM resents Krishna bfor his inner strength, honesty and truthfulness that he himself lacks.

I can't wait to see IG's reaction to this son's humilating behavior. He told SS he won't share a roof with criminals like SS. Today he is housing a teenage felon, a two-timing Lothario and who knows what Gaurav's secret could be. Will IG be forced to reevaluate his life and his failure to raise sons he could be proud of. Would he wish he had an unpud son like Krishna instead of the three educated fools.

When KN said he didn't think SCAM was good for Arushi made me wonder if he got news from his contacts around town about SCAM's double life.

We saw in the episode where Mrs. Mathur wants to do godh bharai, he has resentment towards his father's attitude when he takes Gaurav's side against his mother. It also explains why he never spoke up for Jai when the Saxes came.

Meera di

Loved the bold part !!! that is exactly it Aman lacks the courage to stand up for himself and at the same time he is incapable of hiding his rebellious streak it sneaks out when ever his father is not in the vicinity. But I doubt he wants to get caught a man like Aman is overconfident it has been obvious by his lack of caution, as well as in his behavior in the middle of the street towards the Tachur children. He feels superior to those around him, hence he doubts he will get caught which is why he has chosen a girl like Arushi well aware of the fact that she can be easily manipulated and just recently he has taken advantage of her flaws to avoid suspicion from her family members !!!

I am eagerly waiting for the IG' s reaction because he has brought this upon himself, his strict behavior and lack of affection towards his children has forced them to find other ways of filing the void in their lives. No not all of this is his fault yet he is the root cause, especially in the case of Gaurav as for Aman he seems to have taken things further since he hopes of maintaining his image in front of his father as he cheats on his fiance !!! Di according to me Aman did not speak up mainly because his image would have been tarnished he could not hurt his mother by stating the facts and he could not overlook Adarsh's pain and hurt his future in laws !!! Btw di what is your take on the Arushi and KN track ?