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Kools reporting from base : Rasika advises in PR . VINOD CRIES . While Manohar was fighting for his life , Vinod spotted Archu and went upto her . He wept and talked very emotionally to his sister . You have put us through enough . Our father got this heart attack only bcoz of YOU . U put him through tremendous mental strain . It is clear you don't see beyond Manav . That Manav whom you left btw when we had categorically TOLD U NOT TO . That time too u defied us .Today too ur defying us .Both times u did it for MAHAANTA CAUSE . My Pavitra Rishta , My Pavitra Rishta ur constantly go on . For That Pavitra Rishta u do ABNORMAL THINGS [ divorcing inspite of being in love , agreeing to marry so lover can marry , having friendship with him inspite of being engaged , slapping and destroying intimate delicate relations] and PUT US THRU HELL . Manav is ur EX who is marrying another girl and UR putting all at stake , including ur own family to free him .Put YOURSELF at Stake , dont drag us . That PAVITRA RISHTA has become a noose around our neck now . Please remove the BLACK SHADOW of that Pavitra Rishta from our lives forever and let us COMMON people live in peace . . Archu stared , weeping . . My comments : Vinod rocked . Each word he said was true . Each word . Divorcing Manav was Archnas greatest mISTAKE and DECISION . She had ignored her maayka who had told her DONT DO IT . Vinod had told her in varshas marraige not to go ahead with the divorce .Sulo told her on the day she invited both for lunch just before divorce day .But Archna had ADAMANTLY , listening to Manav's SUCKING Ideas DIVORCED him . But she cud not stay uninvolved after the divorce . Had she been his WIFE , today these Karanjkars wud have been CHUP coz society expects that come what may , u stand by your husband , that goes without saying . But Archna signed away her rights to go to this extent for Manav . The badnaami that Karanjkars r facing today is coz she is running after her ex inspite of being engaged to ANOTHER man . Doubts have arisen about IF THERE IS MORE THAN MEETS THE EYES in society . When the engagement BREAKS , this simple , traditional family will face terrific badnaami ..........people will say maybe Archna is still sleeping with her ex and not over him .........saw how she called him even for the engagement ? She cud not go through with the marraige , her fiancee found out and it broke . Her parents will have now no face to show in sociey . Her weak hearted father who had once attempted suicide today collapsed with a heart attack . This tremendous emotional pressure was brought on him by Archana. Her mistake was . 1] Divorcing when she was NOT really ready for it........for Archana never really understood the meaning of divorce . 2] Agreeing to remarry when she was not ready for it simply so her lover could fulfil his responsibilities . 3] not listening to family on both accounts and ONLY listening to Lover . Divorcing for him , remarrying for him then deciding to break up for him . And all this while dragging her family thru MUCK as she went on taking decisions according to HER MANMAANI . . Many will feel sorry for poor Archu being 'GANGED UP AGAINST" ..........I DON"T . Her family has faced hell due to her and Mothers shud not be brought to a stage where they have to make a choice between children . Thats what Archu did . Her choice ........Manav ..........need nOT be her family's choice . No mother on earth will allow an entire family to break coz one child is fighting for a cause or love or whatever . The Scnenario is........
I am fighting for my EX who is innocent and who may come out and move on in life by marrying his zimmedari and you MOm support me in this .............and in this support , break relations with all ur other children , let their lives be destroyed , so when my EX remarries , U will have this picture
I am still single as Ex has remarried as per his word with Shravni
Vaishu Varsha have no marraiges , and their husbands r in jail and r bhikaaris as business has closed down
U have 3 RUINED daughters on ur head due to my JUNOON
And this is how it will be for the rest of ur life . A RUINED FAMILY .Yet , support me o MOM . Im right and UR wrong ......u see , Im on the side of RIGHT .
This is what Archna is beseeching silently and THIS is what Sulo is expected to comply with . Tell me which mom on earth will say YES .
The Three Signatures
3 signatures have caused havoc on this show ...........signatures given without realising the enormity of their implications , in an immature and childish attempt of JUNOON by the great lovers ARMAN who think their decisions ROCK and they don't need any guidance .
1] The Signature Archna gave on Divorce paper .........she LIED on paper that she was going away from Manavs life .Emotionally she NEVER did . Had she never given this signature , she wud have NOT put her family through this horror today . The picture would be only a strife within the family .........the additional baggage of the breaking of engagement , badnaami etc wud NOT be there .Sulo Manohar wud have understood it that Archu HAS to stand by her husband as Vaishu has to stand by HERS .It happens all the time in property disputes .
2] The Signature that Archu gave without even bothering to read the documents Jay gave her . Its all very well to blame Jay saying U TRICKED ME but no one can trick u if u do UR RESPONSIBILITIES EFFICIENTLY . SIgnatures have VALUE , they are not given away so carelessly . I demand a judge's reprimand for Archna . It is this signature that has sealed Manavs fate .
3] The Signature that Manav gave ADMITTING to a CRIME he NEVER DID . For what ? So Archna cud marry a ruthless fiend . He knew it , ok..........he KNEW it that this man is RUTHLESS . He knew it that he was the SOLE bread winner of his aged parents , that his brother had died . Yet he did it in MOHABBAT KA JUNOON . If Old parents die in poverty its ok but ex girlfriend shud REMARRY and marraige , like virginity is a MUST for every girl were Manav's out dated, silly ideas . That SIGNATURE sealed his fate and ARchnas fate too .
And all these 3 signatures , that led to this mess were given by ARMAN who dont even care to listen to a volley of sane advices given by many people around them . The only thing is .........now they r not stopping at doing EACH other's bARBAADI but r doing barbaadi of other people too . Some are at death's door [ Manohar and once upon a time Damodar...Kaka has already gone] and some will become paupers [ THE WORKERS}
Had Manav refused to sign and challenged Jay to give him the third degree by saying .........Go on , hit me . In two days I will be standing before the judge and I will show him the bruises and tell him the police did this to me , then see what answers u will have to give . Neither will u have my sign nor can u AFFORD to touch me . Infact its in ur FAIDA to keep my butt very INTACT and SAVED . As far as my Archnas remarraige goes , she is better off NOT marrying a FIEND like u !
Had Manav given this answer .............He wud be a hero in my eyes . But he once more did NOT KNOW THE VALUE OF HIS SIGNATURE . Mohabbat ka junoon is one thing and GROSS STUPIDITY is another ........especially when that stupidity starts affecting others lives .
THE GEETA AND ARCHANA
A lot is being said about the Geeta and Archu following it . Since I do Geeta readings and its my favorite subject , I wish to point some fallacies in this here ............
The Mahabharatha war was launched only when ALL possibilities of dialogue were exhausted . Till the end ..........Krishna . whom Hindus consider an incarnation of God himself tried to do across the table dialogue with the enemy camp .........the Kauravas . We do NOT see Archna doing ANY dialogue with the opposite camp except screaming hysterically and slapping . She was not even interested in listening to their side of the story and coming to a common solution in which her lover wud be out . Yes she cud have rejected their solutions if they were unfair but she shud have LISTENED and attempted a dialogue
1] We do NOT see Archna going to any lawyers todate to discuss Manavs case
2] We do not see Archna asking police to conduct enquiry on Prakashs shady character as the full case hinges on his word
3] We do not see Archna trying to understand WHY SATISH SIGNED ............coz Satish is different . The PLIGHT of THOUSANDS OF WORKERS is the answer and that angle has not even STRUCK Archna yet . Yes Dharmesh used it to manipulate Satish but it is a FACT too . This does NOT mean the likes of Dharmesh should go scot free under this excuse each time they frame an innocent ..........it only means if there is ANY OTHER WAY via which Manav can be tactfully pulled out of jail and Dharmesh pulled down from the board of directors with Satish taking over , it SHOULD BE LOOKED INTO .
And to look for such a way , a dialogue is a must , with an advocate at Archnas side and an experienced person like Rasika . Someone said yesterday in SOTD that there is no point in talking to the devil coz the Devil only corrupts u morally and pulls u down . But I wish to point out that GOD had indeed held dialogues with the DEvils in mahabharatha . He had NOT advocated STRAIGHT WAR and there were no slaps when the dialogues were held .Krishna iNSISTED on things being done the RIGHT WAY .
4] I ask one question . Corruption has been shown in PR ........corruption on police level . If police officers can be bribed to do third degree or to let Ajit out of jail for two hours so he can RAPE Vandita , can't the police be bribed to SUPPRESS the case ? Of course they can do it . The workers who died .........their families can be silenced with compensation and can be told ...that be quiet and accept this ..........coz if u guys insist on court case ........it will also come out there that these two workers died ROBBING the company . Not in ur interest to go to case level ..........take money and be quiet , let us live peacefully too . But this alternative was never looked into by Ajit Archna duo .
5] All that is shown is innumerable visits to jail and tears , bas . is this fighting for Manav ?
6] Finally when war was launched in Mahabharat ...........it must be understood that the ones who fought THEMSELVES WERE THE ARMY AND POLICE . In todays world it is not so . We have to resort to other bodies of government as army or police . We Cannot act like police ourselves and slap people or kick them , we have to await court decisions . The war in Mahabharat was fought most systematically .
Rasika advises
Rasika advised Archu to file a counter complaint against the management stating the management is at fault for not dismantling the machines on time . Archna may go to jail . this is the only way left as Manav foolishly signed the document .
Archna will do it , of course . But what Vinod said was right , she cares only for Manav .This is no fight for the RIGHT THING at all . I dont see her jeopardising her personal and professional life for dinesh or Prakash if they had been in manavs place .Today when her Dad was lying almost on death bed , this girl was least interested in even being in the hospital premises , she ran away to Ajits house .Manav was on her mind MORE than her father .
And if thats the case .............I hope PR shows us some reality . That if Archna can have so much love for her EX who treated her shabbily , her sisters have the same love for THEIR husbands who treated them excellently compared to the treatment Manav gave HER .
That if she doesn't care for her family where Manav is concerned , they draw a line and ostracise her . They too r justified in doing that . She should not after accomplishing her goal expect things to go back as they were before .
If the case can be suppressed and Manav can be given heavy financial compensation by Dharmu ...enough to open his own garage once more , it wud be the best solution . Dharmu needs to pay financially heavily to the two workers and also Manav as a punishment . I wud NOT like to see Vaishu suffer .
Did i say that Manohar advised Archu not to break the marraige with Jay ?See the scene and see his advice .Its rEAL and practical . Just like Vinods talk . But I will NOT like it if Archu takes it .She shud bREAK with Jay as soon as Manohar is on his feet .
So sorry , no humor today , just a lot of food for thought and controversial opinions as usual .
Like button if u like comments even if u dont . I dont mind the heated debates if they strictly pertain to the show and dont get personal . PR Forum never goes to that level .touch wood . Enjoy , CIAO .
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