DOTW: marriages & perspectives - Page 2

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

Hey all,

so here's this week's discussions: like said Superb discussion topics sidra

1) What factors should be taken into account when discussing the strength of a marriage? and based on these factors, what overall score would you give, on a scale of 1-10, to Shanak's marriage's strength? (1 being extremely weak... 10 being EXTREMELY STRONG - like a brick!😆) When we talk about marriage or any relation what comes first??Trust , Understanding ,care, love, but let me add one more thing which is shown at times in ShaNak's relations i,e RESPECT. No matter how much love , care, understand u have in a relation when there is no respect in ur relation it lacks something , yes shaNak was shown at times being rude to each other , but they even showed them respecting each others decisions and nature..When u respect someone u dont really demand answers unless its baseless ......

If i have to rate their relation i would give it 6 out of 10 since they have to realise many things ...............

2) We have seen this show from khanak's perspectives mostly, if we look at how it started..its promos its title songs, first episode... all from khanak's perspective... how she lost her childhood lover/husband, how she got another guy in her life.. all planned by destiny.. and then how she had to face her current husband's EX... now HOW would we have reacted, had we seen this SAME story fromt he perspective of natassha? instead of khanak's wedding, had our story started off with NATASSHA's falling in love with shaan (maybe covered in one episode in a quick recap), her wedding preps with shaan.. and on the engagement day he comes in with a new bride! a bride who later on calls OUR HEROINE "doosri aurat"... see from khanak's perspective, everything that happened till now seems fate, seems all perfect to us..her and shaan falling in love..

but wud we have had the same reaction had we seen this story from natassha's perspective? wud our atttitude towards shanak marriage had been so positive? wwht abt our attitude towards shaan's new wife? wud we have wanted their marriage to end? very gud question , yes , My perception would have been same , infact we had same question way long back and i said it would have been same .....

U r talking about Tashu being in love and Khanak;s fate of getting married to shan , but if thats the case , even if tashu would have fallen in love with shan , we have to know if shan was really in love with tashu from beginning ?? was his love for her same one like it was since the show started ?? like him being in love for the idea of being in love ?? Yes i would have sympathised with tashu like i do , but i will be supporting Shanak's marriage .since i strongly believe no one really know the true meaning of love unless and untill they meet the right one and in love u help ech other to grow , as long as shan grows as a person , i dont care who he is married to but the person should impact his life in such a way that he should never want to leave her , and help her grow .......

3) Why am i so ghussa on shaan nowadays?😆😆 😆and why did i wanna whack his head MAJORLY today when he started showing off all that attitude... while a few moments ago he was acting like a baby when thsi attitude WAS MOST NEEDED! toh batao... main kyun itn ghussa hoo..kyun maine aaj apna fav shanak ke scenes nahi enjoy kar paaayi?😆 Depends , ur upset with shan, but i was upset with ShaNak for their weird behavior, both of them r at faults ........

I seriously hope i made some sense , well atleast to me i did 😊

and sidra once again thanks