Turning into a responsible damaad as well! - Page 2

Originally posted by: nisha2010

he has thought of himself as a damaad even b4 he was married............😆and proved it many no. of times..........its d opposite i think.....d saxena's r accepting him d damaad now........feeling his presence as a part of their family.........😊

Yes he has but now he is behaving like a proper damaad coz whatever he was doing before was when he hadn't changed.But now he knows more abt what's right and what isn't and how to go abt things and how he should deal with them.So now he's deffinitely doing his responsibilities as a damaad properly.😊

Originally posted by: shruthiR

I appreciate you POV on Krishna being a perfect damaad.But here's what I think:

Although he did care a lot for the Saxenas he didn't know how to show it and neither did it come out in a proper way like the Angad disrespecting Arushi incident.They didn't appreciate it because the way he tried to show that he cares was not quiet right.Now he is a changed man and they are aware of it and he's taking things in the right pace that's why he is being appreciated and that's why I feel he is trying to become a perfect damaad as well.

As I appreciate your POV.

There's no right or wrong way to show you care. People like Angad don't respond to kind words. Krishna had to beat him up. Krishna showed he cared over and over and over again. Aside from the Angad part, what about when Shakti wanted to shoot Professor? Didn't Krishna come in between that?

Before the Saxes were under a misunderstanding so they couldn't see Krishna's goodness. After they realized that Angad was the reason behind a lot of their miseries, their opinion of Krishna changed. Krishna didn't change. I know for sure that if this incident with Adarsh happened before the misunderstanding was cleared, Krishna would have done the same thing.. the only difference is that they would have called him junglee for pushing food onto them and ignored him or insulted him.

I don't think Krishna is a changed man. The Saxes opinion of him changed.

Originally posted by: soapbubble

Well said! 👏
He has always been loving and caring but he has not COME ACROSS as the perfect damad - well meaning but impetuous, rushing before the Saxenas were ready - many problems both parties didn't understand each other but we're past all that now, right? The Saxenas understand now where he's coming from and Krishna too has learnt to deal with them better.
Bubble

Exactly!He knows how to deal with things in a better manner now and does give importance to other ppl's feelings.It isn't abt what he feels is right is correct anymore,it's about what the other person feels and thinks as well for him now.😊

Originally posted by: Rahm

As I appreciate your POV.

There's no right or wrong way to show you care. People like Angad don't respond to kind words. Krishna had to beat him up. Krishna showed he cared over and over and over again. Aside from the Angad part, what about when Shakti wanted to shoot Professor? Didn't Krishna come in between that?

Before the Saxes were under a misunderstanding so they couldn't see Krishna's goodness. After they realized that Angad was the reason behind a lot of their miseries, their opinion of Krishna changed. Krishna didn't change. I know for sure that if this incident with Adarsh happened before the misunderstanding was cleared, Krishna would have done the same thing.. the only difference is that they would have called him junglee for pushing food onto them and ignored him or insulted him.

I don't think Krishna is a changed man. The Saxes opinion of him changed.

Originally posted by: shruthiR

You might care for a person but I have to disagree with you on a point.There is a right and wrong way when it comes to caring for a person.He did want to help but it was like as if he was forcing things on the Saxenas.They did misunderstand him but he had also done many wrong things which was also part of the dislike they had and showed towards him.He deffinitely has changed.He thinks abt how another person would feel abt what he does or says and takes their POV's into consideration as well which he didn't give importance to before coz only what he felt mattered to him.So he deffinitely has changed.

He was acting on what he felt was right. I never said he never did anything wrong. I simply said that he cared for them and did things for them out of that care and yes they took it the wrong way.

The reason why things felt like that were being forced on the Saxes were because they never treated him as a member of their family while he tried so hard to be a member of the family.

Krishna is as he was. He says whatever he feels like he did with Aman yesterday. Saxes opinion of him changed hence they see his goodness. If this accident with Adarsh happened before and Krishna bought food they would have been rude to him, but he would have brought it with the same intention that he had today. So that is difference.

Originally posted by: Rahm

He was acting on what he felt was right. I never said he never did anything wrong. I simply said that he cared for them and did things for them out of that care and yes they took it the wrong way.

The reason why things felt like that were being forced on the Saxes were because they never treated him as a member of their family while he tried so hard to be a member of the family.

Krishna is as he was. He says whatever he feels like he did with Aman yesterday. Saxes opinion of him changed hence they see his goodness. If this accident with Adarsh happened before and Krishna bought food they would have been rude to him, but he would have brought it with the same intention that he had today. So that is difference.

Exactly!He was doing whatever he felt was right and never thought about what the other person would feel like when he does or said something.He didn't give importance to what they think or felt,it was only about what he felt.And it's not like that anymore.And even before they came to know that Krishna didn't do all this itself Shyamji and Nainaji were aware of the fact that Krishna really cares for them but it's just that he doesn't know how to show it.So even if he did bring them food when Adarsh met with this accident they would've appreciated it. And since he does take other ppl's feelings into consideration now a days which he didn't do before he has changed for the better,

Even before the trial Krishna came to his sasur's house when Komal was bothering everyone and he told her to improve herself since she married into an educated family. He showed up at the trial to support Prats even though his own family was at the puja. He has become more understanding of them and forced them to accept him as a great damad, which he is. And now, the man he once promised to kill he treats respectfully because he is a future damad of the Saxenas. Not every man is capable of doing that, the way he was brought up. But Krishna is not just any man. This scene just moved me so much, I can't tell you. It's one thing to get Prats to eat, she is his wife, but to get her entire family food and then persuade the other damad to make his fiance eat is just amazing. 👏👏👏

Shruthi nice topic: Krishna has definitely came a long way form the one we saw in the first episode. His character progression was crafted with care and passion by the CVs. He has a long way to go and to learn some very important traits still, and with him we are seeing a journey of a man who is great, who is what he is from Nature, and who never reminds us of others HE IS UNIQUE 😊

Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC

Shruthi nice topic: Krishna has definitely came a long way form the one we saw in the first episode. His character progression was crafted with care and passion by the CVs. He has a long way to go and to learn some very important traits still, and with him we are seeing a journey of a man who is great, who is what he is from Nature, and who never reminds us of others HE IS UNIQUE 😊

True,he deffinitely is unique and the best part is now he's willing to learn and change accordingly.He ain't the stubborn person we saw before who thaught that things have to go the way he wants it to.He's adjusting and thinking abt others as well.It's interesting to see him change for the better and hopefully he will keep learning and improving.