Could this be DUTTA's LIFE LESSON?

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Like all of you, I am so sad after watching today's episode...my God. How the lives of those poor children were ruined on that night by the selfishness, greed, and carelessness of "mature" adults--not just losing a father, but losing love, the sense of security and of home, of belonging to someone for life. Gosh, children are so much like glass. Once hurt, broken, they rarely fully recover. It changes everything for them, and that is what we saw today.

As I was responding to Anu's post on AS, I was thinking of one thing: Does Dutta know in some way? He was young, but I am sure he remembers his father. Even AS remembers Dutta's fear of his father. I don't think Dutta understood what happened that night fully--bechara, how could any child understand such a twisted thing?...that his father put him up as the pot during his card game, that his father was okay with giving him away to a complete stranger. It is this one thing I am grateful for, that most likely Dutta does not understand this part of that night, and I am thankful to AS for never reminding him of it too.

But I think Dutta might know or sense--that was somehow responsible for the tragedy, which of course he was not; he was merely an innocent child. Could this explain the following?

1. His fierce attachment and protectiveness over his sisters and AS? Particularly Kala, who was the most affected? And his closeness / soft spot for Roops, who never knew her father?

2. His anger at people and at life, and at not being able to trust people's intentions?

Could this whole FATHER track in combination with the FACE REVEAL be the biggest life lesson for Dutta? A moment of truth in his life, if you will...a lesson about love, forgiveness of others, trust, and self-forgiveness? I don't know, perhaps I am off here. But these two stories coinciding has a purpose, no doubt. Now whether this is to advance the Tasha romance or to unravel Dutta's psyche and be a defining moment in his life, I do not know. Perhaps it is both.

What do you think?

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Posted: 14 years ago

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well said gp...............I feel sooooooooooooooooo sad for dutta...........love him much moreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee nowwwwwwwwwww......................😭

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: kshreya2002

Hey Shreya,

You see this is where I am confused. Why does Dutta think Shriram Patil was his father? He must remember Damodar as his father...he was five or so. And Shriram Patil died before he could be Dutta's "dad", e.g. after he took Dutta away from the gambler and Damodar. Dutta knows AS is not his real mom, that we know. So how is it that he thinks his father was Shriram Patil?

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Thanks for this post gp! Your posts are always interesting. And I was dying to post something. 😆

Could this whole FATHER track in combination with the FACE REVEAL be the biggest life lesson for Dutta? A moment of truth in his life, if you will...a lesson about love, forgiveness of others, trust, and self-forgiveness? I don't know, perhaps I am off here. But these two stories coinciding has a purpose, no doubt. Now whether this is to advance the Tasha romance or to unravel Dutta's psyche and be a defining moment in his life, I do not know.

I agree. I've been reading lots of posts here, from frustrated TaSha fans. I am one too! 😆 But I admit, I love the way the CVs have intertwined the tracks. I mean, I found it confusing at first. FR adha adhoora chodke they moved to the DP track. But now it kinda makes sense. LTL is brilliant in terms of characterization, and the storyline. I was thinking about this y'day, was telling my roomie how Star One has so many serials that go on and on without a storyline while LTL is so rich in story and characters. What I *love* about this story is that I cannot for the life of me guess where this is going. As a rule, I can guess the track in any story if I watch a few episodes. But LTL is one of the few stories that has me stumped. And maybe this is the real reason it has me hooked. I know that there's a happy ending, i know that TaSha will unite once she transforms, but how! How will they overcome the obstacles? How will they shed their inhibitions, their prejudices? Nail biting suspense I tell you! The DP track, I loved the way they never gave us a clue to DP's identity, and then suddenly told us the whole story!

The TaSha story would have been incomplete if it were just the love story. Here you have characters undergoing such transformation. Naku was someone naive, and now she's learning to be brave. i know her actions are reprehensible, but in her defence I love the fact that she's keeping her distance from him. And though I say that I would have told Dutta the truth if I were in her place, I know it's mighty difficult! So, I'm giving her time. And anyway I have a feeling she's not the one who's gonna be doing the revealing!

Dutta. This one character has so many facets. He's complex, and I love complex characters. He's not your regular lover boy. He's been through so much that he no longer knows how to trust. Yet, he's met his faith in the form of Naku. And she makes him want to be a better man! He wants to trust again, infact he's halfway already. But his happiness seems so fragile. ANd now that his past has come into the picture, it's looking almost impossible. Naku's been there for him, but those situations were nothing compared to the storm looming over the horizon. The secret is gonna make him question himself, his identity. And I'd love it if the CVs use this track to show how TaSha's love overcomes all. And how they emerge stronger. Yes, Dutta's gonna learn that faith, and love can get you through everything. That's what I'm betting on! *fingers crossed*

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pbtghosh

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Hey Shreya,

You see this is where I am confused. Why does Dutta think Shriram Patil was his father? He must remember Damodar as his father...he was five or so. And Shriram Patil died before he could be Dutta's "dad", e.g. after he took Dutta away from the gambler and Damodar. Dutta knows AS is not his real mom, that we know. So how is it that he thinks his father was Shriram Patil?

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AS not mentioned the age of dutta. she said Kala was 8yrs old , Lila 4yrs old. the boy you seen as little dutta I think he is junior than Lila. his age arround 2.5 - 3.5 yrs old. and at this age I think a baby can forget every thing.

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desigrl414

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Posted: 14 years ago

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well there might be more to AS's story. she could have left out parts she didn't want nakku to hear. what they could be only the CV's know...lol...

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Very thought provoking write up as usual Parul.

I think rather than a lesson of life a sort of healing process has begun for this very troubled & wounded man or rather child-man.The very first wound came in the form of losing his mother the moment he was born.What followed thereon was a saga of suffering where relentless blows rained on this man. And at some point out of sheer will for the sake of survival of his family he wore an armour of distrust & anger over those wounds.It did offer him protection from further hurt.He rose to unprecedented heights in terms of power where no one or nothing could touch him.But the wounds below that armour remained unhealed,they festered poisoning his whole being where he became a man he himself could hardly recognise.This he realised when Nakusha held a mirror to him. It would not be correct to assume once the marriage happens Dutta will quietly settle into domestic life blissful because even then those wounds will still remain unattended.He wasn't hurt after the Seema-Sups episodes he was scarred permanently way before that.So it was very necessary for Dutta to revisit his past where the actual healing will begin.He must start by first confronting his father's,mother's truth followed by his wife's story.Final confrontation will be with Dutta Bhao.Only then will he meet the real Dutta.He will be healed enough by then to recognise that Dutta.It will of course be a very painful healing.The scabs must be peeled out before the medicine is applied.Someday the wounds will dry out.Time will erase any left behind scars.And then All will be well.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Very interesting post ....as always and great replies

here is what I feel about it....

If you remember the first epi where dutta's sisters were introduced....and after all that tapasya ka natak they were home and all that display of affection was happening...remember what AS said? she said looking at the love you share who will beleive that you are not real brother sisters? So, Dutta knows that he is not their real brother...about the sri ram patil name, I guess he was too young to understand at the time all these things happened and since AS adopted him she gave him her husband's name...

As far as the memory goes....from what i know though children do not remember much of what happened at 5 years of age...the events at that time actually shape up the child's personality...so you can say that all that neglect, abuse etc is part of Dutta's psyche..he doesnt remember it...may be if he hypnotised and undergoes regression, he will recall it...but yes, his father's abuse has had a major impact on him....

When we face a negative situation....and we are abused...there are two ways we can deal with it...again this is from what I have seen and observed...

Some people tend to remember the pain of that abuse and try not to inflict the pain on any one else...this makes them more protective about people...that is why perhaps dutta is more protective about his sisters and roops in particular.....he wants to protect them....be a father he never had.....and may be AS fed him stories about her hubby so he wants to emulate that...

Some people like to remember the pain they went through and pass it on to others...example kala...she has lost a father, she blames dutta and her dad for it and she wants to inflict pain on him thro all means for this reason...she wants to use him for her comfort because she feels since he was responsible for snatching her father he needs to pay back for it....some where I feel dutta....the little boy in him is aware of it...because he tries to fulfill all their needs and particularly kala's to gain her approval....he wants this sis to love him and giving her everything is the only way...that is why he listens to all her demands...till he fell in love with naku

I dont know if i made sense but thats just what i think

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mango_girl

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Nice topic... and interesting views from everyone.

Well, couldn't the reason for Dutta's name being Dutta Sriram Patil be as simple as having the same name as his sisters? I mean, AS accepted him as her own, so maybe she put the same name as her kids, so others wouldn't differentiate either. Also, if Dutta had his real father's name, he'd ask AS questions about him and AS would have to explain all the unpleasent truth ... so maybe she took the easy way out and put her husbands name as his dad... I dont blame her at all...

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Made4eachother

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Posted: 14 years ago

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i think you are rite...!! there HAS to a connection for this face revealation and the Father's story...!!!! no wonder they are draging it soo much...!!!!! CVs are upto doing smtn unpredictable i guess...!!!!

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