now coming to my post guys, i have been coming to this forum since a few days and noticed the gr8 deal of hatred accumalated among the SR fans towards armaan. and seriously speaking i agree a guy coming outa nothing to his ex's honeymoon is totally not right! but i wud just like to ask one question from u ppl...do u think that its armaan's fault alone??? doesnt ridhima has any share in it??? armaan was a guy who loved ridhima as selflessly as ever...the way no one cud have loved her. he left her alone just to save her future...I still remember the dialouge he said to shashank.." if for ridhima's happiness i had to fight with myself, i wud do it without even thinking once"😳 that was HIS level of love for her.
but as he returned he realized that the girl whom he loved more than his life, was no longer his. she had moved on. despite the fact that what all he did was for her safety n better future only HE left her alone to live a happy married life. he was shattered , broken and hopeless but what all he wished n endeaveoured for was to make her beleive that he is fine so that she doesnt get concerned abt him & can move on. now i just wanna ask u guys, that cant a lover who has been left ALL alone doesnt even has the right to cry n feel his pain alone??? there were hundreds of post on this forum on the very fact that "why cant armaan malik move on"??? i really ask u guys do u think its really that easy to move on??? its easy to let go a relationship that actually strengthened u huge enough to sacrifice ur all hopes for it??? when armaan had been diagnosed with the fatal disease he left ridhima just for her sake despite the fact that it was the moment he needed her the most. do u really think guys that forgetting such unconditional love is a day's game???
even then though HE hadnt moved on but still kept himself away from ridhima. even IF he gave pain to himself...that wasnt infront of ridhima!! then why was ridhima so affected by it that she actually gave his pain more importance than anything else in her lyf.thats where i think her hidden love still cared for him.
and today, though i agree that armaan shudnt have come to see sidhant and ridhima on their honemoon, but there is never a fire without sparks. somehow he has realized that ridhima still hasnt detatched herself from him...if ridhima wud have been completely into her relationship with sid, armaan wud have never returned, coz for him theres nothing more important than her happiness. but he still wants to figure out something which he has seen in her as well. that spark which still ignites between the two. i wud examplify this, if there is a person suffering from a terminal illness, with almost no hope to remain alive, suddenly he comes to know that there is a possible treatment in which though the chances r hardly 1% but STILL chances r there...he will definately go for the chance, bcoz he loves his lyf. i think its same with armaan as well, he had lost all his hopes of a life with ridhima and had accepted her marriage as well, but time and again he saw that spark between them...something that was still left NOT only from his side but her side as well. he just wants to figure out that. so I ask u IS ARMANN ONLY AT FAULT??? isnt it ridhima as well???
even today i so beleive that ridhima may be with sid but she still loves armaan.i dont wanna bash any SR fans but in my view guys, ridhima had started loving SID as a friend and as a companion
but still she hasnt accepted him as her SOULMATE...coz in my view that place is still reserved for armaan...her first and last LOVE😳 for sid , her feeling more than love are respect n friendship, she admires him for his qualities, for his goodness BUT i think armaan was the only one whom she loved even with his stubborness, his kiddish nature and all his share of flaws. dats what in my view sets AR apart, coz they love each other for almost everything...n not just their mere gudness.
i hope i made some sense here. wish AR reunite soon.
note:no intentions to hurt anyone. this is just ma pov and my personal choice that i want the AR story to be completed. many of my frnds over here r huge SR fans, i hope they wud understand that everyone has a right to personal choice n liking.
positive n healthy discussion is always welcome😳
thnx
malika