confused riddhima also coufuse Armaan

After watching last 2 episodes it seems apperant that till now only R was confused but now she is making him confused...... Armaan came back only to see her one last time, he himself uttered, he had never expected to get her back... that too after sidma's remarriage with R's own willingness... Armaan is never that cheap, neither was he nor he will be in future... we all know him better than anybody [ Ridz, Sid, Shashank or any one at Sanjivani ] .......its true that A has not moved on, he still remember her with that intensity... but matter here is could Armaan do that thing with her which he did previous night???? Answer is big nooooooo....... never ever he can do this.... he is a decent guy.... without her consent he never kissed her when they were together.... then now how could he? ..... reason is obvious.... since last few weeks knowingly or unknowingly she gave signals which misguide him that she still loves him , never forget him & has not moved on...... she shows even tells openly she cares for him, feels for him by telling ..... chot tumhe hoti hai toh dard muze jyada hota hai.... also BB court scene, boxing ring scene & many more where she shows her feelings for him openly in spite of a married woman...... she has reason to hide or ignore her feelings & past love cause she has to think of Sid every moment, but she failed.... but Armaan has no other name in his mind or heart... so for him is bit difficult to hide or control his feelings.... in spite of that he did well till now.... at least openly in public he never displayed his emotions, his pain or hurt....... yesterday night she initiated scene[make blunder without seeing who is in front of her ] ..... i luv u, main tumse bahut pyar karti hun, yeh kehne me maine bahut der kar dee, but i really luv u...... all this blabbering with a tight hug, that too from her who is only love of his life, whom he has loved like any thing.... paglon ki tarah pyar karta tha woh ise..... uske munh se yeh sunneke baad kaise koi rok pata apne aap ko......... in short she, her mindless blunder provoked him for all that happened at night.... even next day also he appeared in front of her only just to clarify whether she has moved on or not.... for the sake of all three lives..... his intentions were never bad... sidma ki shadi todne ka uska koi irada nahi tha...... so only he is not at fault.... one can not blame him only for what happened yesterday...... that is my feeling my view..... THANKS

Sorry but I am sort of against this..I am not trying to bash at all though because I love Armaan..USED to love Armaan.

Armaan and Riddhima are both to be blamed for doing what they did. But yes I do agree that Riddhima is a confused character. All she does is think about what she wants. She needs to stop being so self-obsessed and think about Sid for a change.

i agree with every point of urs u r truely a gem

Originally posted by: -Kash4ever

Sorry but I am sort of against this..I am not trying to bash at all though because I love Armaan..USED to love Armaan.

Armaan and Riddhima are both to be blamed for doing what they did. But yes I do agree that Riddhima is a confused character. All she does is think about what she wants. She needs to stop being so self-obsessed and think about Sid for a change.

Thinking about Sid doesn't just mean to go back to him...she first of all need to sort out her head & heart...who is the love of her life?...will she be able to love Sid the same way as she loved Armaan. What I am trying to say is that to live with Sid not really means that she will be able to give Sid best happy married life and she confessed it infront of Sid that she won't be able to match up to his expectations...so why a farce if it is not coming from bottom of ur heart...is it really best for Sid to live with a girl who is with him just to please everyone and to make sure she is upholding the norms of society and expectations of others from her. Marriage is based on mutual love and attraction also plays a big role in sticking one another at certain level. Yes, it may not be the everlasting thing but that's the first thing that helps to build rest of the ingredients of a successful marriage. Happiness from bottom of your heart in being with each other is the key. We can look at other angle of "ILU' confession for Sid as just another mechanical step from her side because she is expected to act like that as being a devoted wife. She enjoyed the touch cuz infact it was Armaan's touch even though she may be thinking it was Sid's. Later on, on realising it was Armaan, she didn't abhore it, she enjoyed going with the flow, her commitment towards marriage is the only thing that is stopping her so far but lets see CVs may flip it again as always.