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Posted: 15 years ago
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anu kitna buddhu hai tum kab samjaypayage tanni ka feelings
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i really don't understand what anu wants.....
he wants nupur as well as taani....he wants both gharwali and baharwali together i supposed....
this man is really confusing...he doesn't know what he wants in his life....now everyone will say that anu suffered alot..i agree but even when a person suffers...he is aware of his emotions and feelings unlike anu who is a confusing person....and make things complicated for him.....
khud to confused horaha hai humein bhi confused kar raha hai
yesterday he crossed all limits of trying to get taani hooked with sushant....he never think once how taani would feel....he never thought even once that taani is his wife no matter he accepts it or not....i am so glad that taani gave a piece of mind to anu....
when anu cried yesterday i never felt bad guys honestly....because whatever he is doing is completely wrong....i couldn't support him in this matter....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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If we go by the common theory that he is in love with Nupur even then when he thought he was in love with Taani at 15, Taani always told him she won't accept him as her husband ... he moved on and fell in lovewith another girl so now Taani loves him but he does not feel the same way about her, what is wrong in that? (though i believe there is more to this story) Lobini broke their relationship in the middle of the road, whatever may be her justification and Taani already told him she won't accept him as her husband ever ... so during his period of emotional trauma he fell for another girl, how is he wrong?
As for him looking for a groom for Taani, he did not do it because he does not have any respect for her emotions but only because he is scared Lobini will marry her off with a wrong guy, Taani is the one he still cares the most about and Taani herself told him that she is dead, whome she marries it makes no difference to her now, so she is willing to marry anyone her mom chooses for her ... all Onu was trying to do was to find a person who would be worthy of her because she herself said she is willing to marry anyone her mom chooses for her happiness, didn't she? So rather than letting Lobini marry her off to any tom, dick and harry like a good friend he wanted to choose someone better for her. He is helpless, he can't marry her himself for whatever reasons so he is atleast trying to find someone for her who won't have 3 wives already.
Its not like he is happy to be doing all this, he is forced into a situation where he is helpless ... its not that he does not understand her pain or is not aware of it.
Even i don't think what he did was right but from his POV he did it for "Tere Liye" with nothing but her best interest in mind
And i disagree that people who go through emotiona trauma are clear about their emotions, infact its quite the contrary they start doubting their own emotions and feelings and this is exactly what i feel happened with Anurag regarding what he felt for Taani
And above is just my POV and the way i have understood the story and characters ... no offense
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Posted: 15 years ago
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He is confused nd so are we.. anything can happen at this point of time, nd i think this is the USP of the show that we are unable to predict what exactly can this track lead to..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Hoor-

He is confused nd so are we.. anything can happen at this point of time, nd i think this is the USP of the show that we are unable to predict what exactly can this track lead to..

i guess so....anurag character is so unpredictable....and hats off to harshu to make anurag unpredictable and also life.....
this track can only lead to anu slow realisation that he loves taani....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

well yes he doesn't understand her pain thats for sure(according to me)...if he really understand her pain he would not have talk such harsh words infront of everyone on their engagement day....before uttering those words he should have think twice where to confront taani.....he made a joke out of her.....and also hugging nupur infront of her doesn't he realise how much hurt taani must be when he have known that taani loves him alot and accepts their marriage and him as her husband....how would she feel......i am glad that he told the truth to taani how he fell in love with nupur....but even that hurts taani alot......he is helpless io could understand but some words and actions of anu is really hurting....since we all know how anu was in his childhood days.....



I can accept anything anyone says about Anurag but can't agree to this 😆 Taani is the one person who matters the most in his life so how can he be insensitive to her pain ever? As for the scene at engagement i said it before and i am saying it again, he was in a state of shock when his mom announced the engagement, he went on to ask her why she did it because he was sure Taani will never agree to it (thats what she always said to him na?) And he was even more shocked when Taani said she was ok with it ... he asked her how can you taani? Whatever he did was in shock, he probably did not even know where he was and the moment he realized what he had done, he immediately apologized didn't he? When he refused to Neelu he did not know Taani loves him, so he was speaking for himself as well as Taani but when he came to know Taani loves him his shock doubled ... even then he could not immediately understand how much Taani is in love could he? I can accept anything but i can never accept that he does not understand her pain ... because for Anurag, Taani's happiness is the most important thing. Taani is going through the pain of having to loose her love and betrayal but in a way Anurag's pain is a lot more because it is the pain of having hurt the person whose happiness means the most to you.

And he is not the Anurag he was at the age of 15, he has changed thank to the way people specially his father treated him. It is wrong to expect him to act like the Onu of 8 years ago. This Anurag is bruised and hurt, confused and scared of his own feelings, not sure about what is right and what is wrong. What happened with him 8 years ago this was bound to happen, if he had not changed it would be unrealistic


Edited by Soaps1 - 15 years ago

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