Ishq aur Mushq (AR)...the only truth - Page 8

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

Completely agree !!

Riddhima may force herself to accept the fact that she is a married woman and so it means she moved on ,BUT the fact is she hasnt moved on ,as you said her heart is married to Armaan for life ,and she cant change that because thats something her heart accepted and her marriage is what her brain accepts not heart.

Riddhimas feelings for Armaan erupt from her heart and she doesnt even have to think twice before they overflow by themselves.

When love is caged and put through so much ordeal and pain,its bound to come out in some way.Armaan and Riddhima have always gone through a phae of unacceptance but love outshines everything and so will theirs 😳

thanks ankita....yeah Ridz needs to accept the fact that her heart and mind need to be in sync otherwise she is not being fair to anyone,including herself

Originally posted by: pooja6992

You are so right...AR don't need the world's approval, they themselves are enough for each other

Ridz has never given herself away to Sid, neither has she gotten Armaan out of her thoughts, he still remains in her heart
Tho i dont want AR to be together in this way, I would rather wish for this promo to be aired in a different way. Extra Marital Affair for AR is just not acceptable for me...I want them to unite, but not like this, not at all.

Secondly, Ridz needs to finally open up her heart and scream it all out before all that stored in there gets her in a bad place and it is...Sometimes it is better to clear ur thoughts out with someone rather than keeping it within you cuz it just leads to worse situations.
I am hoping AR dont have an extra marital affair...that is not how i want to see AR together

Thanks Pooja....i don't think they will....the promo has been telecast to fool everyone. AR will not do that.

Originally posted by: JShukla

Hi Bheegi....... you are one of my fav writers on IF and I reallly enjoy your posts.........

I am kinda neutral viewer who was ok with AR uniting even if it meant leaving Sid in lurch to lick his wounds in solitude. But since you mention Ishq......... wot about the ishq she had with Sid?? (I am copying my own reply from another post) Oh wait she did not love him.......... only enjoyed his kisses a few times........... imagined him wen he was not there .... had loving smile on her face while touching the white and blue saree in which Sid had lifted her up during her first HM......... missed him in his absence........ found assurance wen he repeated "ILU" to her....... sings naughty naughty raat with naughty naughty expressions with her hubby . However, all this while she did have pangs of jealousy on seeing A with any other gal(yeah.....I felt it was jealousy....... and not fully concern or mother complex)........ she thought about A while with Sid......... and about Sid while with A......... Hmm wot does that make her.......... I can't use the word on IF

But if I were her hubby.......... I'd really be able to see that my wife is committing emotional adultery throughout this marriage, after giving me all the false assurances!! But the point is Ridz made Sid believe in her by giving him false hopes and that is wrong.......... What is funny is that such women do not really exist. If they have a hubby with whom they do not want to commit emotionally(read: say ILU) and physically(read: consummate) and who is broad- minded enough to let the woman decide who she wants to stay with, then such woman do not cheat. However if CVs want to depict R as someone who wants 2 or more men in her life........... well then, they should have built up her character in such a manner from the beginning. A conservative, well-brought up girl suddenly indulging in illicit acts is tough to digest wiith all the hajmola in the world. Does it mean she is a convoluted female character who likes male attention.......... and has some mental problem which has surfaced only now? Because I am yet to see a person with so much confusion. If a normal person likes someone, they know they do like tht person. So if Ridz liked A than she should have know it and must have felt disgusted with Sid's touch and should have told him so............. why did she dreamily touch her cheeks where Sid had kissed....... She is sick yaar...... and I mean literally

Also ........A had also seen the vedio of her with Sid in naughty naughty raat.......... then wen Rid had acidentally hugged him from behind in the dark viewing gallery....... they were assurances enough for him that she has moved on.

If AR fans are talking of logic than I see more logic in SR continuing, then in their breaking and R going back to A. agreed she had some jealousy regarding A.........some possessiveness perhaps, which i felt is ok for some more time and she will get over it eventually and then be ok with Sid

Besides.........donn know about the rest, but being born and brought up in a conservative society, I feel a wrong doer must suffer in the end.......... So I'll be OK if AR suffer in the end........... be it through society....... through God.......... or through loved ones who refuse to touch them with a barge pole after this crime

thanks Jshukla. I agree that Ridz's character is extremely flawed and not a great role model for any young girl or woman. Having said that, I feel that her display of affection towards Sid is part of her effort to convince herself,her hubby and Armaan that she has moved on. Yes,women can fake their emotions very well....u know what I am talking about and unfortunately, IMO that's what she has done in her marriage. Each time they show her praising or enjoying Sid's company, they have tried to show scenes where she tries to convince herself of the reality of her marriage....case in point her hurried approval of the second marriage and her showering praises on Sid with constant comparisons with Armaan. I agree she has been very unfair to Sid in this process and I hope that before its too late, she comes out clean and puts an end to all this confusion. In fact the reason why Armaan hasn't moved on is Riddhima for sure. Somewhere he has seen that love for him in her eyes and that's why he hasn't accepted that she has moved on....case in point during his dance with Shilpa there was a moment when he shared an eyelock with Ridz. Because he understands Ridz'sheart better than she understands her's, he realizes that Ridz is not 100% committed to her marriage.

Of course the CVs are to be blamed for coming up with such a convoluted and confused story...they have made a mockery of themselves and this is portrayed in the way Ridz's character has shaped up.

SRs marriage can not be considered valid despite them fulfilling the rituals twice.. This holds no value when she both times had Armaan in her thoughts.

It's debatable to say the second time was on her own will, then why was she recalling her Roka with Armaan while walking down the aisle! She has Armaan on her mind 24*7.. always wondering if Armaan is okay?

If these aren't signs of her still in love with Armaan then I'm not sure what is..

You're right to say Armaan knows Riddhima better than herself, mainly becoz she always uses her mind than her heart. That where things start to contradict with her actions and with what she has in mind.

She's so much more comfortable with Armaan and does things absent mindedly when around him, coz she knows Armaan understands her!