Now When maan heard Geet tell him those three heart-wrenching words .... he felt grief ... and then started the first stage of the five stages of grief ...
here are they ....
- Denial – "I feel fine."; "This can't be happening, not to me."
Denial is usually only a temporary defense for the individual. This feeling is generally replaced with heightened awareness of situations and individuals that will be left behind after death. - Anger – "Why me? It's not fair!"; "How can this happen to me?"; "Who is to blame?"
Once in the second stage, the individual recognizes that denial cannot continue. Because of anger, the person is very difficult to care for due to misplaced feelings of rage and envy. Any individual that symbolizes life or energy is subject to projected resentment and jealousy. - Bargaining – "I'll do anything for a few more years."; "I will give my life savings if..."
The third stage involves the hope that the individual can somehow postpone or delay death. Usually, the negotiation for an extended life is made with a higher power in exchange for a reformed lifestyle. Psychologically, the individual is saying, "I understand I will die, but if I could just have more time..." - Depression – "I'm so sad, why bother with anything?"; "I'm going to die... What's the point?"; "I miss my loved one, why go on?"
During the fourth stage, the dying person begins to understand the certainty of death. Because of this, the individual may become silent, refuse visitors and spend much of the time crying and grieving. This process allows the dying person to disconnect oneself from things of love and affection. It is not recommended to attempt to cheer up an individual who is in this stage. It is an important time for grieving that must be processed. - Acceptance – "It's going to be okay."; "I can't fight it, I may as well prepare for it."
In this last stage, the individual begins to come to terms with their mortality or that of their loved one.
The moment maan heard those three words .. he went thorugh denial phase and tahts when he will walk away from her ... and then would come the anger phase ... as we saw in the promo and than bargaining and depression, which is the most vulnerable phase and then comes acceptance and hope ... which will give him the strength to live the truth and accept it .... and love geet the way he has always loved her ....
So now we see, thats human nature ... thats how human beings behave in such situations .... and Maan is just HUMAN .,... lets give him the benefit of doubt!!! please.
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