With Damini it is her status in the house, gratitute and love towards Thakurs.
Ichcha is totally influenced by mother and torn between being her mums' child and Jogy's daughter. Bridge that gap!!!!
Umed is always voicing his opinion but in a different way so he does not hurt anyone. He is the one who understands everyone's point of view and life.He is non judgmental and that is a strength not a weakness!
India is a country that is glorifying exactly these traits in a person!