I dont blame Krishna - Page 3

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Nobody FORCED her into marraige ...for all those who keep saying that . she HERSELF OPted to marry him .He proposed to her but THATS it .

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The reason given .....that she did it for the BADNAAMI ............is BULL . A girl who has no shame to stand in court and tell of her kidnapping , who has no shame to spill bedroom secrets in open by giving a cock and bull story of I CANNOT LIE IN FRONT OF HOLY FIRE ............that girl was so scared of badnaami that she married a MAN SHE THOUGHT WAS HER STALKER is really , really RIDICULOUS .

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BTW KRISHNa was NOT her stalker . ANGAD WAS . Whatever pursuing Krishna did was FUELLED BY HER INDEPENDENT HANDLING OF THE SITUATION BY NOT TAKING MAAYKA INTO CONFIDENCE and SENDING HIM A SERIES OF MIXED SIGNALS .............ThAT She was RESPONDING TO HIS LOVE .

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Her marraige is eNTIRELY HER MISTAKE . Infact she has incurred a SIN by reducing a man who loved her to RUBBLE by driving him to depression .

Originally posted by: Binny1247

I agree he thinks and believes that he has never forced himself on her yet that is exactly what he has been doing since the day he met her. First he forced her in to this marraige and then he repeatedly tried to maritally rape her, along the way his actions only justified her indifference towards him as well as strengthened her misunderstandings. He loved her but was incapable of portraying his true feelings correctly which only made matters worse.

Actually her behavior towards him changed the day she learned of his innocence and angad's intentions. But as she stated after learning the truth she could no longer hate him but she could not automatically love him as well, his actions forced her to doubt his love he more then once mistreated her it was due to her behavior but none the less he made several mistakes before as well as after their marraige which could not have been simply forgiven, Yet she decided to give her marriage a chance and her hatred which forced her to keep a distance from him had disappeared so she wanted to understand the man she had married before taking things forward. She never felt like she had done any favor for him in fact it was usually Krishna who expected things in return for his actions, until Prats love forced him to gradually change many of his old habits as well as his narrow mindedness.

Prats can also love she truly loves her family members she is just a bit of a reserved personality it takes her time to open up but once she takes a decision she stands by it first she wanted to teach him a lesson and now she has found feelings for him and she will take care of her marraige as well as her husband. and I agree he is the glue that binds his family together.

According to me both can learn things from one another Krishna must gradually change in to a better person while Prats must learn to be more free and enjoy life as well as how to portray her love.

Originally posted by: trina_one

I agree with you that noone forced her into marriage, at least not literally. But with the principles she was raised with, she felt she had no other choice. If Prats was making choices based on her upbringing so was Krishna She felt that her engagement was broken, it's not her fault she assumed it was Krishna. Like it or not, one has to be accountable for decisions based on her assumptions Arushi even opted to leave home for Angad's ultimatum because she also felt forced to do so. Do you see the connection? noone forced Adarsh to marry Komal, but the way they are brought up is to look out for each other. And for their parents' name. Prats and her father tried to leave the city, but Krishna forced them to return at gunpoint. Are you saying noone forced them to do that too? Sure, Krishna brought them back at gunpoint. But he never held a gun to her head and say marry me. He said he will wait till the offer came from the Saxes. Prats took that step on her own of her free will without her parents's consent. Something in her was drawn to Krishna from day one and some of us saw that. For someone who was getting engaged to Nitin she couldn't tear her eyes away from Krishna. Her destiny drew her to an unpud with a golden heart. Kya karein?

I dont think Prats meant to send Krishna mixed signals at all. Whether she meant to or not, truth is she did send them. The biggest signal was wearing that pink saree taufa he sent her. I feel that Krishna was raised to take what he felt was his. I think Prats should have been clear to him before marriage that she was saving her father's name and it wasnt a love marriage. Excellent point! But then it could have been Krishna trying to win her inspite of knowing her stance or we wouldn't have a show. 😕😆😆😆😆And as for driving him to depression, Prats never chose to reveal it in the courtroom, she tried several times to tell Krishna in the privacy of their bedroom timing is everything, she stalled when she should have told her father to buzz off and forget any vachans and tell Krishna the truth esp. by then she knew he was innocent of the crimes but by that point he was already too angry and bitter to listen. So it's BOTH their fault. There is no completely guilty party here. And it's not as black and white as you have described it.

Originally posted by: shumi.

golden words!👏

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Originally posted by: trina_one

But there is a difference, is there not, between saying Prats unintentionally sent mixed signals and she MEANT to send them? As unintentional as they were, the consequences always come tagged with them, that's life. Middle-class girls are not taught to send out signals like that, they are taught to obey their parents. I understand Krishna's pain because he feels she played with him from the beginning. Yeah, he didnt force her to marry her, but after her engagement was broken, regardless of who did it, WHO in that city is going to marry her? If only she had investigated who did this to her with the same drive she has for her pratigyas since her marriage things would have turned out differently. Of their station and rank? I accede that she was drawn to him from the beginning, for just for the sake of the story but I can see that in their behavior towards one another. Yes, she should have told Krishna the truth and she will be paying for that in the weeks to come. Krishna should get over it after a bit of notanki and not do what she did to him, I don't he will, the bechara still loves her. The air in the balloon is deflating aur jaldi pyaar hi rahega.The conflict now, is the fact that she didn't love him then- now she is open to loving him because she sees he never meant to hurt her.

Prats should have told him the whole deal before marriage, if she didnt, then she should not have expected as much space as she got post-honeymoon. She has been selectively honest with him, as far as I can see, and that is the problem here. Krishna wants complete devotion, complete honesty, because that is what he has given to her. In which case, the balance is tipped in his favor. You said it for me. Thankoo. She has learned something very valuable on Fri episode. She admitted she never understand the depth of his love or pati-patni ka rishta kya hota hai. She will learn more now she starts paying attention to him and this relationship.