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Posted: 15 years ago
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The only way we will see a change in Ahem's attitude towards Gopi is if he see's how a girl like Anita would be as a wife and daughter in law. I'm not saying Anita is bad, and they both did love each other. But Anita did seem like the kind of girl that Rashi is. I don't think she would have done half the things Gopi is doing (meaning the good stuff not idiotic stuff Rashi telling her to do). If only there was some way for Ahem to see Anita as a wife, and see that she's not that suitable for him.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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The way Ahem would change his mind about gopi if she get's herself an education...
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Originally posted by: Chaudhrytm

The way Ahem would change his mind about gopi if she get's herself an education...

Why though? Why should Gopi change? I think Gopi is fine they way she is. Having an education doesn't make you the smartest person. It's not like Gopi has plans to go outside the house to work. She wants be a housewife that's what she is. She has life skills, that's all you need to be a good daughter in law. And the mistakes she's making is because of Rashi and Kinjal, not her own thinking. If anyone needs to change here its Ahem, thats what i think anyway.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tomonna

Why though? Why should Gopi change? I think Gopi is fine they way she is. Having an education doesn't make you the smartest person. It's not like Gopi has plans to go outside the house to work. She wants be a housewife that's what she is. She has life skills, that's all you need to be a good daughter in law. And the mistakes she's making is because of Rashi and Kinjal, not her own thinking. If anyone needs to change here its Ahem, thats what i think anyway.


@ bold...is exact my thoughts...
why Gopi should change just to impress Aham and to get his love.........agree she should be educated but NOT FOR AHAM.........
being educated and being nice to heart are two different things.......in todays world people are so cunning that they will ready to kill there own family members to get profit......and all of them are educated people......(m not saying education in wrong..).but m saying that its an individual's way to use education in life for Godd deeds or for wrong deeds......Rashi is doing the later.....

and for Gopi...she is noe educated but she has all the other good qualities that A Perfect house wife should have........and also in a successful married life Education is not a big factor....what matters most is the understanding for ur spouse and patience...and normally people go to school or colg to get these things only...Gopi already has all these things with her......only this which is lacking is a partner in whom she can confide herself...........and then she will lead a Confident Life...as she has someone with her, for her forever....

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks for ur opinions but if Gopi get somekind of education then she able to know who are her good/honest and bad.people.. cause she needs to one day educate/help with her childrens homework and another point is that it will help her to grow and develop into a wonderful person.....🤓
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i dont anita to come back to create another mess.... but at the same time i want her to come back n make aham realizes what wife is.... she shud tell me if u want u r wife to be educated then ask ur wife to study and u be her tutor... tell him to think from gopi;s POV ....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I want Anita back...just coz only then Aham will realize his feelings for Gopi, if he has developed enough of them so that they will make him confuse..more than what he is now, of him seeing Another standing in front of his eyes.......

and also...if not feelings then..clear curt comparison between Anita as a Wife an DIL and Gopi as same on other hand......this will also work....

but other then that anita is not needed...if CVs are planning to increase closeness between Aham and Anita....
making Gopi's life more difficult...as till now Aham is not looking at her but she will be in more oain seeing him with another Gal.....

One song in hindi....
tum agar mujhko na chaho to koi baat nahi....to koi baat nahi...
tum kisi aur ko chahoge to mushkil hogi......


this will be the toughest situation for Gopi to handle....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chaudhrytm

Thanks for ur opinions but if Gopi get somekind of education then she able to know who are her good/honest and bad.people.. cause she needs to one day educate/help with her childrens homework and another point is that it will help her to grow and develop into a wonderful person.....🤓

O.K so you are saying only educated people can tell the difference between good and evil. Five year olds can can tell who is good and who is bad. This women is in her twentys for god sakes, also another point she should be able to tell the difference between good and evil because she has lived with good and evil.
Evil: Urmila and Rashi
Good: Jitu Mama and Panna
No one can be that innocent and foolish. I'm not trying to bash Gopi, I like her, but OMG what an idiot.
Also you say she needs to be educated to teach her kids, then what are the teachers for. My mum was not educated, I work in a chemist as a dispenser.

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