I still care for you.. Armaan ...

Two words:
AR FOREVER!

And i didnt agree with the last line though. Truthwise, armaan is acting EXTREMELY mature. I know that you know who i/ every AR fan thinks the immature one is in this show.

well getting beaten up to hide his pain, and self destruction are acts of immaturity according to me!!

Originally posted by: sbdhillon

Two words:
AR FOREVER!

And i didnt agree with the last line though. Truthwise, armaan is acting EXTREMELY mature. I know that you know who i/ every AR fan thinks the immature one is in this show.

well niha i agree wid ur post totally.

hmmm, I like your post - well said. But I do disagree a bit.

I thought that scene was beautiful too. I'm an huge AR fan, but I actually thought that she HAS moved on, and of course still cares for the guy (you don't forget your ex, unless you had a really bed ending). She actually prolly still loves him a bit, but is NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM, anymore. And that's what she told him, in not so many words. And she realizes he has not moved on. She knows he's a passionate person, and so she's resolved to help him.

As for the guilty part - I think your take is mostly right. She has moved on, and accepted life and the changes it brought, and is happy with them. He needs to do the same. She said to Sid 'he has to move on, just like I did'. They also showed Sid's surprised expression when she said that. So all in all, she HAS moved on, and she DID do it coz of the circumstances, not coz she wanted to, but she DOES love Sid now, and DOES want to be with him. That said, she also knows that she is the one who made teh decision and chose Sid over Armaan, and in turn has hurt Armaan, whether justified or not. So, Armaan needs to come to terms with it. When you 'HAVE' to hurt someone in the interest of doing the right thing, no matter how much reward there is in the right thing we do, the 'hurt' still comes and gets you every now and then.

And that is what she's experiencing. As Sid said 'somewhere, somehow, we're responsible for his (Armaan's) pain, and somehow, we're prolly the panacea too' So I think she realizes, that although without meaning to, she's responsible for his pain (SRians, don't jump me, I'm not blaming her, just saying that circumstances were such that she had to make a decision, and it was going to end up hurting someone, if not all three). And as such, she's trying to help him out of that pain and misery, for old times sakes, and also coz she feels partially responsible for it.

One other thing - her sentence about 'mein kitni buri hoon' I think stems from her need to be Ms. Perfect. His devdas attitude makes her feel she ISN'T Ms. Perfect, and that makes her uncomfortable, I think, along with feeling responsible of course.

Before ppl go bashing - lemme just say that after a long time I'm enjoying the DMG track - I think all 4 leads are doing a fab job, and I totally loved teh scene. My comments aren't meant to ridicule the actor/character at all.

-S

i couldnt agree with you more.. you said it.. you nailed... thats what it is... even i am enjoying the current track.. and i think, each of them is doing a fab job.. and i love the way the story is flowing...

Originally posted by: lilmzsunshine

hmmm, I like your post - well said. But I do disagree a bit.

I thought that scene was beautiful too. I'm an huge AR fan, but I actually thought that she HAS moved on, and of course still cares for the guy (you don't forget your ex, unless you had a really bed ending). She actually prolly still loves him a bit, but is NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM, anymore. And that's what she told him, in not so many words. And she realizes he has not moved on. She knows he's a passionate person, and so she's resolved to help him.

As for the guilty part - I think your take is mostly right. She has moved on, and accepted life and the changes it brought, and is happy with them. He needs to do the same. She said to Sid 'he has to move on, just like I did'. They also showed Sid's surprised expression when she said that. So all in all, she HAS moved on, and she DID do it coz of the circumstances, not coz she wanted to, but she DOES love Sid now, and DOES want to be with him. That said, she also knows that she is the one who made teh decision and chose Sid over Armaan, and in turn has hurt Armaan, whether justified or not. So, Armaan needs to come to terms with it. When you 'HAVE' to hurt someone in the interest of doing the right thing, no matter how much reward there is in the right thing we do, the 'hurt' still comes and gets you every now and then.

And that is what she's experiencing. As Sid said 'somewhere, somehow, we're responsible for his (Armaan's) pain, and somehow, we're prolly the panacea too' So I think she realizes, that although without meaning to, she's responsible for his pain (SRians, don't jump me, I'm not blaming her, just saying that circumstances were such that she had to make a decision, and it was going to end up hurting someone, if not all three). And as such, she's trying to help him out of that pain and misery, for old times sakes, and also coz she feels partially responsible for it.

One other thing - her sentence about 'mein kitni buri hoon' I think stems from her need to be Ms. Perfect. His devdas attitude makes her feel she ISN'T Ms. Perfect, and that makes her uncomfortable, I think, along with feeling responsible of course.

Before ppl go bashing - lemme just say that after a long time I'm enjoying the DMG track - I think all 4 leads are doing a fab job, and I totally loved teh scene. My comments aren't meant to ridicule the actor/character at all.

-S

lovely post niha though I agree more to what haya has wriiten

See, I think members here write so beautifully and analyse scenes so nicely even if I don't agree with them but sometimes I wonder if we are looking too deep in to a scene. Do we interpret them more than the creatives do while writing?

I always take the example of my mum who is a general viewer sitting at home and I wonder what would she say. Because more than us its the people sitting on their couches (the trp-givers) who matter to the channels. I know if my mum had seen yesterdays scene she would say Riddhima still loves him. Yes she has moved on but there is a part of her which she has suppressed in order to move on which is why she said seeing Armaan like that re-opens old wounds. The 'dard' dialogues do mean something to the people watching their TV sets. They would ask, WHY is she saying all this if she has moved on. Why is she getting so affected if she isn't in love with him anymore.

Its not so complicated. The creatives are just keeping the door open for any possibility of AR!

Absolutely agree with u Niha! Thats why i respect Riddhima so much! and yest's scene was just amazing and again we got our basket back for a few minutes!

Originally posted by: lilmzsunshine

hmmm, I like your post - well said. But I do disagree a bit.

I thought that scene was beautiful too. I'm an huge AR fan, but I actually thought that she HAS moved on, and of course still cares for the guy (you don't forget your ex, unless you had a really bed ending). She actually prolly still loves him a bit, but is NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM, anymore. And that's what she told him, in not so many words. And she realizes he has not moved on. She knows he's a passionate person, and so she's resolved to help him.

As for the guilty part - I think your take is mostly right. She has moved on, and accepted life and the changes it brought, and is happy with them. He needs to do the same. She said to Sid 'he has to move on, just like I did'. They also showed Sid's surprised expression when she said that. So all in all, she HAS moved on, and she DID do it coz of the circumstances, not coz she wanted to, but she DOES love Sid now, and DOES want to be with him. That said, she also knows that she is the one who made teh decision and chose Sid over Armaan, and in turn has hurt Armaan, whether justified or not. So, Armaan needs to come to terms with it. When you 'HAVE' to hurt someone in the interest of doing the right thing, no matter how much reward there is in the right thing we do, the 'hurt' still comes and gets you every now and then.

And that is what she's experiencing. As Sid said 'somewhere, somehow, we're responsible for his (Armaan's) pain, and somehow, we're prolly the panacea too' So I think she realizes, that although without meaning to, she's responsible for his pain (SRians, don't jump me, I'm not blaming her, just saying that circumstances were such that she had to make a decision, and it was going to end up hurting someone, if not all three). And as such, she's trying to help him out of that pain and misery, for old times sakes, and also coz she feels partially responsible for it.

One other thing - her sentence about 'mein kitni buri hoon' I think stems from her need to be Ms. Perfect. His devdas attitude makes her feel she ISN'T Ms. Perfect, and that makes her uncomfortable, I think, along with feeling responsible of course.

Before ppl go bashing - lemme just say that after a long time I'm enjoying the DMG track - I think all 4 leads are doing a fab job, and I totally loved teh scene. My comments aren't meant to ridicule the actor/character at all.

-S

Absolutel agree with you 100%. So beautifully written and such justification on everyones part. Amazing analysis. AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!