The Blurry Line...

Alright, I'll be honest here - I'm absolutely lost here. This situation with Sandhya and Yuvraj is so messed up it's almost send my head reeling.

I'll start with Yuvraj's family first - I have yet to see such a hypocritical family in my life! I have NO problem with their attempts at letting Yuvraj have a normal life, in fact I'd even advocate his choice to get married should he and the girl agree to it. But to say that they want their son to have a normal life, and then treat him like Godzilla's next of kin is beyond ridiculous to me! If they wanted to pretend that Yuvraj was normal and deserved a normal life, then they should hate treated him and his marriage so. Finding a blind girl and tricking her into marrying their son, hoping that she'd be so blinded by the money and status that she wouldn't realize the "missing" aspect of her marriage sooner or later is ABSURD! I mean the mother went on and on about how she just wanted a normal life for her son and she was doing what she felt was right for him - but in all that she forgot that treating his condition like something unworthy to be voices is absolutely counter productive to his self esteem! I am sorry to say, but I definitely side with Dr. Nigam here. Her anger was rooted in the fact that she trusted them when they said that they'd do everything to let him live a normal life and do nothing that would risk outing his secret. She placed her career on the line for this - should someone find out that she faked the birth certificate for Yuvraj, she's lose her practice and her license! Yet they went ahead and got him married?! Do they really think Sandhya and everyone else won't find out because of this?! Like really? And is it really fair putting her career on the line like that without even TELLING her, let alone consulting her?! Just unfair, absolutely unfair and absolutely hypocritical!

Coming to Yuvraj, the poor guy's been turned into such a taboo that I don't blame him for having a nervous break down. His family has ruined his self esteem - if he wasn't troubled as it is, they had to put him under the ridiculous pressure of keeping a secret from his wife and exposing him to the high risk of his secret getting out into the public. He has a PHYSICAL defect, which means sooner or later it will come out and his wife will find out (He's an eunuch and not just impotent) - I'm just at a lost of words for how his family handled this. I mean honestly, no matter what way I look at it I always come down to WHAT in the HELL was his family thinking! I even caught him saying that he wanted to tell Dr. Nigam in the middle of his rant - he wanted to come clean, he didn't want to keep secrets. He just wanted to be normal and handle this maturely, yet what does the family do for him? They tell him it's better to lie? And keep a secret? Knowing how well a secret gnaws on your soul?! I mean they expect a girl to appreciate Yuvraj for who he is and judge him for his character and not some random defect, yet they treat his defect as something that governs his entire existence! Pankaj Chacha says that a girl could love Yuvraj for who he is yet he goes ahead and nullifies his own claim by hiding Yuvraj's truth from Sandhya? Seriously?! How do they even begin to explain this? Or justify this?!

And finally to Sandhya... *sigh* What should I even say about her? She's the absolutely victim in this - even more than Yuvraj. Yuvraj knew he didn't have a choice in the card dealt to him by his life - but Sandhya was never GIVEN the choice she was entitled to! She is blind and her handicap was used to trick her unfairly. Even though she hasn't been tricked because of it, they intended it to be the "help" they needed to trick her and that is just unfair! She should have been told, she should have been given the choice to decide for herself. Knowing her, she's probably have said yes and appreciated Yuvraj for who he is. But getting her married and now expecting her to stick around even when she finds out is so unfair. Most of us here will think less of her for "choosing" not to stay with Yuvraj - even judge her as superficial - but I really think she should get the choice to walk way right now! She is blind and Yuvraj knows about her handicap. She put it all out and then got accepted in spite of it (even though it was for ulterior motives) but she doesn't know about Yuvraj's handicap and to me that's an unfair deal. To expect her to understand Yuvraj's handicap just because she's a handicap is not acceptable - especially after the lies that his family fed her. If they'd told her first off I could expect her to understanding of his handicap but now, it's a matter of being tricked and being kept in the proverbial dark.

*takes deep breath*

Sorry about the rant, but I am totally flabbergasted by the episode today! It just threw my head for a spin. I officially dislike Yuvraj's family! If there was ever a situation that has a blurred line between right and wrong, this is it! But only as far as Yuvraj and Sandhya are concerned. For the Jagirdar family, I have no doubt in finding them wrong in how they handled this situation!

I didn't get the part about Dr N having to forge the birth certificate. Why would she have to do that? What is she going to have to put in the birth certificate normally that she couldn't out here? Gender: Eunuch? But if eunuch means castrated, how is one born a eunuch? PM me on this answer if you like - I don't mean to provoke such explicit questions.

Also, this may seem like a stupid question, but is it illegal for eunuchs to marry women? I wouldn't consider Sandhya superficial if she decided to walk out as a result of being lied to, as opposed to simply having a eunuch as a hubby. But if she did walk out on him, a part of me would be sympathetic to him. I just hope they don't turn him fully evil, as they do in other serials when they have 2 lead guys competing for the same gal.

What I'm interested in is whether Neeraj knows about Yuvi's condition.

Originally posted by: Vrisha

I didn't get the part about Dr N having to forge the birth certificate. Why would she have to do that? What is she going to have to put in the birth certificate normally that she couldn't out here? Gender: Eunuch? But if eunuch means castrated, how is one born a eunuch? PM me on this answer if you like - I don't mean to provoke such explicit questions.

Also, this may seem like a stupid question, but is it illegal for eunuchs to marry women? I wouldn't consider Sandhya superficial if she decided to walk out as a result of being lied to, as opposed to simply having a eunuch as a hubby. But if she did walk out on him, a part of me would be sympathetic to him. I just hope they don't turn him fully evil, as they do in other serials when they have 2 lead guys competing for the same gal.

What I'm interested in is whether Neeraj knows about Yuvi's condition.

I'll PM you about the birth certificate thing.

Umm, I really don't think it's illegal for eunuchs to marry women because they are still "male". They're just defected, but they're still male and therefore can marry women should they choose. Only it's made into such a taboo that they don't usually get married. But if someone's as groomed and sophisticated as Yuvraj, I honestly don't see why he cannot get married and why he has to be lied about.

And about being sympathetic to Yuvraj, that's what I was talking about. Just because Sandhya walks out on in, he's going to be treated as the wronged party when really Sandhya's the one wronged. They brought her to a point where she had no choice but to walk out if she wanted to show her disapproval with what they did. Otherwise she just gets to stay with Yuvraj and suck it up - I mean how fair is that?

And I don't think Neeraj knows - Yuvi's mom told Dr. Nigam that no one except the people in the room knew (except for DK's and Pankaj's wives). So I'm sure a lowly accountant's son wouldn't know the half of it! 🤔

Oh, while I would be partly sympathetic to Yuvi, I wouldn't blame Sandhya @ all if she chose to walk out for either reason. I mean, if she wants to have kids naturally, she has a right to it, and to not give her the choice of either getting a hubby who will give it to her, or stay unmarried, was unconscionable.

But I think that an exposure of who's behind her father's murder will trump both the above considerations, and force her to leave for common sense reasons alone.

Originally posted by: Vrisha

Oh, while I would be partly sympathetic to Yuvi, I wouldn't blame Sandhya @ all if she chose to walk out for either reason. I mean, if she wants to have kids naturally, she has a right to it, and to not give her the choice of either getting a hubby who will give it to her, or stay unmarried, was unconscionable.

But I think that an exposure of who's behind her father's murder will trump both the above considerations, and force her to leave for common sense reasons alone.

If what they've done already isn't bad enough, they might also have a hand in Sandhya's father's death?! Gosh, add that to the list and I think this is the most twisted family ever to have graced the Indian TV (although I could be wrong). I mean if it isn't horrible enough that you're tricking a girl into marrying your handicapped son, you have to go ahead and KILL someone to make sure it happened?! Wow, their moral compass is really pointing way off North isn't it! 😳

They will drug sandhya and their plan is to make neeraj(naman shaw) to make sriti jha pregnant to show the society that all is well.

Originally posted by: sushant1002001

They will drug sandhya and their plan is to make neeraj(naman shaw) to make sriti jha pregnant to show the society that all is well.