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Posted: 15 years ago
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It is apparent that Mili has developed a crush on Abhi. Following the attempted rape and the aftermath, the one person whom she could consistently rely on was Abhi. And like all of us who have fallen in love with Abhi, Mili was no exception. She has no idea what has happened but it (a crush) has happened and she now has feelings for him.

How the writers plan on handling such a complex issue is dependent on how much they want to focus on the inner conflict of Mili or get higher ratings. If they want to win our sympathy, then the production team should have Mili fighting her inner conflict - feelings for someone who cannot be hers. If she has any intelligence, then she would avoid Abhi at all costs. She would not do such immature things as she has been doing and she would talk to someone she could trust - like a friend or counselor - about her feelngs. However, rather than address this issue in a sympathetic manner, the writers will probably turn Mili into a vampish character who might challenge Simi for Abhi's affections. This type of behavior I could see in Neetu but certainly NOT Mili.
Abhi clearly has NO romantic feelings towards Mili. His feelings towards her are strictly platonic and he cares a lot about her. She was the one who was his biggest advocate and supported their (Simi and Abhi) romance. He has no reason to believe she fancies him. He goes to great lengths to please her because he feels guilty for what he has done. Plus the age and similarity in personalities adds to their friendship. The writers can ruin Abhi's character if they have him develop romantic feelings for Mili and they could head in that direction.
As for Simi; this storyline is a desperate attempt to revivie the victim role of Simi. The new audience members are expected to develop sympathy for her character and her dilemma that her husband might be straying. She is seen as the victim in all this chaos and her over-bearing mother is viewed as the concerned parent. The end result of this storyline will be Mili and Abhi apologizing to her profusely for upsetting her.
One thing I do hope you all notice in this storyline, we have an awful lot of scenes with Abhi and Mili and most of them are fun and light hearted but we rarely saw anything similar with Abhi and Simi. The writers most certainly are enjoying enhancing the *romance* between these two characters but definitely felt the need to give us only morsels of Abhi-Simi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Those are bitter words to swallow but they are also true! Anyone who develops sympathy for Sim is about as brainless as the writers of this show 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It is apparent that Mili has developed a crush on Abhi. Following the attempted rape and the aftermath, the one person whom she could consistently rely on was Abhi. And like all of us who have fallen in love with Abhi, Mili was no exception. She has no idea what has happened but it (a crush) has happened and she now has feelings for him.
falling in love with abhi😕....that should have happened to her before he married simi and not now when he is her BIL....offcourse feelings for him is ok as long as its of affection and does not reach to attraction...as you said a sensible person like mili doing this is really weird....if it was the bimbo neetu we can understand but this does not make sense....offcourse whatever little ideas the cvs had they have fallen short of those ideas too and have now though of giving us more crap🤢
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well said Laila See the happy go lucky guy when he is with Milli and we miss all that when abhi and simi r together
The potential to make abhi simi's relation beautiful will fade out if the cv go on like this
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tvdost

It is apparent that Mili has developed a crush on Abhi. Following the attempted rape and the aftermath, the one person whom she could consistently rely on was Abhi. And like all of us who have fallen in love with Abhi, Mili was no exception. She has no idea what has happened but it (a crush) has happened and she now has feelings for him.

falling in love with abhi😕....that should have happened to her before he married simi and not now when he is her BIL....offcourse feelings for him is ok as long as its of affection and does not reach to attraction...as you said a sensible person like mili doing this is really weird....if it was the bimbo neetu we can understand but this does not make sense....offcourse whatever little ideas the cvs had they have fallen short of those ideas too and have now though of giving us more crap🤢
What she has is a crush and infatuation. It is not LOVE. Abhi was there for her when she needed him; she likes him, she likes his attention and she has merged those boundaries where she has started to have feelings for him. For a long time MIli has always thought rationally and unless the writers want to, she is not the type of person to take a romantic interest in her sister's husband. She's not aware of her feelings towards him to all these posts about her keeping away or slaping her are really unnecessary because she has done nothing to interfere in Simi and Abhi's relationship.
As we can all see, Abhi is in love with Simi - he fed her first, still wants to get physical with her and he views Mili has a friend/kid sister.
As I have mentioned, once Mili recognizes these feelings, HOW will she ACT? Will she continue to pursue Abhi? Will she challenge her sister? Will she turn malicious and become bent on destroying them? That's NOT the Mili we know but the writers, out of desperation and lack of creativity and the need for high ratings, might take this direction.
Let us see...they never had Mili raped, so it is possible that they won't go so far with this storyline.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Great post, Laila. If the CVs want us to dislike Milli, then it's working. I have started getting fed up of her and her flirty behaviour with Abhi. Not that I feel sorry for Simi either. In all honesty, I'm already bored with this track and it has barely begun. If Milli is not ready to get married, why can't she tell her parents? She has always been outspoken and honest about her feelings. We are expected to believe that she cannot talk to anyone in her family except Abhi? She has two older sisters for goodness sake! Is Milli forgetting that Simi was also nearly raped (by Bhalla) and Milli is the one who figured it out and comforted Simi? Knowing this, she should be open with Simi and ask her for help! Otherwise, why isn't she getting counseling in order to deal with the aftermath of her near-rape? Of course the CVs will never answer these questions because all they care about is trps and cheezy masala plots. How is this show different from any number of other serials that go the over-treaded path of two sisters fighting over the same man?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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to be honest im enjoying the chemistry between abhi/milli, eventhough abhi/simi look comfortable together, i feel the chemistry & banter between milli/abhi is more sizzling. as for crush im hoping it devolpes & there are lots more scenes between milli/abhi, as i find abhi/simi so boooooooooooring. she just doesnt suit romance & looks akward in it.

i think if abhi does start having feelings towards milli, then it can be completely justified by the creators. if they show simi doubting & questioning abhi, each time abhi/milli have some alone time, even if its by accident but simi cant help feeling insecure. the first step simi showed that she is highly insecure is by going behind milli's back & persuading vishal to spend more time with her & even laying out a plan for vishal how to wooo mili & simi did this purely for her own selfish reasons. because she knows compare to milli, she is mature, boring & has zilch sense in making conversation about anything, other than regarding her family & also has no clue what is fun & how to have fun.

whilst milli is lively, worldly, funny, has lots of knowledge, has similar interests to abhi & they can chat about any thing & everything, plus they are same age & milli is alot more attractive. i feel that milli some how finds out her sisters devious plans with vish & starts to misunderstand simi, as what simi did shows lack of trust in abhi & her sister. plus my cutey pie abhi to finds out the same & both of them feeling dejected & majorly hurt that she didnt trust them so went to great lengnths to keep them away. will surely bring abhi/milli closer & there bond will get stronger.

so i dont think milli/abhi characters can get spoilt if the storyline works on the line of simi's insecurty, her constant soubting & questioning & on top her behind the back actions, then the closeness can be easily justified. as it happens the more you try to keep some one away & constatly doubt them, the person turns around & thinks hang on sheb already has no trust in me & is assuming there is something between us, then why not make it real. as this 100% happens in real life, our doubting & nagging drives the person away & we push them straight in to the eagerly waiting partnerl. simi scumbed to desperate measures today & i have nagging feeling, her these very actions will bring toofan in her marital life

i want a huge story line between milli/abhi, as its much better than watching romance between simbhi, her dead expressions when abhi is romancing her & her open mouthreaction some one migh see us, is so tedious that i change channels

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