Taking sides??

The last scene of Badi ma and Rano got me thinking about this discussion I had earlier on this forum about Badi ma and what makes this family so great.

I truly think Badi ma is like the pillar of the house. She's really keeping the house together.

I think the way Badi ma manages to keep the family together is that she doesn't take sides. And she doesn't invoke negative feelings in anyone's mind about the 'other' party, if you know what I mean.

During the RB-Suhana-Deepak issue, it was Badi ma who managed to clear Suhana's confusion in the end and helped Suhana see RB's perspective.

The thing with Badi ma is that she looks at the bigger picture. To her family unity is most important. She teaches the family members how to care about each other, how to respect each other's emotions.

And today her worry hinted that everything that the opposite of what she has been doing to solve issues so far, happened.

Rano and Disha/Rajni started taking sides against Suhana.

So it's like the opposite of what Badi ma tries to do, which is to not take sides, so as to not invoke any negative feelings towards any of the family members and hence, help build a better bond and stay together.

But I do think this time it's going to be harder for Badi ma to help fix this situation. The feelings against Suhana for everyone have built up and suddenly they are very strong and at a high point. And same with Suhana's side. So I'm very intrigued to see how Badi ma is going to help fix this. How she's going to help Suhana and the family members understand each other.

I'm so excited for how they're going to resolve this. It seems like everything uptill now has been building up to this high point. I can't wait to see what happens next!

great great great post...i never thought in this perspective...