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Hello everyone!
Here's the first DOTW for the THBTKZH Forum. Just so everyone knows how this works - basically I'll be posting a topic/question for discussion and then we'll discuss that in this thread until next week when the new DOTW goes up..
Here's the first DOTW for the THBTKZH Forum. Just so everyone knows how this works - basically I'll be posting a topic/question for discussion and then we'll discuss that in this thread until next week when the new DOTW goes up..
So, about the DOTW for this week, I know we've all noticed Shree's behavior towards Mugda. At times it's rude and maybe even abusive but here's my question for this week - Is he really being abusive or is it just frustration? And if it IS frustration on his part, does that excuse him of the way he acts? Does the fact that he's tired/upset/frustrated/hurt give him an excuse for his actions?
He's been upset on several occasions because he's felt wronged and at the more latest incidents, I even feel some what upset for him - but does all that still excuse him from being rude and insulting to his wife? Asking her to get her own job or throwing her away like a "disgusted" thing just because she's been working in the kitchen and it showed..? Is that even fair of him? To expect so much of her? Does he have no other responsibility towards her other than feeding her and clothing her? Is it too much to expect him to treat her like an equal in the relationship - with respect and admiration?
Basically, I can understand a little bit of frustration and I can even understand a bit of a "blow out" every once in a while - but how often is too often? And how far is too far? When does it stop being just "frustration" and turn into "abuse"?
