he had every right

i had doubts about making this post but i decided to make it. many of us had made assumptions before the episode aired and said that armaan needs to simply move on and he needs to stop crying over spilled milk but seriously, do you really think after being reminded day after day about the times he has had with riddhima is going to help him move on? true, its neither sid's fault or shilpa's fault that armaan had to go through his most favorite memory as a bystander while his love relived the memory with someone else. but at the same time, sid and riddhima have to realize that armaan can't always be there to take part in their happiness. riddhima easily said, all my friends will be there, ill be happy if you're there too. woman, you left him? y do u expect him to care about your happiness? you're living a merry little life with your husband but can't you see his pain. you've known him for 3 years right and honestly, you've taken advantage of these three years. you know he would do anything for your happiness so lets just give him a little emotional blackmail and get him to come so he can see me happy. puh-leeze.

a lot of us were saying, oooo he ruined sid's party. boo hoo hoo. he didn't want to come to begin with. if it wasn't for riddhima, he would've never went. besides, if anyone ruined this party, it was sid and shilpa. true, they didn't realize what they were doing but regardless, they're the ones putting him through the most pain right now. sid can't do anything by himself and shilpa can't keep her mouth shut. y doesn't sid man up and do something for riddhima that he has thought up himself! why does he hav to go around asking for help? he married her! he should figure out what he wants to do for her or give her. true, shilpa isnt aware she's reading armaan's diary but seriously, if she doesn't know who's it is, she needs to stop blabbing about it to everyone else. it could be anyone's and not everyone is interested in what she has to say, so just shut it sometimes. y would u give someone an idea to sid, without knowing who's idea it was to begin with? if you're so keen on giving advice, tell him something you've thought up of!

its so easy for some of us to say, quit it already, its getting boring, move on. what is beyond our realization is that this is a man who has loved this woman with all his heart for 3 years. three long years with ups and downs, twists and turns, peaks and valleys. its not easy to forget 3 years of your life. for armaan it's like saying forget the most beautiful time period of your life. now im going to ask the forum members. if someone told you to forget the most beautiful time period of your life and simply move on, would you be able to do it? i dont think so because i know i wouldn't, especially if those memories constantly are put forth in front of me. we're human, not machines. take out the memory card and flush it down the toilet. it doesn't work that way.

im not going to say, dont bash, because i noe its going to happen regardless. i'll just say that this was a venting post. if anyone else has something to vent, go right ahead but please dont make digs at other members. thanks (:

hey i completely agree with whtever u have written .Sid always needs someone to show him the way he has hardly ever done anything as on his own cant he plan a normal bday party also on his own without anyone's help n shilpa wht to say she has become obssessed with that diary and riddhima well wud not like to say anything abt her as she is a gone case according to me if she had ever loved n understood armaan she wud have not asked him to attend her bday party as she cud understand tht it will coz him immense pain to stand there n look ridz enjoyin her bday with sid

Originally posted by: aangelis

i had doubts about making this post but i decided to make it. many of us had made assumptions before the episode aired and said that armaan needs to simply move on and he needs to stop crying over spilled milk but seriously, do you really think after being reminded day after day about the times he has had with riddhima is going to help him move on? true, its neither sid's fault or shilpa's fault that armaan had to go through his most favorite memory as a bystander while his love relived the memory with someone else. but at the same time, sid and riddhima have to realize that armaan can't always be there to take part in their happiness. riddhima easily said, all my friends will be there, ill be happy if you're there too. woman, you left him? y do u expect him to care about your happiness? you're living a merry little life with your husband but can't you see his pain. you've known him for 3 years right and honestly, you've taken advantage of these three years. you know he would do anything for your happiness so lets just give him a little emotional blackmail and get him to come so he can see me happy. puh-leeze.

a lot of us were saying, oooo he ruined sid's party. boo hoo hoo. he didn't want to come to begin with. if it wasn't for riddhima, he would've never went. besides, if anyone ruined this party, it was sid and shilpa. true, they didn't realize what they were doing but regardless, they're the ones putting him through the most pain right now. sid can't do anything by himself and shilpa can't keep her mouth shut. y doesn't sid man up and do something for riddhima that he has thought up himself! why does he hav to go around asking for help? he married her! he should figure out what he wants to do for her or give her. true, shilpa isnt aware she's reading armaan's diary but seriously, if she doesn't know who's it is, she needs to stop blabbing about it to everyone else. it could be anyone's and not everyone is interested in what she has to say, so just shut it sometimes. y would u give someone an idea to sid, without knowing who's idea it was to begin with? if you're so keen on giving advice, tell him something you've thought up of!

its so easy for some of us to say, quit it already, its getting boring, move on. what is beyond our realization is that this is a man who has loved this woman with all his heart for 3 years. three long years with ups and downs, twists and turns, peaks and valleys. its not easy to forget 3 years of your life. for armaan it's like saying forget the most beautiful time period of your life. now im going to ask the forum members. if someone told you to forget the most beautiful time period of your life and simply move on, would you be able to do it? i dont think so because i know i wouldn't, especially if those memories constantly are put forth in front of me. we're human, not machines. take out the memory card and flush it down the toilet. it doesn't work that way.

im not going to say, dont bash, because i noe its going to happen regardless. i'll just say that this was a venting post. if anyone else has something to vent, go right ahead but please dont make digs at other members. thanks (:

great post dear! agree with every word you said.

👍🏼👏 I don't even need to vent out anything. u already did it for me. 👏

This week's 'bali ka bakra' - Dr. Sidhanth

Originally posted by: shamil

This week's 'bali ka bakra' - Dr. Sidhanth

congo sid👏 u have been getting this title for a while now😛

can you really blame us? if dr. sid wanted to do something for HIS wife, y did he hav to go out and ask other ppl for advice. it's HIS WIFE'S birthday. y ask shilpa what she thinks he should do? he's a doctor, he has to have brains of his own.

i agree ....why u always need someone's help every time to do something for whom u are saying u love most.....when u are in love with someone ...u will know his/her like and dilikes...may be u will plan something foolish but that person even like that if he/she loves u.....why cant u think something on yr own for love of your life.................

and shilpa how does she can just sale someone's personal moments like that without knowing that its for whom...................

Originally posted by: aangelis

can you really blame us? if dr. sid wanted to do something for HIS wife, y did he hav to go out and ask other ppl for advice. it's HIS WIFE'S birthday. y ask shilpa what she thinks he should do? he's a doctor, he has to have brains of his own.

agree with Shamil.

its pathetic to blame Sid for this. are you telling me you've NEVER asked ANY sort of advice from your family or friends regarding something you were confused about?
Shouldn't we be happy Armaan finally got a chance to let everything out? 😕
if Armaan is hurt, so is Sid. the guy had no idea something he was doing with all his heart would turn out to be such a disaster =\

agreed with amber & shamil😳