Does true love hurt?

You know guys I have been really wondering this for quite few days now actually that does true love really hurts us and cause us pain that we are just unable to see the light back to our ownselves?

There goes a quote that "true love doesn't really hurt anyone!"

but then why did it hurt ashi when yuvi was heart broken because of yamini? Why did it hurt yuvi when ashi left to london without meeting him?? Why did it hurt them during the bet moment? Why is it hurting ashi when yuvi is doing something bad like during elections?? Just why??

Why do people always call that love the greatest that has suffered the most?

Doesn't true love mean being happy with other person's happiness? Doesn't true love mean being happy just by loving someone to such an extent that there is no limits to it? Its just this one feeling of love that justifies the rest of your days...like for both AY after that bet phase!

And if love doesn't hurt then wat hurts us? What makes us sad, even if its momentarily?

I mean I know AY's love is true love...hands down and it still hurts them guys...then what is it that hurts us if its not love? Is it our illusion or expectations?

I don't know if i made myself clear or not but i would seriously love to read your viewpoint on this! I mean i think love does hurt us but it doesn't blind us to the extent that we just can't see the light in this darkness! I think that even in sad times, true love binds us with soo much of hope...so much of faith that just this feeling of love itself makes us rise from our ashes and be proud of loving someone...and that is what provides us happiness!

We might get disillusioned for a while, we might get disappointed and despaired...but i think in the end, true love just ends up with one feeling...and that is HAPPINESS! And this happiness doesn't come if the other person loves us or not...it just comes by loving someone!

Like AY did after three promises phase!

I have soo much to say...but well i would like to know your views on this!

Love,
Naps

u noe nitzzzz....love is sucha powerful emotion...it cums in varied shades n varied moods....n its capable of giving pain as well as endless joy.....

First time I'm posting my views on a topic in this forum. Nice post Nitz.

See, my views on love are absolutely different. You may call me a child, but trust me, I've seen a lot more than a child of my age should see.

True Love. In my opinion, love in itself is true. There's nothing like true love and fake love. If it's love, it's true. That's the simple axiom I go by. At times, this very love gives you strength to cope with life's toughest challenges, but at times, the same love makes you weak. With love, comes trust, understanding and sacrifice. Usually, if two people are in love, these two qualities need to be there, for a relationship to last. But by that I do not mean that having fights means they lack trust , understanding and sacrifice. Anyway, Love in any way has its ups and downs, just like life.

In case of Ashi-Yuvi, of course it's true love. But you can't really say that true love never causes pain. It does, but it is brought forward in such a way, that even if it pains, you realize, it's all worth the pain. Ashi and Yuvi were hurt in various instances, yet, what was the result? A strong bond. So in this case, the pain caused was worth it. But then there come times when a person gives up hope, and that's when love truly hurts. Because the person does not believe in themselves anymore. And that's why love hurts them. Ashi and Yuvi were lost without each other, and thus love hurt them.

So in my opinion, True love is not always a bed of roses. If it can make a person, it can also break a person. That's the strength possessed by love.

I don't know if I made sense, but this is what I personally believe.

So in my opinion, True love is not always a bed of roses. If it can make a person, it can also break a person. That's the strength possessed by love.
wow rachna...really nicely put.......ya...it can make n break a person both....

Hmm, i dunno how to word this so that it will make sense, but i feel that true love is that love which survives the pain. You can't care for someone w/o getting hurt, it's just one of those mysteries of life. Everyone we love hurts us at some point, be it our parents, our brothers and sisters, our friends. Most times they don't mean to hurt us, but they do. True love is no different. But true love is that love which can take pain and survive it, which can overcome it and grow stronger and see it through to the light again.

reserved....so that i wont forget to reply here with my amnesia.....

edit :..wow this look like question n answer thing, will b practice for my cmng xmz...i didn't go for any theory xm for last 3 months...i know, it's a lame joke

Q:does true love hurt?
A:like rachna said, there is nothing like true love or fake love, but the world today, needs the mention of 'true' along with 'love' as this word divine word is being used/misused like the way it shouldn't be....bcoz 2day the tag 'in love' has become fashion....

cmng to the actual answer, my answer is a direct 'yes'
getting hurt is an essential part of human life...without the word 'hurt' in ur life, the word 'happy' is incomplete....absolutely my POV.....hurt in ur life makes happiness more stronger

in every stage of life, both hurt n happiness are in store for us....at times one takes over the other...n we take the one which takes over....sounds silly, but i think it's true

like i said, everything in life has both hurt n happiness....frndship n love are the most imp ones in this....they can give u immense happiness n also heart break....bcoz they have our trust in them, these are the two things, which make us either the most strongest person or the most weakest person, as we have hope n desire in them


i hope i made some sense

Originally posted by: utfracks

First time I'm posting my views on a topic in this forum. Nice post Nitz.

See, my views on love are absolutely different. You may call me a child, but trust me, I've seen a lot more than a child of my age should see.

True Love. In my opinion, love in itself is true. There's nothing like true love and fake love. If it's love, it's true. That's the simple axiom I go by. At times, this very love gives you strength to cope with life's toughest challenges, but at times, the same love makes you weak. With love, comes trust, understanding and sacrifice. Usually, if two people are in love, these two qualities need to be there, for a relationship to last. But by that I do not mean that having fights means they lack trust , understanding and sacrifice. Anyway, Love in any way has its ups and downs, just like life.

In case of Ashi-Yuvi, of course it's true love. But you can't really say that true love never causes pain. It does, but it is brought forward in such a way, that even if it pains, you realize, it's all worth the pain. Ashi and Yuvi were hurt in various instances, yet, what was the result? A strong bond. So in this case, the pain caused was worth it. But then there come times when a person gives up hope, and that's when love truly hurts. Because the person does not believe in themselves anymore. And that's why love hurts them. Ashi and Yuvi were lost without each other, and thus love hurt them.

So in my opinion, True love is not always a bed of roses. If it can make a person, it can also break a person. That's the strength possessed by love.

I don't know if I made sense, but this is what I personally believe.

Originally posted by: DulceAmor

Hmm, i dunno how to word this so that it will make sense, but i feel that true love is that love which survives the pain. You can't care for someone w/o getting hurt, it's just one of those mysteries of life. Everyone we love hurts us at some point, be it our parents, our brothers and sisters, our friends. Most times they don't mean to hurt us, but they do. True love is no different. But true love is that love which can take pain and survive it, which can overcome it and grow stronger and see it through to the light again.

True love is about loving someone for all their flaws and through all the hurt they cause you. It's not being able to not have that person in your life. It's that realisation that though it might hurt to love them, though you might get separated at times, your love is stronger and will bring you back together. In the case of Ashi and Yuvi, their hurt was caused by different things at different times. During the Yamini phase, Ashi was hurt because her love didn't get fulfilled. She came back from London secretly hoping that she could forge a relationship with Yuvi, and then she saw him with another girl and it broke her heart. But her love never went away, coz she couldn't turn her back on him, she had to keep fighting for him because true love is something that never dies. She didn't ever hope to have him for her own, but she wanted to see him happy, because when he's happy, she is. In current elections phase she's hurt coz he's becoming someone she doesn't recognise, and he's hurt because she isn't supporting him and he doesn't understand why. Yet they continued to love one another coz they both know that what they have is more special and worth more than this temporary suffering.

So, yeah, i guess true love is about hope - that even though you get hurt it will all be worth it in the end, and because not having that person in your life would cause you even more pain.

Nappy 🤗

Originally posted by: -DulceMaria-

Nappy 🤗

what a question 🤗

well acc to me not having love in one's life hurts as for the pain that comes wid love, its nuthing but medals ☺️ medals of our love ☺️ wld elaborate it when m back, at work.

Natalie.

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